Libra man, are the jelous, possessive??

Once the relationship turns serious and he knows he really likes you then playful comments like that become real concerns in his mind. We hate to be controlling so sometimes issues or concerns that have to do with the other persons behavior end up coming out in a more subliminal or between the lines kind of way which can suck if it goes on to long because it can eventually build into a larger problem than it needs to be.

The problem is it is really hard to determine whether he is teasing you out of playfulness or hinting at a potential insecurity because it really can go either way with our sense of humor and play and Libra's don't like to initiate conversations about our feelings in these types of cases.

Every relationship with a Libra has an apex where the actual value of trust in the relationship is realized and it is compared to the desired value of trust. We actually hate jealousy and possessiveness especially if it is from us but we also fear the danger of pain from another person having the power that comes with caring about someone.

Until he brings up whether or not there is an issue in his mind the best thing to do is joke back with the theme of reassurance. It may seem kind of dumb but this can be a sign that he is developing really strong feelings for you and there will be a gap between you feeling the effects and him communicating it directly.

mine wasn't possessive but he could definitely be jealous. he would never act jealous when we were out but he could barely stand to hear about another guy in my life (unless it was my best friend who is a gay male; very non-threatening). even to this day, 2 years after i broke it off with him, if i mention another male he gets flustered and changed the subject. it doesn't bode well with someone like me because most of my friends are guys.

My libra guy friend is jealous and possessive with our friendship and we're ONLY FRIENDS. He does have a cancer moon though.

He makes comments here and there. Hates when I go out with my other set of friends...one guy friend in particular. BUT he refuses to introduce me to his friends (who are guys) because he says he doesnt want to be in the middle if we ever decided to hook up and then break up and he just doesnt want to be left out if we do hookup.

I think he's just selfish and wants to keep me all to himself. (i.e. Possessive)
He does try to joke it off sometimes and sometimes he does some stalker type ish then try and joke that off too...so I'm not sure if he's serious or not. BUT I say he i jealous and possessive regardless of him trying to down play it as a harmless tease.

I think its also libran attachment. Once they find something they like, they are attached and they don't release from it very easily.

Posted by Lady_M
I think its also libran attachment. Once they find something they like, they are attached and they don't release from it very easily.

I really agree with this statement. Libras are capable of being jealous even if they don't show it. If you look closely, you will see it. Sometimes I tell my baby the guys that has tried to pursue me at work and he goes like, "you are too pretty, so many guys are after you, maybe you should stay home." Don't get me wrong, my hubby trusts me, he just jokes about it but then he is also a bit insecure. He later askes me if the guys at work are hotter then him. I sometimes say yes just to tease him and other times no to stroke his ego 🙂

Yep, my libra friend watched me too. And told me in detail what I was doing every step of the way. He's crazy. He likes to say I'm stuck with him forever and he will never leave me.

We are very good friends and we became so in such a short period of time, which baffled both of us....seeing as I'm not one to open up so quickly and him neither. BUT he can be called a bestie for me now as well as I for him....although we fight like cats and dogs often lol (I'm an aqua with cancer moon)

jealous, yes possessive yes


but if you give me the time i know i deserve as well as the attention then i wont be as demanding but if my needs arent met i will continute to show signs of jealousy and that nasty p word

and thats a good sign cuz if i stop showing it that means my needs and hunger is being met elsewhere


right now he is just flirting with you to see how much time you might be willing to spend and to know exactly where he stands. And why you asked is funny b/c he lying and that lie has your mind racing, you were better off not asking b/c you were not about to get the truth its just the way things are until we feel you cna be trusted


now like i said, that is also his way of flirting cuz he knows damn well you arent his and he understands the level of friendship you two are on at the moment, but the ball is in your court so if you really want him to step his game up you could fuck with his head cuz libras way of being possessive is to b aggresive and if he feels like there is someone else he will keep fighting to get closer to you than that otha dude

yea we can be jealous and have our sly ways of possessivness

Posted by Hypnotic—
jealous ?
I can be.. depends on how much the woman is important to me..
but I don't like being jealous..
in fact, never ever try to make your libra jealous.. not a good idea..

possessive ?
not at all..
I don't see people as a property or sthg to be owned..
to me, possessiveness is a form of insecurity..

haha hell yea never make a libra jealous, we have a knack for mirroring and reflecting what is done, so if we feel jealous we might not tell you, but we will show you exactly what you did to make us jealous and laugh it off no matter how much it burns

you walk smile laugh and tug on a man, fine, we leave with a woman

Posted by Mr Nice

possessive ?
not at all..
I don't see people as a property or sthg to be owned..
to me, possessiveness is a form of insecurity..

haha hell yea never make a libra jealous, we have a knack for mirroring and reflecting what is done, so if we feel jealous we might not tell you, but we will show you exactly what you did to make us jealous and laugh it off no matter how much it burns

you walk smile laugh and tug on a man, fine, we leave with a woman



and this is a prime example of when astrology goes wrong..............





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haha i know, in its most extreme case too

I come here to know the answer cause mine is? he doesnt like other guys texting me on social media. He said block them all. And when we text , he'd get upset if I reply late (as a pisces im a lazy texter?)

Posted by Pride of 0ctober
jealous, yes possessive yes


but if you give me the time i know i deserve as well as the attention then i wont be as demanding but if my needs arent met i will continute to show signs of jealousy and that nasty p word

and thats a good sign cuz if i stop showing it that means my needs and hunger is being met elsewhere


right now he is just flirting with you to see how much time you might be willing to spend and to know exactly where he stands. And why you asked is funny b/c he lying and that lie has your mind racing, you were better off not asking b/c you were not about to get the truth its just the way things are until we feel you cna be trusted


now like i said, that is also his way of flirting cuz he knows damn well you arent his and he understands the level of friendship you two are on at the moment, but the ball is in your court so if you really want him to step his game up you could fuck with his head cuz libras way of being possessive is to b aggresive and if he feels like there is someone else he will keep fighting to get closer to you than that otha dude

yea we can be jealous and have our sly ways of possessivness

Can you tell me what would make a Libra aggressive when he said he wanted to date other women and then also said he might just get scared when he gets too close after we were together and it was nice for a year ... blah blah ... stopped responding to my text and calls so after awhile I just stopped and we hadn't spoken for over 6 months other than an occasional "happy holidays" ... I moved on and now have a new interest ... but he calls me at 11pm Sunday night cause he's at work and thinking about me and wanted to update me and said he's been thinking about me and said: "if some guy had answered my phone, he would have said FU buddy hahahahahaha" ... I just said "hahahahahaha" back and he didn't know what to say. He said he didn't want to hear any bytching from me about him not being in contact for so long. Said to text him and that he would call me yesterday but he didn't so I emailed him this morning and told him that it was best not to contact me because I am in a relationship. Why so aggressive when he has no right to be? I guess he really does think he's the biggest cheese on the rack! Any thoughts? Other than this guys sounds like a real tool ?

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Posted by Pride of 0ctober
jealous, yes possessive yes


but if you give me the time i know i deserve as well as the attention then i wont be as demanding but if my needs arent met i will continute to show signs of jealousy and that nasty p word

and thats a good sign cuz if i stop showing it that means my needs and hunger is being met elsewhere


right now he is just flirting with you to see how much time you might be willing to spend and to know exactly where he stands. And why you asked is funny b/c he lying and that lie has your mind racing, you were better off not asking b/c you were not about to get the truth its just the way things are until we feel you cna be trusted


now like i said, that is also his way of flirting cuz he knows damn well you arent his and he understands the level of friendship you two are on at the moment, but the ball is in your court so if you really want him to step his game up you could fuck with his head cuz libras way of being possessive is to b aggresive and if he feels like there is someone else he will keep fighting to get closer to you than that otha dude

yea we can be jealous and have our sly ways of possessivness

Can you tell me what would make a Libra aggressive when he said he wanted to date other women and then also said he might just get scared when he gets too close after we were together and it was nice for a year ... blah blah ... stopped responding to my text and calls so after awhile I just stopped and we hadn't spoken for over 6 months other than an occasional "happy holidays" ... I moved on and now have a new interest ... but he calls me at 11pm Sunday night cause he's at work and thinking about me and wanted to update me and said he's been thinking about me and said: "if some guy had answered my phone, he would have said FU buddy hahahahahaha" ... I just said "hahahahahaha" back and he didn't know what to say. He said he didn't want to hear any bytching from me about him not being in contact for so long. Said to text him and that he would call me yesterday but he didn't so I emailed him this morning and told him that it was best not to contact me because I am in a relationship. Why so aggressive when he has no right to be? I guess he really does think he's the biggest cheese on the rack! Any thoughts? Other than this guys sounds like a real tool ?

Libras can be complicated. You're libra sounds pretty cocky to me!! Yuck. But ignore him and he'll go look for attention else where seems like he's needy for a lot of attention.

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you are right - he was complicated, cocky and very "attention seeking" ... he is very good at what he does and I guess that makes him cocky but he also has a lot lacking when it comes to women / relationships

I will be very jealous and possessive. You will not know it though, because im "above that" sort of thing. haha.

What I like, I do not let go of, I stay fixated. You will be mine. You dont have a choice.

I had my eye on a scorpio ex for almost two years. He eventually was mine. I set it up like a goal. Long term plan. I wont even tell you the lengths I went. hahahaha. I left him cold turkey though after 4 years.

Im VERY obsessive. But only my closest friends know the extent. My SO never know.

Some libra are very indecisive as to what they need and want and they can't commit ? % right away they need patience and many people lack patience so they jump from relationship to relationship looking to just be loved and understood.



I knew that about him and I have a tremendous amount of patience - and we did well for over a year - but he started fucking up and saying things as if to push me away and although I never said anything to him at all - I just left him slide away and I went on my merry way - yes, hurting but hey ... what could I do ... so someone else found me and now he thinks he can just slide back in and do the same thing again ? No - I'm not going backwards. What he told me on the phone the other night is what I had already suspected - nothing has changed - he was going to make all these changes and then everything was going to be better. Nothing has changed at all.

I'll stick with the current and consistent Libra who hasn't left me hanging one minute in 5 months. He is also making changes to be with me but this once is actually doing it. That means the world to me - he's an action Libra man!

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I will be very jealous and possessive. You will not know it though, because im "above that" sort of thing. haha.

What I like, I do not let go of, I stay fixated. You will be mine. You dont have a choice.

I had my eye on a scorpio ex for almost two years. He eventually was mine. I set it up like a goal. Long term plan. I wont even tell you the lengths I went. hahahaha. I left him cold turkey though after 4 years.

Oh my lawd you're a true leeb!!

Runnnn men !! Lol kidding .

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I just dont have a wandering eye at all. If I like someone I will not stop. hahaha

I am extremely possessive of Aquarius and Gemini lovers.