Libra Man confused and deeply in love

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Ok, here's the problem, I have been dating a cancer woman for about a year now, but due to circumstances beyond my control, i was forced to move. We both do love each other and are very compatible, but the thing is right now we're so very far apart. Although sometime this year i'm expected to move closer. But at the same time i think she has someone else, because she doesn't really act like she cares as much as me, and she doesn't say it as much as i would need as assurance that she cares. I myself am an uncurable romantic, and i let her know how i feel always, but she always kinda holds back! I'm so confused! Does she love me still or what? I mean she every now and then drops hints that she does, and then sometimes she acts like she doesn't. Although she assures me that we will be together when i move, i'm still unsure if she has someone replacing me for the moment. If she does then i would be deeply hurt, because i truly do love her alot! I mean i haven't seen her in like 4 months. I don't know if it's a Cancer thing, or a woman thing! Please help me out i'm seriously confused.
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Libra Man,

Well I can understand why you might be confused by the mixed signals you are getting, but I think the cure for your confusion is to try to have the best communication with your female Cancerian mater as possible.

I am a Water Sign (Scorpio), and I can relate to her holding back her feelings from you at times. She probably even seems moody sometimes too. It is because she is afraid to tell you how she feels because she wants to know that if she tells you, that you will still be there for her the next day. We have to feel like we are getting as much love as we are giving, and if we don't feel it 100% of the time, we withdraw and hide our emotions because it makes us feel safe.

I know that doesn't make much sense, but in simple terms, OPEN UP TO HER. Tell her how much you love her (I am sure you already have many times), but then ask her (put her on the spot) ask her exactly how she feels about you.

Let me know what happens. If she doesn't love you as much as you need her to, or if her secretive ways drive you crazy, it is possible that you and she are just not compatible.

COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE!
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dear libra, I am a libra man who had experience with cancer lady, I will tell you everything. Forget it, it can never work out. If you do not like what I say I can understand But you will face it and it will be reality. However If you want to play with her she really likes that, ignore her, she will go hiiii, she loves it. Cancer is very not open person, and will only show her fake angel side. But you are real.* Libra & Cancer: These two are complete opposites and this only causes problems, problems, and more problems.
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I am a libra woman who was married to a cancer man for 14 years. The first seven years was wonderful for the exception that he was not social for the exception of his family. We did socialize with his parents, brothers and sisters and offspring.
But then something happened in the eighth year. He became distant. His mother died. That seemed to be the start of the emotional distance. The intimacy was gone immediately. From hot to cold. During the next 7 years we became two individuals. I left. He wanted me to at least stay married and just separate, but I could not see the point since there was nothing left.
That does not mean that no lib/cancer relationship should be tried. The first seven years was truly wonderful. I do not regret a moment or the two wonderful children that came to us. They are a joy to both of us even now that we are in our later years.