@tbaad
11 Years
Libra man doesn't want to have relationship with m
What did you not understand about him not wanting to have a relationship with you?
Don't chase him. You could potentially end up frustrated and hurt.
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I met that Libra guy about a year ago. We play in the same team and the first time he saw me he looked like he liked me straight away. He was always different to me, he helped me transporting and building my furniture, he was always there when I needed him. He would check on me if I am safe home. Some months ago he started chatting to me more and more until it became a daily thing. But every time we see each other he couldn't look me in the eyes. He came one evening to my place and then it happened. He was massaging me as my back was sore and I kissed him. He looked like blocked but he did try before that and there was a hair on my face. Since then things got worst, he became more and more reserved, shy and me the same. We were chatting every day but I didn't want to put him under pressure and because I am too shy myself I became also more serious. From two people that constantly laugh and joke we became reserved and serious. I texted him last week that we need to talk. He came to my place and said he is not feeling it right now and he is totally overloaded with work and other stuff and it is hard for him to begin a relationship when everything is a mess. He has to sort his stuff. I was shocked but I got it. I was very disappointed because he risked our friendship. I didn't make any scenes just told him I got the wrong signals and let my guards down but I understand that we can't push people to like us. He did looked very stressed. The day after we met at volley and he looked terrible. We met at twice due to birthdays and he was nervous again. He is trying to be nice but I cant look him in the eyes after this disappointment. Every time I smile his jaw is frozen. I can tell he feels terrible. He is a Libra man with Moon and Venus in Virgo. He is OCD and I really mean it. He freaks out when things don't go his way. I would like to make things work with him as I think he is a nice guy. We never argued and the moments we spent together were so harmonious. Anyone has an idea whats going on? He also told me there is nothing else and no one else. I don't chat with him anymore, I stopped any contact, just when we see each other due to sport or common friends. Hope being apart will help.