Libra man with a lot of Scorpio - information need

Dear all lovely people,

I have began dating (since i'm not from the USA i need to add that dates here lead to either a relationship or you get the idea the guy only wants sex ) 37year old Libra. I'm a Sag, venus in Capricorn so I am extra cautios.
He's really sweet and gentleman, with manners,works 2h away from the city, and most of the time he spends away for work 😢
The first time we met and sat down for drinks I could see in his face, gestures and little compliments how much he likes me, and later on that he enjoys my company. Next time - the same.
He kissed my hand both times for goodbye, I kissed him on the cheeks -- he had a big big smile 🙂 I do seem very reserved physically, so I suppose the gestures were a sign he's interested. Next date is set for tomorrow.
He texts - every day, but depends on the workhours they vary from 1 to 20 (I am the same)

I never initiate seeing him (the dates are planned in advance, including the first, and at the middle of a date he sets another date) nor text, but I reply in a sag manner (bunch of info 🙂 )

The problem is, I have dealt with scorpio venus or mars. Those guys were secretive a lot. I couldn't relax with them.

With this guy, I feel relaxed, conversation flows, he's not pushing for intimacy, he really seems into me and interested. So of course I am wondering is this for real— 🙂

I just wish I don't discover he has another girl somewhere 😄 but with his work hours if he does he's a superman 😄

Here is his chart:

Sun Libra 20.45
Moon Pisces 27.35
Mercury Scorpio 0.23
Venus Scorpio 22.32
Mars Scorpio 16.51
Jupiter Leo 6.18
Saturn Virgo 9.43
Uranus Scorpio 15.08
Neptune Sagittarius 16.09
Pluto Libra 16.48
Lilith Leo 0.05
Asc node Virgo 26.37

And mine

Sun Sagittarius 29.16
Moon Pisces 5.02
Mercury Capricorn 16.11
Venus Capricorn 10.50
Mars Aquarius 8.45
Jupiter Scorpio 29.04
Saturn Scorpio 2.06
Uranus Sagittarius 6.21
Neptune Sagittarius 26.52
Pluto Libra 29.01
Lilith Capricorn 20.25
Asc node Cancer 4.10

It seems we're extremely compatible.... but that mars/venus in scorp.....? What do you libras say?

Hi,
My best friend of many years is a Libra man with Scorpio in Venus, Mars and his North Node. Looking at both of your charts, I can tell you that it is NOT likely to work out unless you both put in a lot of work. My friend's ex-girlfriend actually had the same Venus and Mars as you do. Their relationship was a mostly miserable 2 years, but really, it should've ended a year ago. The Libra guy tried his hardest to make it work, but your love, communication and action/conflict resolution styles are too different. They had a lot of arguments, loneliness, and even violence and ended up going through a terrible break-up.

Libras with Scorpio influences, especially in Venus, Mars and Moon, can be demanding, jealous, possessive, explosive and very insecure. It will feel smothering to you because you have a detached love style where you like to keep your emotions under control. Scorpios get passionate, but not in the romantic way that most people tend to think. By passionate, I mean they get easily offended, jealous and there will be power struggles. (I was married to a Scorpio and will never again!).

I am a Taurus near the Aries cusp by the way, with a lot of Fire in my planets. He tells me everything, so if you have any more questions, feel free to ask. Cheers!

He's mailing me songs, romantic ones 😄

I told him I love them... he's like: so I am guessing your wishes and doing everything right everything so far?

🙂

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And thanks for the answers guys! I am not worried yet about how I will handle him and the scorpio side, I was more concerned if he's seeing someone else too