Libra Men showing off

I have a friend who is a Libra and despite all we have been through we have mutually agreed to just be friends since we both value that relationship we have. But I feel that after we put a stop to anything going further, he still constantly shows off to me, as to try to impress me.

We have since dated other people and he now is getting to know another girl but he still video chats with me constantly when we aren't hanging out and fishes for my compliments almost. It's as if he still looks for my approval on things!

I love him to death because we have always been close friends but if showing off is a trait of him still having feelings for me, I really want to nip it in the butt before I have a to resort to confrontation which he is not fond of.

No it's a trait of an insecure man trying to boost his ego.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
No it's a trait of an insecure man trying to boost his ego.

YES IE a libra

btw its women signs who have this [ Earth , water , libra ]

Posted by rockyroadicecream
No it's a trait of an insecure man trying to boost his ego.

lmao....wish it weren't an unofficial libra trait.

Posted by Sugarfoot
Don't men commonly try to show off to women? Why does it mean they're insecure? And just food for thought, yes he probably still has feelings for you. If he liked you in the past in a more than friendly way, then yea. That would make sense. So, you probably do want to nip that in the bud.

Posted by leahness15
he still constantly shows off to me, as to try to impress me.

fishes for my compliments almost. It's as if he still looks for my approval on things!

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Very insecure and immature way to behave.

Learn from my mistake and just cut the cord. I understand women wanting to put a guy down easily (both because you're being kind and for some guys it's a safety issue for you), but it really just leads to issues. I have a friend who does this fairly often, meets a guy and then decides that he isn't bf material. She does the nice thing of saying hey it's not working out, but adds the lets just be friends. It's been my experience that this really doesn't work out for either party. On the female side you have this guy who likes you (probably still likes you) who you're basically stuck with when you really just didn't want to destroy him. On the guy side depending on what you said he might be thinking you're playing hard to get or if I hang in there she'll see. Having been on that side of it I know she won't see because you two weren't compatible. I don't tend to believe there is someone for everyone, but there is definitely someone who would enjoy your company as more then a friend.

So cut your losses and just stop talking with this guy. You're doing yourself and him a favor. I've recently been doing this, where if she gives me enough hints that we're becoming friends then I stop bothering. Sucks initially, but ultimately I've been way happier by not being stuck as a friend with someone I wanted more from.