Libra moons (Page 2)

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I'm a libra moon and I'm an emotion mess on the inside. I'm insecure, but I'm in love with myself, I really feel like in a relationship equal effort has to be put forth from both parties, I like compliments, I give compliments. Most of the time my emotions are balanced. When a scale tips though I feel extremely sensitive, I just want to be loved. I try my best to be a good person and be there for people. There's other things but I think those come from my cap sun so I won't mention them.

I like the "I'm insecure but I'm in love with myself" , that's exactly my friend !! Yea he's not Cap he's Aries

Hahahaha it's true. If anything I'm insecure because I feel like everyone should love me as much as I love myself. It doesn't click in my head that I'm not for everyone. I just assume I am. Hey aries are cool. They have great energy. I bet his temper can get crazy with the aries sun Libra moon. I have a hard time with it as a cap.

are you serious— That it's hard for you to understand you're not for everyone? I think that just means you don't respect people's individuality and maybe not even your own.

To be for everyone means to be as plain as vanilla. And you won't find everyone in love with vanilla. Some will just tolerate vanilla. And i'm not sure if that's a good way to be.

By that I mean I'm generally nice to everyone, I'm a kind person. I do get kind of shocked when I realize I'm not for everyone because I'm generally a very positive person,most people do like me. I feel like I have a lot to offer. That's just how it is. I know I'm not for everyone. Just like everyone isn't for me. That doesn't mean that I don't feel for the most part really good about myself. You can call me an illogical Daisy for that I suppose. I just notice people tend to gravitate when you put put lots of positive energy you get positive people. If you're doom and gloom you probably have a lot of negative encounters. I very rarely have those so yeah it does kind of shock me. Also to be classified with vanilla is just silly. I'm more of a neopolatine I got a little something for everyone .

Feeling really good about yourself aka being confident doesn't mean that you're for everyone. It just means you're confident in yourself despite being or not being for everyone.

may be we're thinking of different things when we say "for everyone".

I meant in some form I have something good to give to everyone I encounter. Whether it's friendship, advice, help with something, a relationship, a fling. There's only a couple of people that I can think of where I know they just dislike me. It's from a place of jealousy. It's sad to say but that's what it is. What did you mean?

For everyone I took as to click with everyone. If someone is a positive person I would say yes they might get along with most people but to click with someone or have chemistry with them would mean that something unique in you matches something unique in them. You can't click with someone deeply if your substance is so generic that you get along with everyone.

What you said sounded like conformity. Maybe I misunderstood you... but if you're the type of person to stand up for SOMETHING you will definitely find some people who will not like you for it.

What i'm trying to say can be summarized by these quotes:

"You have enemies? Good. That means you stood up for something sometime in your life" - Winston Churchill

"The reward of conformity is that everyone likes you but yourself"

"If everyone likes you, you're probably not saying much" etc...

I just let people be who they are, and I am who I am. I don't try to force who I am or my ways of thinking upon anyone else. It's all about perspective. You can keep trying to box me if you'd like , but you can't box people. You can call it conformity if you'd like, I call it being evolved. Understanding that while I have my right to believe what I believe and feel the way I feel , others do as well even if we vary in opinion or ideals I can still respect them as a person because those things don't make up everything about them. I do believe that sometimes that you do have to fight for what you believe in. I do when that's the case. I'm not going to fight against something that doesn't suit me but suits someone else though.

Newton's laws : for every action there is an opposite to equal reaction.

Now when I say this I mean you have to be aware of the consequences of what you fight for. Trying to achieve​ one thing may cause chaos. By this for example. If a bunch of people like myself who do not believe in religion fought to have religion removed (because I believe that a greater unity of people less judgement can be achieved through this. ) Action. Now reaction let's say it's accomplished people now are stripped of a right to worship however it may be. People then believe there are no consequences for what they do in this life , or they may rise up. Moral of the story while you don't agree because it doesn't fit in your box doesn't mean that it doesn't work or do what it's supposed to. It's just better to respect difference and come together as a whole than divide.

I think you misunderstood.

If you are the same to everyone or somewhat similar to everyone in behaviour and action, I think it can be difficult for any individual to want to form a strong bond with you.

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To clarify what's being assumed is that if I treat everyone the same and act the same way around everyone equal everything across all boards then how can I expect to form a genuine bond with someone? If that's the question then I wouldn't. I can respect someone and still be friendly even though we have differences. I don't treat all people with the same level of affection. I don't show all of who I am to everyone , I have layers, only certain people get to see certain ones. However, I do generally treat everyone with somewhat the same level of respect. Unless given a personal reason not to. It's called hospitality and human compassion. It's a weird thing that happens but you're a lot more likely to make friends if you're respectful of each other's individuality. I am always myself, I have different layers though for different people. To fully answer your question, or clear up any misunderstanding of WHO I AM on my end. It's weird you guys jumped to all that with out asking me any real questions but based assumptions off a sentence like " I feel like I have something to offer everyone , and I feel like everyone should love me " of course I feel that way. I think I'm great. What's not to love(doesn't have to be romantic, before you even pick that apart.)?

I'm a Libra Moon and I love to be around people and be social. I can get along with almost anyone but if someone rubs me the wrong way initially I'm a bit cautious but I'll still try once more because I don't believe in judging a book by its cover.

I'm really friendly and generally always in a good mood. I can get annoyed easy with stupidity and immaturity. In relationships I can be really clingy and become emotionally dependent on my partner (not sure if that's the venus and mars in cancer though).

When I was younger I was def the type to ALWAYS need and want someone around with me to do simple things like to go the shops etc. As I've gotten older I've learnt and become used to doing things alone. I can go through periods where I hibernate and dissapear. People will call and text (fam, friends, possible suitors lol) but I'll just ignore everyone. This usually only happens though when I have some sort of emotional issue going on and I just feel like being completely alone until I'm ready to be my happy go lucky self again. I don't like people seeing me be emotional and vulnerable unless it's my partner and even then it would only be after a lot of trust and if I couldn't control my feelings.

I catch feelings quick for people but has to be the right type of person. I usually know straight away if I'm going to click with someone and if not, I won't continue to bother or make an effort. I am def a people pleaser and bend over backwards big time for my partners. I'm always wanting to please and cater to them in whatever way possible and def sacrifice my own needs to make sure my partner is 100% which sucks because I end up resenting them and I suck at communicating how I truly feel. I feel "embarrased".

I don't really like talking about my feelings at all... I'm much colder in friendships than with partners. I def NEED to be 50/50 well at least I need my partner to be fair with me. When I feel like I'm doing too much, and my partner is just take take take - it really hurts and pisses me off and I don't really mention it until i've bottled it all up and theres a trigger and BAM I turn. Doesn't help I'm a Gem sun with Gem merc because I end up saying really nasty hurtful shit and my partner ends up in complete shock as they had no idea of how I was feeling.

I'm def hot and cold also... but once I fall in love I'm all in. When it comes to love and feelings i'm either obsessed with you or I don't give a fuck.

I've been told I'm charming more than once. I'm gay but I still attract probably more men that women. I'm not feminine at all but I'm not butch either. I dress well and like to think I have a decent idea of fashion and can pull an outfit together. I don't have a major urge to be liked but if someone has an issue toward me and it's someone I care about, I'll try my very best and hardest to resolve it no matter what. If it's someone I don't know then I couldn't really care less. I'm also a libra asc....

Ooo forgot to add I can be insanely jealous when I have feelings for someone or I'm in a relationship. I'm extremely territorial also. The way I see it is your mine and mine only if you're going to be with me and I like it when my partner makes it known they are with me and when they show me off to a degree.

I hate being centre of attention unless I've put myself in that spotlight/position. If I'm made centre of attention without seeking it, I freak out, become really shy and self concious and nervous lol.

When single I usually have a fair amount of people I'll be speaking to and or seeing BUT I don't sleep with them. I only really sleep with someone I'm in a relationship with or if I have reaaallly strong feelings for but even then, it takes a longgggg time for me to have sex. I love to flirt and I'm pretty damn good at it! I can def lead people on and have before and then I've dropped them when something else catches my attention and I'll focus on that one person.

When I catch feelings for someone though I only have eyes for them and no one else really can catch my attention during this period. However I'll still flirt with others just for the fun of it. Umm that's all I can think of for now... (:

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Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
To clarify what's being assumed is that if I treat everyone the same and act the same way around everyone equal everything across all boards then how can I expect to form a genuine bond with someone? If that's the question then I wouldn't. I can respect someone and still be friendly even though we have differences. I don't treat all people with the same level of affection. I don't show all of who I am to everyone , I have layers, only certain people get to see certain ones. However, I do generally treat everyone with somewhat the same level of respect. Unless given a personal reason not to. It's called hospitality and human compassion. It's a weird thing that happens but you're a lot more likely to make friends if you're respectful of each other's individuality. I am always myself, I have different layers though for different people. To fully answer your question, or clear up any misunderstanding of WHO I AM on my end. It's weird you guys jumped to all that with out asking me any real questions but based assumptions off a sentence like " I feel like I have something to offer everyone , and I feel like everyone should love me " of course I feel that way. I think I'm great. What's not to love(doesn't have to be romantic, before you even pick that apart.)?

No, what I said was:

"If you are the same to everyone or somewhat similar to everyone in behaviour and action, I think it can be difficult for any individual to want to form a strong bond with you."

The difference is the point of view. I'm talking about from the perspective of the other person. The problem is when you are trying to put effort into maintaining platonic connections with everyone, the other party sometimes doesn't see you the same way you see them. Some people will try to get to know you. Some will treat you as a friend but may forget about you once you are out of sight. Some may try to use you under the guise of friendship.

To some, the interaction may not have suggested that there's something special that exists between you and that other person, in their point of view. So for those, they probably aren't really trying to connect with you, more than on a superficial level (more than hi, bye, and catch up over coffee). Doing things like standing up for someone, makes you stand out in their eyes. But standing up for someone usually means you are in conflict with someone else.

I think that's what the initial point was. Sometimes in order to connect with anyone on a deeper level, you are likely not gonna able to get along with everyone.

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I agree. I only do it when necessary and only when it comes to people I really care about. Idc enough to fight over every single person I come in contact with. I'll console them if they're sad. My friends know they are the most important I tell them all the time, and if I hang out with you one on one you know you're important​. I spend my weekends and free time with the same people. If they don't feel important by now then they are an idiot. I've literally had the same best friends since I was 15-22 till now. If I'm into someone or in a relationship I go out of my way to make them feel special. So I mean I have levels of how I treat people. It's obvious bc I go out of my way for those people. It's not hi bye coffee. As for letting someone "use" me I tend to sort out those people fairly quickly. I don't grace them with my presence.

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I'm a Libra Moon and I love to be around people and be social. I can get along with almost anyone but if someone rubs me the wrong way initially I'm a bit cautious but I'll still try once more because I don't believe in judging a book by its cover.

I'm really friendly and generally always in a good mood. I can get annoyed easy with stupidity and immaturity. In relationships I can be really clingy and become emotionally dependent on my partner (not sure if that's the venus and mars in cancer though).

When I was younger I was def the type to ALWAYS need and want someone around with me to do simple things like to go the shops etc. As I've gotten older I've learnt and become used to doing things alone. I can go through periods where I hibernate and dissapear. People will call and text (fam, friends, possible suitors lol) but I'll just ignore everyone. This usually only happens though when I have some sort of emotional issue going on and I just feel like being completely alone until I'm ready to be my happy go lucky self again. I don't like people seeing me be emotional and vulnerable unless it's my partner and even then it would only be after a lot of trust and if I couldn't control my feelings.

I catch feelings quick for people but has to be the right type of person. I usually know straight away if I'm going to click with someone and if not, I won't continue to bother or make an effort. I am def a people pleaser and bend over backwards big time for my partners. I'm always wanting to please and cater to them in whatever way possible and def sacrifice my own needs to make sure my partner is 100% which sucks because I end up resenting them and I suck at communicating how I truly feel. I feel "embarrased".

I don't really like talking about my feelings at all... I'm much colder in friendships than with partners. I def NEED to be 50/50 well at least I need my partner to be fair with me. When I feel like I'm doing too much, and my partner is just take take take - it really hurts and pisses me off and I don't really mention it until i've bottled it all up and theres a trigger and BAM I turn. Doesn't help I'm a Gem sun with Gem merc because I end up saying really nasty hurtful shit and my partner ends up in complete shock as they had no idea of how I was feeling.

I'm def hot and cold also... but once I fall in love I'm all in. When it comes to love and feelings i'm either obsessed with you or I don't give a fuck.

I've been told I'm charming more than once. I'm gay but I still attract probably more men that women. I'm not feminine at all but I'm not butch either. I dress well and like to think I have a decent idea of fashion and can pull an outfit together. I don't have a major urge to be liked but if someone has an issue toward me and it's someone I care about, I'll try my very best and hardest to resolve it no matter what. If it's someone I don't know then I couldn't really care less. I'm also a libra asc....

I'm liking the detailed description, thank u !!

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Ooo forgot to add I can be insanely jealous when I have feelings for someone or I'm in a relationship. I'm extremely territorial also. The way I see it is your mine and mine only if you're going to be with me and I like it when my partner makes it known they are with me and when they show me off to a degree.

I hate being centre of attention unless I've put myself in that spotlight/position. If I'm made centre of attention without seeking it, I freak out, become really shy and self concious and nervous lol.

When single I usually have a fair amount of people I'll be speaking to and or seeing BUT I don't sleep with them. I only really sleep with someone I'm in a relationship with or if I have reaaallly strong feelings for but even then, it takes a longgggg time for me to have sex. I love to flirt and I'm pretty damn good at it! I can def lead people on and have before and then I've dropped them when something else catches my attention and I'll focus on that one person.

When I catch feelings for someone though I only have eyes for them and no one else really can catch my attention during this period. However I'll still flirt with others just for the fun of it. Umm that's all I can think of for now... (:

U do sound like a Gemini ?

My person has a Libra moon.



My personality Is Peaceful [Balanced].

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Posted by SofiaV87

Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
I'm a libra moon and I'm an emotion mess on the inside. I'm insecure, but I'm in love with myself, I really feel like in a relationship equal effort has to be put forth from both parties, I like compliments, I give compliments. Most of the time my emotions are balanced. When a scale tips though I feel extremely sensitive, I just want to be loved. I try my best to be a good person and be there for people. There's other things but I think those come from my cap sun so I won't mention them.

I like the "I'm insecure but I'm in love with myself" , that's exactly my friend !! Yea he's not Cap he's Aries

Hahahaha it's true. If anything I'm insecure because I feel like everyone should love me as much as I love myself. It doesn't click in my head that I'm not for everyone. I just assume I am. Hey aries are cool. They have great energy. I bet his temper can get crazy with the aries sun Libra moon. I have a hard time with it as a cap.

are you serious— That it's hard for you to understand you're not for everyone? I think that just means you don't respect people's individuality and maybe not even your own.

To be for everyone means to be as plain as vanilla. And you won't find everyone in love with vanilla. Some will just tolerate vanilla. And i'm not sure if that's a good way to be.

By that I mean I'm generally nice to everyone, I'm a kind person. I do get kind of shocked when I realize I'm not for everyone because I'm generally a very positive person,most people do like me. I feel like I have a lot to offer. That's just how it is. I know I'm not for everyone. Just like everyone isn't for me. That doesn't mean that I don't feel for the most part really good about myself. You can call me an illogical Daisy for that I suppose. I just notice people tend to gravitate when you put put lots of positive energy you get positive people. If you're doom and gloom you probably have a lot of negative encounters. I very rarely have those so yeah it does kind of shock me. Also to be classified with vanilla is just silly. I'm more of a neopolatine I got a little something for everyone .

Feeling really good about yourself aka being confident doesn't mean that you're for everyone. It just means you're confident in yourself despite being or not being for everyone.

may be we're thinking of different things when we say "for everyone".

I meant in some form I have something good to give to everyone I encounter. Whether it's friendship, advice, help with something, a relationship, a fling. There's only a couple of people that I can think of where I know they just dislike me. It's from a place of jealousy. It's sad to say but that's what it is. What did you mean?

For everyone I took as to click with everyone. If someone is a positive person I would say yes they might get along with most people but to click with someone or have chemistry with them would mean that something unique in you matches something unique in them. You can't click with someone deeply if your substance is so generic that you get along with everyone.

What you said sounded like conformity. Maybe I misunderstood you... but if you're the type of person to stand up for SOMETHING you will definitely find some people who will not like you for it.

What i'm trying to say can be summarized by these quotes:

"You have enemies? Good. That means you stood up for something sometime in your life" - Winston Churchill

"The reward of conformity is that everyone likes you but yourself"

"If everyone likes you, you're probably not saying much" etc...

I just let people be who they are, and I am who I am. I don't try to force who I am or my ways of thinking upon anyone else. It's all about perspective. You can keep trying to box me if you'd like , but you can't box people. You can call it conformity if you'd like, I call it being evolved. Understanding that while I have my right to believe what I believe and feel the way I feel , others do as well even if we vary in opinion or ideals I can still respect them as a person because those things don't make up everything about them. I do believe that sometimes that you do have to fight for what you believe in. I do when that's the case. I'm not going to fight against something that doesn't suit me but suits someone else though.

Newton's laws : for every action there is an opposite to equal reaction.

Now when I say this I mean you have to be aware of the consequences of what you fight for. Trying to achieve​ one thing may cause chaos. By this for example. If a bunch of people like myself who do not believe in religion fought to have religion removed (because I believe that a greater unity of people less judgement can be achieved through this. ) Action. Now reaction let's say it's accomplished people now are stripped of a right to worship however it may be. People then believe there are no consequences for what they do in this life , or they may rise up. Moral of the story while you don't agree because it doesn't fit in your box doesn't mean that it doesn't work or do what it's supposed to. It's just better to respect difference and come together as a whole than divide.

Ok I appreciate your detailed response. However, that was a like 180 from what I was saying. I am not trying to box you...um who am I to do that and I never said to force your perspective on anyone but stating the point that merely having a different perspective can be enough reason for people not to be "for you". And if you want to be liked by literally everyone it would mean not to have a perspective. Although you are "evolved" and respect "everyone" that does not mean they feel the same way about you unless you literally have zero perspective to offer and agree with everything then yes everyone will like you because you're just a mirror nodding back at them.

*NOTE: when i say the word "you" i dont mean personally YOU but as a generic pronoun instead of the word ONE.

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Oh no I get it. I mean I would doubt any connections I made with someone based on something if I hear or see them contradicting theirself with someone else. That just means they aren't being who they are. I won't call them on it. I'd definitely make a mental note. I'm not going to lie sometimes my perspective has been changed if I find what the other person and their conclusion is better than the one I had. That's probably my efficiency cap in me though. Always wanting the smarter better option. Growth ya know. I agree with you , I don't believe anyone can make any real bonds based on that point of view and that kind of situation. You have to be consistent or else your sincerity is in question.