I've been with my libra man for about 9 months. Before that he was with a Pisces for 6 years. From what I've been told she was controlling and abusive, physically and mentally. He finally broke up with her after she followed him to a bar and punched him 10 times in the face in a parking lot. We got together shortly after that. Things were perfect until a friend told him she had a tinder profile. He was really upset and fell into a depression. I spilt up with him to give him space to process and get rid of her things and all that (this was 2 months into our relationship) I told him I didn't think he was really over her.
After 2 weeks he came back saying how much he missed me and wanted to be with me and that he talked to her because she was begging him, saying how she's changed, but he only wanted me.
Since then we've been great. He has me very involved with his friends, his family, even his co-workers. He brags about me constantly and makes sure to text me throughout the day and tell me how much he loves me.
His ex still tries to talk to him. He tells me he usually doesn't respond, but I don't like it. I don't think she knows about me. Her Facebook is nothing but pictures of them together. I asked him when he was going to block her and it ended up being a big argument. He said he'd delete her number but didn't see the point in blocking someone who isn't harassing him.
Being a leo, this makes no sence to me. Block and move on. Because he fought so hard i told him we were done. He finally agreed he would block her after he gives her back the belongings she left at his place. He hasn't wanted to see her so he hasn't done it yet. So my question is, is it normal for a libra to hold onto an ex that he doesn't have feelings for? Is is this a red flag? Should i talk to her?
I know he's not leaving me or cheating with her, I just don't understand why he allows her to text him. Is it a confidence issue or a red flag that maybe he's got her on the back burner?
It seems to me you may not have been seeing him long enough to start having expectations and demands? It may not just be about her but because you are TELLING/EXPECTING him to do something, and he's rebelling. It would do good to remember he came from an abusive relationship-this is how these women can come across in the beginning...live and let live, at least for now?
He finally agreed he would block her after he gives her back the belongings she left at his place. He hasn't wanted to see her so he hasn't done it yet.
Clever.
Dear, LEO
When he has healed enough to complete this
most FINAL task, then maybe he will be ready
to be exclusive.
Telling him this (not in anger) is in no way an
ultimatum.
It's about you not taking a shitty deal... and
wanting the best for you both.
And you know it's a shitty deal.
You shouldn't have to insist on being the only
one-- but he's more than a little damaged.
So yeah-- no, it's not normal.
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