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Cancer moons like family oriented people, we are homebodies and like to spend time at home. He will also probably cook for you or with you. He will probably be a boob guy. Lol when he’s moody he will go inward to sulk until he’s back to feeling himself. I have a cancer moon and my ex also has a cancer moon.

I’m not Libra sun but I have Libra rising/Libra stellium

The leo mars and virgo influence makes him a bit more independent I think....the last leo mars I dealt was an extrovert.

The libra talked about his previous relationship. The girl was insecure and he dropped his female friends for her - he regrets it now. But he loved her and even took her back each time she broke up with him which was 3 times. I encouraged him to reach out to his previous female friends and explain how he had an insecure ex. He said he doesn't care anymore and won't do it.

He also had a previous talking stage where he felt like he was being suffocated bc the girl was clingy and intense, he'd wake up to 25 texts from her because he fell asleep a bit earlier. Instead of having a job or ambitions she made HIM her job. He cut her off.

I'm surprised he put up with that crap......I have no patience for that 😐
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@blackphvse 😆 .

I'm tryna be good and not say anything.. Lol

@blackphvse Bruh I'm grown just say it lol

Well my experience was toxic, tramautic and just down right awful. But I know that not every Gem / Leeb dynamic is the same. And based off what you said in your OP about him being a "respectful, gentleman" tells me that the Leeb you are dealing with is not like my experience at all, so didn't wanna taint your perception with my own expreiences. Are you really new into seeing him though? My dude put up a big front and lied a lot in the beginning to get me to like him. Was hard to let go by the time I finally found out and I spent 5 years in hell trying to make it work. All I'll say is, if you catch him lying about shit, run for the hills and don't look back.
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oh for sure....I don't have patience for lies, inconsistency or lukewarm feelings.

I thank my venus aries, its a self-centered, princessy-venus to have. If the person im with isn't completely smitten and genuine with me I walk away.
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@blackphvse 😆 .

I'm tryna be good and not say anything.. Lol

@blackphvse Bruh I'm grown just say it lol

Well my experience was toxic, tramautic and just down right awful. But I know that not every Gem / Leeb dynamic is the same. And based off what you said in your OP about him being a "respectful, gentleman" tells me that the Leeb you are dealing with is not like my experience at all, so didn't wanna taint your perception with my own expreiences. Are you really new into seeing him though? My dude put up a big front and lied a lot in the beginning to get me to like him. Was hard to let go by the time I finally found out and I spent 5 years in hell trying to make it work. All I'll say is, if you catch him lying about shit, run for the hills and don't look back.

oh for sure....I don't have patience for lies, inconsistency or lukewarm feelings.

I thank my venus aries, its a self-centered, princessy-venus to have. If the person im with isn't completely smitten and genuine with me I walk away.

That was the tricky part. He was completely smitten, but he wasn't at all genuine. There were a lot of highs and lows. Just trust your gut!
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Wow that sucks for your ex Libra wasn’t ever genuine. Just for research purposes were there any positive that the leeb contributed. Sorry again for your experience again.
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@blackphvse 😆 .

I'm tryna be good and not say anything.. Lol

@blackphvse Bruh I'm grown just say it lol

Well my experience was toxic, tramautic and just down right awful. But I know that not every Gem / Leeb dynamic is the same. And based off what you said in your OP about him being a "respectful, gentleman" tells me that the Leeb you are dealing with is not like my experience at all, so didn't wanna taint your perception with my own expreiences. Are you really new into seeing him though? My dude put up a big front and lied a lot in the beginning to get me to like him. Was hard to let go by the time I finally found out and I spent 5 years in hell trying to make it work. All I'll say is, if you catch him lying about shit, run for the hills and don't look back.

oh for sure....I don't have patience for lies, inconsistency or lukewarm feelings.

I thank my venus aries, its a self-centered, princessy-venus to have. If the person im with isn't completely smitten and genuine with me I walk away.

That was the tricky part. He was completely smitten, but he wasn't at all genuine. There were a lot of highs and lows. Just trust your gut!

Wow that sucks for your ex Libra wasn’t ever genuine. Just for research purposes were there any positive that the leeb contributed. Sorry again for your experience again.

Sometimes he made me feel like he really did care and love me. But within an hour of being sweet the other foot would drop and he'd flat out tell me to kill myself.. Like I said, a lot of highs and lows. When he was nice to me, it was really good.. but it never lasted more than a day or even a few hours before he'd start being nasty. But that was due to his own issues within himself, I knew that, I just thought that if he saw me being consistent and always being there for him, things would change, but they didn't.
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Regardless of zodiac sign placement, if someone says that to you they should be dropped. Thats not even a leeb thing, he sounds like a shit person. Gross.
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It's all about balance, don't be too much of anything. And be independent.

Libras love love but in a superficial way, if that suffocates them they'll easily detach, I know one mistake Geminis can make with libras, forgetting about them.

Yeah I have my own priorities and hobbies. I'm good on that.

@GenerousLeeb How do I know if a libra man has fallen for me? the signs?

I mostly have experience with earth sign men....never dealt with a libra man before.
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It's all about balance, don't be too much of anything. And be independent.

Libras love love but in a superficial way, if that suffocates them they'll easily detach, I know one mistake Geminis can make with libras, forgetting about them.

Yeah I have my own priorities and hobbies. I'm good on that.

@GenerousLeeb How do I know if a libra man has fallen for me? the signs?

I mostly have experience with earth sign men....never dealt with a libra man before.

Well I'm a Libra woman and if I like someone I get flirty and I show them that I'm interested, I check on them and make sure to have time for them, but I don't show that much it's a push and pull, if I fall for someone that's another story, I guess this is when my Taurus moon kicks in, I become very possessive, and jealous.

Gemini and Libra is a good match at least for me, you'll have a friend before anything else.
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I guess once he falls for me his cancer moon will kick in?
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It's all about balance, don't be too much of anything. And be independent.

Libras love love but in a superficial way, if that suffocates them they'll easily detach, I know one mistake Geminis can make with libras, forgetting about them.

Yeah I have my own priorities and hobbies. I'm good on that.

@GenerousLeeb How do I know if a libra man has fallen for me? the signs?

I mostly have experience with earth sign men....never dealt with a libra man before.

Well I'm a Libra woman and if I like someone I get flirty and I show them that I'm interested, I check on them and make sure to have time for them, but I don't show that much it's a push and pull, if I fall for someone that's another story, I guess this is when my Taurus moon kicks in, I become very possessive, and jealous.

Gemini and Libra is a good match at least for me, you'll have a friend before anything else.

I guess once he falls for me his cancer moon will kick in?
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His Cancer moon is probably dragging him down by being not so outgoing or forthcoming.

I've had a couple of Libra guys interested and they are very direct. But maybe it's a guy thing.
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It's all about balance, don't be too much of anything. And be independent.

Libras love love but in a superficial way, if that suffocates them they'll easily detach, I know one mistake Geminis can make with libras, forgetting about them.

Yeah I have my own priorities and hobbies. I'm good on that.

@GenerousLeeb How do I know if a libra man has fallen for me? the signs?

I mostly have experience with earth sign men....never dealt with a libra man before.

Well I'm a Libra woman and if I like someone I get flirty and I show them that I'm interested, I check on them and make sure to have time for them, but I don't show that much it's a push and pull, if I fall for someone that's another story, I guess this is when my Taurus moon kicks in, I become very possessive, and jealous.

Gemini and Libra is a good match at least for me, you'll have a friend before anything else.

I guess once he falls for me his cancer moon will kick in?

His Cancer moon is probably dragging him down by being not so outgoing or forthcoming.

I've had a couple of Libra guys interested and they are very direct. But maybe it's a guy thing.
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@saggurl88 so he does have virgo mercury+venus, he won't rush into anything that is for SURE.
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It's all about balance, don't be too much of anything. And be independent.

Libras love love but in a superficial way, if that suffocates them they'll easily detach, I know one mistake Geminis can make with libras, forgetting about them.

Yeah I have my own priorities and hobbies. I'm good on that.

@GenerousLeeb How do I know if a libra man has fallen for me? the signs?

I mostly have experience with earth sign men....never dealt with a libra man before.

Well I'm a Libra woman and if I like someone I get flirty and I show them that I'm interested, I check on them and make sure to have time for them, but I don't show that much it's a push and pull, if I fall for someone that's another story, I guess this is when my Taurus moon kicks in, I become very possessive, and jealous.

Gemini and Libra is a good match at least for me, you'll have a friend before anything else.

I guess once he falls for me his cancer moon will kick in?

His Cancer moon is probably dragging him down by being not so outgoing or forthcoming.

I've had a couple of Libra guys interested and they are very direct. But maybe it's a guy thing.

@saggurl88 so he does have virgo mercury+venus, he won't rush into anything that is for SURE.
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I don't know. Usually Libras and Virgos are very direct with me, but I think it's cause I don't reach out at all. Both are very clear in what they want and that they want to hang out or see me.

Virgo was more consistent, Libra I didn't really pay too much attention to because there isn't much chemistry for me. I just say no thanks.

All this is the beginning stages of course, I don't know about dating them past the first or second date.
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It's all about balance, don't be too much of anything. And be independent.

Libras love love but in a superficial way, if that suffocates them they'll easily detach, I know one mistake Geminis can make with libras, forgetting about them.

Yeah I have my own priorities and hobbies. I'm good on that.

@GenerousLeeb How do I know if a libra man has fallen for me? the signs?

I mostly have experience with earth sign men....never dealt with a libra man before.

Well I'm a Libra woman and if I like someone I get flirty and I show them that I'm interested, I check on them and make sure to have time for them, but I don't show that much it's a push and pull, if I fall for someone that's another story, I guess this is when my Taurus moon kicks in, I become very possessive, and jealous.

Gemini and Libra is a good match at least for me, you'll have a friend before anything else.

I guess once he falls for me his cancer moon will kick in?

His Cancer moon is probably dragging him down by being not so outgoing or forthcoming.

I've had a couple of Libra guys interested and they are very direct. But maybe it's a guy thing.

@saggurl88 so he does have virgo mercury+venus, he won't rush into anything that is for SURE.

I don't know. Usually Libras and Virgos are very direct with me, but I think it's cause I don't reach out at all. Both are very clear in what they want and that they want to hang out or see me.

Virgo was more consistent, Libra I didn't really pay too much attention to because there isn't much chemistry for me. I just say no thanks.

All this is the beginning stages of course, I don't know about dating them past the first or second date.
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I have ptsd from dealing with a full-on virgo man. LMFAO

Him and I have been on 2 dates so far, there are talks of 3rd.

I noticed that he tries his best to not seem opinionated. I have managed to work around it tho. He gets comfy after I give my take on something.
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It's all about balance, don't be too much of anything. And be independent.

Libras love love but in a superficial way, if that suffocates them they'll easily detach, I know one mistake Geminis can make with libras, forgetting about them.

Yeah I have my own priorities and hobbies. I'm good on that.

@GenerousLeeb How do I know if a libra man has fallen for me? the signs?

I mostly have experience with earth sign men....never dealt with a libra man before.

Well I'm a Libra woman and if I like someone I get flirty and I show them that I'm interested, I check on them and make sure to have time for them, but I don't show that much it's a push and pull, if I fall for someone that's another story, I guess this is when my Taurus moon kicks in, I become very possessive, and jealous.

Gemini and Libra is a good match at least for me, you'll have a friend before anything else.

I guess once he falls for me his cancer moon will kick in?

His Cancer moon is probably dragging him down by being not so outgoing or forthcoming.

I've had a couple of Libra guys interested and they are very direct. But maybe it's a guy thing.

@saggurl88 so he does have virgo mercury+venus, he won't rush into anything that is for SURE.

I don't know. Usually Libras and Virgos are very direct with me, but I think it's cause I don't reach out at all. Both are very clear in what they want and that they want to hang out or see me.

Virgo was more consistent, Libra I didn't really pay too much attention to because there isn't much chemistry for me. I just say no thanks.

All this is the beginning stages of course, I don't know about dating them past the first or second date.

I have ptsd from dealing with a full-on virgo man. LMFAO

Him and I have been on 2 dates so far, there are talks of 3rd.

I noticed that he tries his best to not seem opinionated. I have managed to work around it tho. He gets comfy after I give my take on something.
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If you two are working on a third date, that's a good thing. I just had a Libra call me after not talking to me for a month and he had the nerve to start with "We have unfinished business" and I politely told him "No we don't".

Their charm doesn't work on me for some reason.

Gemini charm is cute and playful. Libra is more like Taurus- leading in a sexual direction and it turns me off too much. Could be a Venusian thing. Who knows.
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It's all about balance, don't be too much of anything. And be independent.

Libras love love but in a superficial way, if that suffocates them they'll easily detach, I know one mistake Geminis can make with libras, forgetting about them.

Yeah I have my own priorities and hobbies. I'm good on that.

@GenerousLeeb How do I know if a libra man has fallen for me? the signs?

I mostly have experience with earth sign men....never dealt with a libra man before.

Well I'm a Libra woman and if I like someone I get flirty and I show them that I'm interested, I check on them and make sure to have time for them, but I don't show that much it's a push and pull, if I fall for someone that's another story, I guess this is when my Taurus moon kicks in, I become very possessive, and jealous.

Gemini and Libra is a good match at least for me, you'll have a friend before anything else.

I guess once he falls for me his cancer moon will kick in?

His Cancer moon is probably dragging him down by being not so outgoing or forthcoming.

I've had a couple of Libra guys interested and they are very direct. But maybe it's a guy thing.

@saggurl88 so he does have virgo mercury+venus, he won't rush into anything that is for SURE.

I don't know. Usually Libras and Virgos are very direct with me, but I think it's cause I don't reach out at all. Both are very clear in what they want and that they want to hang out or see me.

Virgo was more consistent, Libra I didn't really pay too much attention to because there isn't much chemistry for me. I just say no thanks.

All this is the beginning stages of course, I don't know about dating them past the first or second date.

I have ptsd from dealing with a full-on virgo man. LMFAO

Him and I have been on 2 dates so far, there are talks of 3rd.

I noticed that he tries his best to not seem opinionated. I have managed to work around it tho. He gets comfy after I give my take on something.

If you two are working on a third date, that's a good thing. I just had a Libra call me after not talking to me for a month and he had the nerve to start with "We have unfinished business" and I politely told him "No we don't".

Their charm doesn't work on me for some reason.

Gemini charm is cute and playful. Libra is more like Taurus- leading in a sexual direction and it turns me off too much. Could be a Venusian thing. Who knows.
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Yeah being sexual in the early stages turns me off, I block tbh. But he is so respectful I love that.
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I used to date a cancer moon and he found it so dreamy and romantic to talk about our past memories.

He loves to reminisce.

Sometimes I thought it was a manipulative move. Talking about the past to build a stronger bond. But I think he genuinely enjoys talking about time spent with each other.

Good memory

What was his sun and venus in?
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Sag sun and Venus
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Libra men are very chill IMO

They’re the only sign where the men don’t flip out over a breakup.

They remain chill and you can actually be friends with them.

In saying so, they never really put up a fight.

this is all true but we're fucking crazy nutz too lol.
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They also have a collection of self help books, something along those lines.
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Libra men are very chill IMO

They’re the only sign where the men don’t flip out over a breakup.

They remain chill and you can actually be friends with them.

In saying so, they never really put up a fight.

this is all true but we're fucking crazy nutz too lol.

They also have a collection of self help books, something along those lines.
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I dont have any of those maybe that's where I've been going wrong 🤣
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Libra men are very chill IMO

They’re the only sign where the men don’t flip out over a breakup.

They remain chill and you can actually be friends with them.

In saying so, they never really put up a fight.

this is all true but we're fucking crazy nutz too lol.
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@Librasetting777 crazy how—

with this libra man, he told me how he was talking to this one girl, she wanted to be his gf. But he found out that she had also been sleeping at her ex's place while she was talking to the libra man, so he cussed her out . Thats about it, but if I was in his position i would've done the same lol. Thats mad disrespectful
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Libra men are very chill IMO

They’re the only sign where the men don’t flip out over a breakup.

They remain chill and you can actually be friends with them.

In saying so, they never really put up a fight.

this is all true but we're fucking crazy nutz too lol.

@Librasetting777 crazy how—

with this libra man, he told me how he was talking to this one girl, she wanted to be his gf. But he found out that she had also been sleeping at her ex's place while she was talking to the libra man, so he cussed her out . Thats about it, but if I was in his position i would've done the same lol. Thats mad disrespectful
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yeah shit like that will do it. I'm going through it now with a Taurus woman fucking flirting with other guys infront of me but I cussed her out right there in public sooo it probably looked really crazy lol
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Libra men are very chill IMO

They’re the only sign where the men don’t flip out over a breakup.

They remain chill and you can actually be friends with them.

In saying so, they never really put up a fight.

this is all true but we're fucking crazy nutz too lol.

@Librasetting777 crazy how—

with this libra man, he told me how he was talking to this one girl, she wanted to be his gf. But he found out that she had also been sleeping at her ex's place while she was talking to the libra man, so he cussed her out . Thats about it, but if I was in his position i would've done the same lol. Thats mad disrespectful

yeah shit like that will do it. I'm going through it now with a Taurus woman fucking flirting with other guys infront of me but I cussed her out right there in public sooo it probably looked really crazy lol
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Are you and the taurus woman talking? Relationship?

As a leeb man what are your turn ons? Turn offs? Idk how to deal with air sign men tbh. They seem mellow and Idk if I should pursue or sit back. What are the signs he likes me?
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Libra men are very chill IMO

They’re the only sign where the men don’t flip out over a breakup.

They remain chill and you can actually be friends with them.

In saying so, they never really put up a fight.

this is all true but we're fucking crazy nutz too lol.

@Librasetting777 crazy how—

with this libra man, he told me how he was talking to this one girl, she wanted to be his gf. But he found out that she had also been sleeping at her ex's place while she was talking to the libra man, so he cussed her out . Thats about it, but if I was in his position i would've done the same lol. Thats mad disrespectful

yeah shit like that will do it. I'm going through it now with a Taurus woman fucking flirting with other guys infront of me but I cussed her out right there in public sooo it probably looked really crazy lol

Are you and the taurus woman talking? Relationship?

As a leeb man what are your turn ons? Turn offs? Idk how to deal with air sign men tbh. They seem mellow and Idk if I should pursue or sit back. What are the signs he likes me?
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relationship....you should do a little of both?
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Maybe he goes with the flow quite a bit. I've noticed that Libra guys are hard to read emotionally. I'm not sure if it's because they are concealing things or are that balanced that nothing shakes them either way. Though with his cancer moon, he could very much have stuff bubbling beneath the surface. No cancer moon is that ambivalent about things. 😂

Even though libra men arent known to chase, they do go after what they want once they decide.
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Maybe he goes with the flow quite a bit. I've noticed that Libra guys are hard to read emotionally. I'm not sure if it's because they are concealing things or are that balanced that nothing shakes them either way. Though with his cancer moon, he could very much have stuff bubbling beneath the surface. No cancer moon is that ambivalent about things. 😂

Even though libra men arent known to chase, they do go after what they want once they decide.


Yeah I agree, my brother is a Libra Sun, Sag moon, mars scorpio. He is v v v calm, we are close but even I can't get a read on him emotionally.

So far the leeb man and I talk everyday. Its going good (I hope he feels the same).
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Libra men are very chill IMO

They’re the only sign where the men don’t flip out over a breakup.

They remain chill and you can actually be friends with them.

In saying so, they never really put up a fight.

this is all true but we're fucking crazy nutz too lol.

@Librasetting777 crazy how—

with this libra man, he told me how he was talking to this one girl, she wanted to be his gf. But he found out that she had also been sleeping at her ex's place while she was talking to the libra man, so he cussed her out . Thats about it, but if I was in his position i would've done the same lol. Thats mad disrespectful

yeah shit like that will do it. I'm going through it now with a Taurus woman fucking flirting with other guys infront of me but I cussed her out right there in public sooo it probably looked really crazy lol

Are you and the taurus woman talking? Relationship?

As a leeb man what are your turn ons? Turn offs? Idk how to deal with air sign men tbh. They seem mellow and Idk if I should pursue or sit back. What are the signs he likes me?

relationship....you should do a little of both?
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and she was flirting with someone else.......— O___o

Anyway, thank you for the advice 🙂 I'll try to keep things balanced
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It's all about balance, don't be too much of anything. And be independent.

Libras love love but in a superficial way, if that suffocates them they'll easily detach, I know one mistake Geminis can make with libras, forgetting about them.

Yeah I have my own priorities and hobbies. I'm good on that.

@GenerousLeeb How do I know if a libra man has fallen for me? the signs?

I mostly have experience with earth sign men....never dealt with a libra man before.

Well I'm a Libra woman and if I like someone I get flirty and I show them that I'm interested, I check on them and make sure to have time for them, but I don't show that much it's a push and pull, if I fall for someone that's another story, I guess this is when my Taurus moon kicks in, I become very possessive, and jealous.

Gemini and Libra is a good match at least for me, you'll have a friend before anything else.

I guess once he falls for me his cancer moon will kick in?

Our cancer moon is always active, it will show up in his empathy for you. Even if you make him mad, he will likely end up turning around and feeling bad for what he said or how the argument may have affected you rather than thinking about himself.
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My mom has a water moon (pisces moon). I def understand the empathetic side its sweet
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The leeb man def tries not to come off as opinionated, emotional or passionate. He tries to seem as balanced and calm as possible. But this man has mars leo and moon cancer. It is impossible for him not be those things lmao. I managed to work around it a lil bit. Because I hate superfluous exteriors. I wanna know what makes you tick, what makes you cry, what makes you laugh, what makes you fall asleep, how you grew up, why you have your scars...and so on.
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@FadedAri Lol, so we went on our third date. He was a lot more transparent which I liked. The following is what he said:

Him: "I'm 6' but if I was 240lbs would you be attracted to me?" Me: "Yes I would, if I like you then I like you"

(I found this kinda weird? idk...I still reassured him)

Him: "I can be a spiteful, idk if you know. I shouldn't tell you this but" Me: "No its okay, tell me, I wanna know. Just be honest" Him: "Well my ex broke up with me for 2nd time and I thought it was done for, but she came back after a week and was like she misses me, I told her that I don't trust her yet and kept her as a friend for 3 months before getting back with her. I slept around with other girls during the 3 months, I didn't tell my ex. But it was out of spite. Its not cheating tho" I replied with "No it isn't". They weren't a couple so likeeee

Me: *telling him about a time when a guy with only-fans asked me to be in his video as our third date and laughing*..

Him: "Thats hilarious, you gotta be one handsome guy to be on only-fans though"

Me: "WELLLL I blocked him and I'm on a date with you, and you are handsome"
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@FadedAri Lol, so we went on our third date. He was a lot more transparent which I liked. The following is what he said:

Him: "I'm 6' but if I was 240lbs would you be attracted to me?" Me: "Yes I would, if I like you then I like you"

(I found this kinda weird? idk...I still reassured him)

Him: "I can be a spiteful, idk if you know. I shouldn't tell you this but" Me: "No its okay, tell me, I wanna know. Just be honest" Him: "Well my ex broke up with me for 2nd time and I thought it was done for, but she came back after a week and was like she misses me, I told her that I don't trust her yet and kept her as a friend for 3 months before getting back with her. I slept around with other girls during the 3 months, I didn't tell my ex. But it was out of spite. Its not cheating tho" I replied with "No it isn't". They weren't a couple so likeeee

Me: *telling him about a time when a guy with only-fans asked me to be in his video as our third date and laughing*..

Him: "Thats hilarious, you gotta be one handsome guy to be on only-fans though"

Me: "WELLLL I blocked him and I'm on a date with you, and you are handsome"


it's sweet but i would still be cautious. it would take a lot of reassuring actions before i trust a libra's words
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@FadedAri Lol, so we went on our third date. He was a lot more transparent which I liked. The following is what he said:

Him: "I'm 6' but if I was 240lbs would you be attracted to me?" Me: "Yes I would, if I like you then I like you"

(I found this kinda weird? idk...I still reassured him)

Him: "I can be a spiteful, idk if you know. I shouldn't tell you this but" Me: "No its okay, tell me, I wanna know. Just be honest" Him: "Well my ex broke up with me for 2nd time and I thought it was done for, but she came back after a week and was like she misses me, I told her that I don't trust her yet and kept her as a friend for 3 months before getting back with her. I slept around with other girls during the 3 months, I didn't tell my ex. But it was out of spite. Its not cheating tho" I replied with "No it isn't". They weren't a couple so likeeee

Me: *telling him about a time when a guy with only-fans asked me to be in his video as our third date and laughing*..

Him: "Thats hilarious, you gotta be one handsome guy to be on only-fans though"

Me: "WELLLL I blocked him and I'm on a date with you, and you are handsome"

it's sweet but i would still be cautious. it would take a lot of reassuring actions before i trust a libra's words
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Oh facts...I don't trust any man's words lol
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Sounds like his insecurity poking out. Cancer loves to test the waters to make sure it's safe and that you don't hate them or will reject them..


Yeah it was obvious that the first 2 dates his libra sun was out and now the 3rd date his cancer moon was showing up. I liked that he was honest. I def have my insecurities but not with appearance its more so with my trauma and personality shit (im needy lmao). The last guy I dealt with was a brick wall (virgo sun+moon+mercury) in terms of letting me in. So its kinda refreshing when im dealing with someone like this leeb man.
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Wellll its been 3 days and no response from him so I guess its over lol

How often do you two talk? Three days in the beginning is a drop in the bucket as far as time goes. Send him a text saying something like, “So you not talking to me anymore?” with a goofy emoji...he’s probably been busy...
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Ever since he got my number (when we started talking, so a month). Him and I text every single day at least 2 times. He would always ask me about my day and i would ask him about his, sent him tiktoks. Sometimes it was flirty. Other times about family. I sent a text on Friday night and he has not responded since then.
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Wellll its been 3 days and no response from him so I guess its over lol

How often do you two talk? Three days in the beginning is a drop in the bucket as far as time goes. Send him a text saying something like, “So you not talking to me anymore?” with a goofy emoji...he’s probably been busy...

Ever since he got my number (when we started talking, so a month). Him and I text every single day at least 2 times. He would always ask me about my day and i would ask him about his, sent him tiktoks. Sometimes it was flirty. Other times about family. I sent a text on Friday night and he has not responded since then.

Ok well hard to know what the problem is then if you two hadn’t argued or anything. If it were me I’d have called after the first day given the communication pattern you guys have created. Why not call him?
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I was busy over the weekend and I figured he was too? Didn’t wanna bug him and stuff. I’ll reach out tomorrow if he doesn’t reach out today.
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Wellll its been 3 days and no response from him so I guess its over lol

How often do you two talk? Three days in the beginning is a drop in the bucket as far as time goes. Send him a text saying something like, “So you not talking to me anymore?” with a goofy emoji...he’s probably been busy...

Ever since he got my number (when we started talking, so a month). Him and I text every single day at least 2 times. He would always ask me about my day and i would ask him about his, sent him tiktoks. Sometimes it was flirty. Other times about family. I sent a text on Friday night and he has not responded since then.

Ok well hard to know what the problem is then if you two hadn’t argued or anything. If it were me I’d have called after the first day given the communication pattern you guys have created. Why not call him?

I was busy over the weekend and I figured he was too? Didn’t wanna bug him and stuff. I’ll reach out tomorrow if he doesn’t reach out today.
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So I caved in and sent him a light text and asked about his weekend. He responded a couple hrs later. He has an important interview he is studying for then he asked how my weekend was. I was like "oh good luck omg, my weekend was.....take your time, you got this!! lmk how it goes"
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