Hi everyone, I’m back! So I still CANNOT figure out this enigma (i.e. my Virgo man)! So I’m going to try a new approach and maybe you all can provide some insight.
How compatible do you think a Libra Sun/Pisces Moon female and a Virgo Sun/Scorpio Moon man are?
Quick backstory: Yes I’m dealing with the usual Virgo male hot/cold thing, no disappearing, consistent contact daily (via text), but just sometimes he’s very cold. My instincts tell me what he’s saying is true, he likes me and wants to be with me. He thinks I’m sweet, cool and just an all around good person. He decided to be in a relationship with me after about a month and a half. He mentions marriage, kids…I like the thought of this but I’m hesitant on getting wrapped up in this idea. At this point, I’m still trying to figure out this hot/cold thing. It’s hard enough for a Libra to make a decision and everytime I relax and just say ok, yes, this is my bf, I’m committed, and I’ll just be patient and go at his pace…his coldness makes me doubt him, like is he seeing someone else, is he really interested in me, should I just move on and save myself from heartache? Everytime I bring this up to him, he gets upset and frustrated that I keep trying to leave him. He says he’s just busy with work and he’s with me and thinks about me all of the time. I’m not clingy, but I do like attention and reassurance. I like communicating, and I want to feel emotionally connected but it feels like he’s blocking that.
I’m really curious on the astrology aspect of this relationship. I’m hoping that will give me some insight to how he operates vs. how I operate.
P.S. Literally everything else is in our chart is exactly the same.
This sounds like my libra qith scorpio venus cancer moon. My ex was libra acted nothing like this me her both have venus virgo both forward ppl. My current libra im starting think its the scorpio in them. U helped me on my other post about my libra im being really patient too when i told them they didn't care she got extremely upset...i felt like why go hot cold then why not reassure me with actions like my ex libra did. She is very quiet and deep at times too. Idk...i would eay believe him...then again i doubt myself all the time at end of day what would u do when u really like someone?......but everyone not like us some ppl show love in different ways...i herd scorpio rather moon or venus in scorpio have similarities etc.....
@lovely77 I'm so glad I could help. I can talk about Libras all day! Giving advice is easier than finding answers for yourself, lol.
@LuckyLibra979 First off, thank you. You give really good advice, I saw you on a couple of other boards. SO happy you're helping me now! So we both have water moons, but you think that could cause some conflict. I was banking on that compatibility aspect, lol. Yeah he's very cold, and he doesn't even realize he's doing it. In his mind, everything is fine and when he's ready for me, he'll be on fire, of course drawing me back in completely. My Libra sun/Cardinal energy is soooooo ready to bounce when he gets cold and get what I need from someone else. But that has gotten me NOWHERE in my love life. I have to stop being flighty and stick things through...that's where my Pisces moon is helping me right now. I am so waiting for his Scorpio possessive streak to pop out...I love that feeling! Not jealousy, but wanting to know where I am, what I'm doing...I LOVE my bf keeping tabs on me. Hell, at this point, that'll probably be the only emotion I get from this guy.
What's been your experience with Scorpio Moons? What's your moon sign?
Hi All, I’m hoping you can help me. I met this Virgo guy about 2 months ago (I’m a Libra, both in our 30s). We hit it off instantly and started hanging out, and it got pretty intense really fast. He spoke about marriage and having children and just ho
How compatible do you think a Libra Sun/Pisces Moon female and a Virgo Sun/Scorpio Moon man are?
Quick backstory: Yes I’m dealing with the usual Virgo male hot/cold thing, no disappearing, consistent contact daily (via text), but just sometimes he’s very cold. My instincts tell me what he’s saying is true, he likes me and wants to be with me. He thinks I’m sweet, cool and just an all around good person. He decided to be in a relationship with me after about a month and a half. He mentions marriage, kids…I like the thought of this but I’m hesitant on getting wrapped up in this idea. At this point, I’m still trying to figure out this hot/cold thing. It’s hard enough for a Libra to make a decision and everytime I relax and just say ok, yes, this is my bf, I’m committed, and I’ll just be patient and go at his pace…his coldness makes me doubt him, like is he seeing someone else, is he really interested in me, should I just move on and save myself from heartache? Everytime I bring this up to him, he gets upset and frustrated that I keep trying to leave him. He says he’s just busy with work and he’s with me and thinks about me all of the time. I’m not clingy, but I do like attention and reassurance. I like communicating, and I want to feel emotionally connected but it feels like he’s blocking that.
I’m really curious on the astrology aspect of this relationship. I’m hoping that will give me some insight to how he operates vs. how I operate.
P.S. Literally everything else is in our chart is exactly the same.
Thanks everyone, all input appreciated!