Hello all...I sure need some answers here. I am libra woman, born oct 3rd, my lover is a libra man, born oct 5th. I dumped him last week after he didnt show up for a date and never even had the courtesy to call or text me. He did text me 2 days later saying he was sorry but a "close friend" was in the hospital and he said imagine my surprise when i made it home (the bag of stuff hanging on his door) and that he understood, was sorry he messed my life up and to take care and stay sweet. I had went to his house that night and left all the jewerly he had given me along with his V-Day gift hanging on his door and a note telling him why and that I did not deserve this treatment. Not the first time btw...and I have always let it go because I really do know he is very busy with his family and job. I returned texted him an hour later and told him a call or text would have been good. Again he apoligized and said he never meant to let me down. thats it, til he came to my job last night..he come several times a week to see a family member. I was in the room and we made some small talk...I acted all cool and casual and he just kept staring at me with a questioning look in his eyes. I asked how his friend was..I got a clipped" doing fine". we both locked gazes til I couldnt take it anymore and said, I'll see you later and left. I dont want to lose him, but I can't let myself be taken for granted. should I call, is he now finished with me, or should I wait for him to make the next move...in the note I left him I ended it with "It's your call". We've been seeing each other almost 2 years. Words of love came from him first and he has said he is mine...but....being that I was married when we met...now getting divorced, but NOT because of him, I didnt say anything about the fact he had a gf in another town. I had no right. He stopped seeing her, I know, after i left my hubby. i think he is now seeing her again, altho he says...its not like you think. should I make an effort to reconcile this?
