Libra women - hateful and resentful feelings

I'm having these hateful and resentment feelings towards all Libra women and I don't know why! I'm feeling so negative about them - all Libra females. Any advice for this Gemini man?

What's the best way for a Gemini man to communicate with Libra ladies?

Those were feelings that I was talking about Kennyq, I'm feeling some real angst against Lebra ladies, gorgeous babes - they are Unique and very Original beauties - although its so difficult to connect with them on a personal and intimate plane - basis. I think the problem is with you Libras and not with me. So yes I have some serious hate against Libra women - its something about your specific zodiac - psychical platitudes of behaviour and psychology that I don't like. Can't specifically point out what the problem is - except that its difficult for me to interact with your cool pretty pansy ass types on a more personal basis. Airy people so I can't pinpoint what the problem really is. Maybe Libra women are on the one hand clannish about their social interactions and on the other side they have very protective families and relatives. I'm going to hate on your types until I get some.

It would be helpful to hear more specifics about what you're experiencing.

I'm a Gemini female involved with a Libra male - maybe I can shed some light.

The biggest thing I've learned is that we have to be patient with our Libras. We Geminis sometimes have a tendency jump right in - especially when we're really attracted to someone. Libras don't work this way - in fact, I've learned it can downright scare them. Libras tend to weigh every decision very heavily - this includes the decision about whether or not they want to be involved with you in a meaningful way.

Based on my experience, I'd advise you to enjoy the process with Libra. To me, Libras are incredibly intruiging, and that keeps me interested. There's a bit of mystery to way in which their minds work. If you're curious enough to stick around, you will likely find a very good match. On the other hand, if there are clear signs she's NOT interested, I would move on.

I spent 6 months not knowing for sure where I stood with my boy, and it was worth the wait. I think that the relationship between the Gemini and the Libra is a bit of a dance. A dance of intellect that can become very sexy if you let it. But it does take time, and I know that patience is not the virtue of the Gemini.

Libra and Gemini dont get emotially attached for a very long time intially. Its intellectual connection what keep things moving. If you try to be romantic with a libra girl, 9 out of 10 cases, its not gonna work smoothly. Take her as a good friend and slowly you will find yourself locked and unable to live without her next to you all the time.

Libra and Gemini dont get emotially attached for a very long time intially. Its intellectual connection what keep things moving. If you try to be romantic with a libra girl, 9 out of 10 cases, its not gonna work smoothly. Take her as a good friend and slowly you will find yourself locked and unable to live without her next to you all the time.""

Yep.
I know as for me I don't just give my heart out easy and the same goes for my body, it takes time... a lot of time. But once I do connect with you on that emotional level its damn near impossible to get me to leave or let go, and let the connection be a strong spiritual one and its 'til death.
However, in early stages of a relationship I do like a little light very light romance while keeping everything fun and memorable

except that its difficult for me to interact with your cool pretty pansy ass types on a more personal basis""

I only become personal with those I truly come to love and feel safe around

I'd agree with lovelylibra however, for me as a libra it's easy for me to get swepted off my feet if the other man is intelligent and knows what he wants in life. I like men who not only like women for their looks but for who they are as a person. For example, i've dated guys who have money and muscle but if they do not have any brains I say "see ya," it's more on a mind level to me. I like to be romanced but not to to extreme. I do not open up to everyone unless I feel comfortable with them and even then it's a slow process. Also i'm big on family, yup, I protect my family to the end. I don't know if all libras are like that but I know I stick up for my family. I like socializing with people and like to be around people, and when in a relationship I truly take it serious. However, the bad side is I tend to be flirty a bit and at times I don't even realize it. I guess because it comes so natrual to us Libras that I don't even realize it until i'm told. oopppps!!

Libra women are pretty looking, submissive - sissy ass - spoilt brats, I'm gonna peel off all those pretty facades like onion peels and get right down to their yummy pussy cats - I'm going keep hating on them - gives me power - sh!t can't wait for the next pretty lady to nonchalantly blurt that she's a libra hee hee I will eat her up for dinner and she won't have the vaguest idea as to what slammed into her. Standoffish, ignoring, distance keeping, pretty looking spoilt brats. I hate them.

hating to find love is almost same as fighting for peace same as i dont wanna repeat that vietnam slogan. You talk to a libra about hate, next second you are out of picture.

also u gotta chk if ur brains are in place. tat could be a reason why u dont get along with libra babes. 😉

hostility is unattractive. You attract what you put out.

Plus who has time for such boring stupidity?

*yawn*

narcassism - yes
self-absorption - yes
boring/hateful - no

I am an Aries man, married to a Libra woman.

She beautiful, maddening, soft, angry, shallow, deep, sweet, distance, high spirited, quiet, a wild cat, a shy mouse, smart, self center and thoughtful.

Get the picture! As my friends and family say she will give you brain damage... but damn... she is sexy and smart!

Good luck if you are with a Libra woman. It won't be dull!!!!!!

I have survived 5 years. wish me luck!

How did you ger her Gallagher? I mean how did you connect - meet her?

From your posts, you seem pretty.... well... unsophisticated. This puts Libras off. Eating her up and then spitting her out? Please, dude, do yourself a favor and have a chill pill.

Try to look at yourself and at her objectively. From your subjective perspective, she seems too "posh". From her's, you probably look like a fool she can play with and then forget.

high fives Yishen!

uncouth behaviour is the worst! I have dumped men for their lack of table manners and I will do so again!

*High 5*

I did the same with girls. Why on earth would anyone think that vulgarity gets you somewhere? x_x

I have no idea.

ammoroks.....you say it took you 6 months to know where you stood with your Libra.....in what way?

I am going through what seems an eternity of not knowing with mine...its only been around 9 weeks now but man its hard to know.....he's affectionate, etc, etc....but it can take anywhere between 2 & 7 days between communications!!! I'm finding it a very slow dance to say the least.

When did you know where you stood? when you forced it out of him?? LOL....or did he come to his senses in his own time and did you have the same long winded times between communications, etc?

Very interesting to see how yours started and ended up being a "relationship"....Im not sure whether mine could be classed as such but we see each other regularly and neither of us are seeing any others....strange people those Librans LOL

**How did you ger her Gallagher? I mean how did you connect - meet her?

This I'd like to know too!!!

Chatz,

I was being typical Aries man, wandering a European city on my own. If you are in the mood to meet a girl, friends and family are dead weight.

I walked into an Irish sports bar and there was a stunning girl, almost no make-up, with a smile that could knock you on your ass like a lightning bolt.

As Nike says, "Just do it." I sat down and started a relaxed conversation with her, like a warm friend. We have been talking for five years. Libras love to talk when they are not in one of their quiet moods.

Libras are very physically sexy. However, they love mental stimulation. They are hungry for ideas, adventure. Sex is not first on their list of things to do. However, it is on their list. (wink)

Libras are like a fine wine, drink slowly because they are emotionally expensive. For a non-Libra, Libras seem crazy, but they are not. They are LIBRAS!

Aries man out!

"uncouth behaviour is the worst! I have dumped men for their lack of table manners and I will do so again! "

Scary.

thanks gmgallagher!!! So its going to continue being a long slow dance then!! Yes he LOVES to talk....its what he does best...he keeps coming back so I assume he's interested...he doesnt see anybody else so I assume he's interested....I think Im in but Im not sure I could wait a year or more to get him to commit to a relationship as such!! Love talking and spending time with him so I'll keep doing that....its like an addiction wanting to see him and it makes absolutely no sense to keep hitting my head against the wall but I keep doing it LOL.

I have decided though, that I will be seeing others in the meantime while he makes up his mind....again, a girl can't sit at home waiting for Mr Libra to call. That will drive me insane!!! and yes, I know, as soon as I think I won't hear from him again due to long pauses in communication he'll contact me as if we've been talking everyday.....talk about patience being a huge thing here!!!!

thanks again you lovely people....I love coming to this site - again, its almost like an addiction!!!

There is a secret why me allow ourself to take as much time as we want to take a decision. 😉

"I'm going keep hating on them - gives me power"

Wise up, by hating someone you give them all of the power. Talk tough all you want, but blind siding a libra is a good way to end up battered and broken. We are reasonable and try to avoid confrontation, but if we are cornered we put as much effort into destroying our attacker so make sure it is worth it. Not to mention bragging about attacking women psychologically or physically knocks you down a couple of notches on the respectability meter.

I can actually relate to you a little bit with Libra women right now. The conversation I had with the Libra girl I am interrested tonight left a really bitter taste in my mouth. She wants me to defend everything I say then when i go to give her an explanation, no matter if it is a small thing that needs clarifying or something she is really upset about she cuts me off with "I don't want to hear your lame excuses." Last time I checked getting called in to work to cover a twelve hour shift causing me me to not talk to her for twelve hours falls under the category of reason, not excuse. the biggest kicker is that we are friends exploring the possibility of being more, we are not commited to each other so I can give two shits about what she feels she is entitled to from me. Not to mention asking someone to explain something then cutting them off to insult/belittle them is a quick trip to the "forget this ever happened" category with me. She was just a jerk the whole conversation and it took me an hour to get to the bottom of what was bugging her. I told her that if she is up front with whatever is bothering her and she explains the actual root problem we can actually get somewhere, passive agressiveness is no good. She then goes to say that she hadn't had anything to eat all day so she is in a bad mood. How does someone elses failure to take care of themselves also become their reason for treating other people properly? Uhhhhhhh.....180degrees from any way I know her to behave.