that sucks! The thing about libras sometimes is that (in addition to liking the male attention ) is that we hate so much to hurt people's feelings or say no to them that we will sometimes lie or avoid the issue completely until it eventually comes out and we are faced with it anyway, except it is ten times worse. The less-evolved libras have these tendencies...however, personally, i could never keep that from someone..i would be horrified if someone viewed me as dishonest or shady, which is kind of what she sounds like.
yeah I think so too and thanks for that, she reminds me a great deal of that psycho one I had to deal with a while back, I hear things about that girl (psycho girl) and I will never understand why she has such a passion for hating me and trying to make my good friends hate me as well.
Yes, I made a BIG mistake but so did she and I have said sorry too many times...I do miss her a little but will never understand her.
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I think Libra females flatter themselves, similar to how leos do, Libras keep making this excuse that their fair and friendly with almost everyone, and then they use that excuse when their done with the person and say their getting unwanted attention, that they were just being friendly.
You know what i think it is deep down, they cant make their bloody mind up so they use various excuses and suddenly become all clueless once someone has latched onto them. Please Libras, either choose if that is the case or leave people alone, dont flatter yourselves, we are not all falling over ourselves to impress you.
Sometimes there is no nice way to tell someone you aren't on the market. Plus, depending on the situation, it is pretty presumptuous for her to assume that you are romantically interested in her and that you NEED to know she has a bf. She was probably just flirting and having fun and it meant nothing.
A lot of times I flirt and am friendly with men I have no romantic interest in. A lot of times men who aren't romantically interested in me flirt and are friendly to me. C'est la vie!
This is the message I got back from her...I asked what is there any reason you didn't tell me you had a boyfriend of 5 years?.
"I do not see why I would have had to say I had a BF earlier on - it's not like people say "Hi I'm ......, I have a BF, nice to meet you" when they 1st meet do they. Anyway. Glad you had a successful night at (bar I dj at). I actually had intended on coming down, but after drinking from 4pm, & with no dinner - hm time soon came at 9pm. haha YUK!!"
hmmmm...Balancing the scales?...really...I have not witnessed with any Libra girls yet...they are a very sensitive sign aren't they?...and get hurt easily.
There you go! If it were you and some good looking girl came up to you, would you say Hi, I'm so and so and I have a gf that I'v been with for 5 years??? Always ask and that'll clear it up from the start, then your interests would have been directed elsewhere.
Oh and she would have weighed you up and deciced that if she came out and blurted that she had a partner then you would have bolted and she would probably not have had an enjoyable night!!! The scales come into every situation.
I have no problem with her email. That is pretty much my theory. I don't tell everyone everything about me. Why would I? Plus it is pretty presumptuous for her to assume you are romantically interested in her (thus needs to disclose status) when you haven't done anything to confirm interest.
Would you prefer if you said hi and she said, "Hi. Look I am sure you are a great guy, but I have a boyfriend and am not interested." That isn't the way real life works. You have a conversation with someone about things.
BTW I don't think I am very sensitive or emotional. Au contraire! I am pretty logical and level headed. Seldom do my scales get out of balance, although I am the first to admit I am a mess when they do.
Now you see, you're in the know that she has a bf that she is still involved with and you are still hot for her and willing to let that one thing slide!!! YOUR EYES ARE WIDE OPEN so what you do from here is your decision...one which will now pose soooooo many questions!!!
Ok let me say somethings about my experience with librans 1. They want to flirt with a mob like 100 guys at the same time, just cant have enough and would actively encourage you even if they dont have real interest in you and use this behaviour as an ego booster. 2. be careful sometimes they would like you to compete with your fellow mate for them and would reward the one who comes on top. 3. They can suggest the possibility of a future relationship to get you in their net when they will always keep an escape route open just in case you do something drastic and then you will be the foolish one, my suggestion is do that and get out its a lesser damage. 4. But actually they invariably possess physical beauty and are very loving once they actually love you, its the sign of venus afterall.
So if you want to enjoy the company and still belong to the incroud flirt with her, flirt with panache, and you might just win the jackpot cause librans know how to love( probably better than any other native) but otherwise never expect anything no matter what they suggest and if it looks too good to be true then its probably not cause they will always fall for the alpha male.
Personally, I feel that Libra will only flirt when she is available but not in love.
When Libra is in love but that person is not yet hers - she will not flirt with that person because that would be too risky. (Unless this is my virgo rising talking) she will be extremely cautious. Perhaps because she is all too aware that the way she flirts can turn someone off because it is very powerful and also very revealing. And there is too much at stake.
When in love and in a relationship with him, she will ultimately ignore EVERYBODY else around her but for the object of her affection. She is completely focused on him. COMPLETELY. She will make him very secure in her love for him. She will still not flirt with him verbally (at best she'll crack a joke at his expense though NEVER in public) but will do this with her eyes/smile occasionally and checks the response.
When not in love but looking - will just look you right in the eye as if to say 'I want to talk to you'. This will not mean you're IT.