I <3 Libra girls.

They're just great. They're very nice, affectionate, polite, friendly, open minded and otherwise, approachable, civilized, funny, even tempered, diplomatic, generous, and not to mention pretty, at the very least. When you're walking around and a group of girls you may or may not know with the Libra sees you, she's almost always the first one to smile and/or come up to give you a hug. You don't even have to move out of your way, she'll just come to you. That's so sweet.

I think I'll go on a Libra hunt after I do my stint in the Army. If you must know though, I'm not in it yet, but most likely will be soon, God willing.

Yes, Aries men do tend to fall for us from the first sight but the question is will you find those qualities of us exciting enough to keep you around or just bore you after a while?

If the Libras are at least slightly tomboyish, then yeah. I dig girls who like to play paintball/airsoft for instance.

hee!

One of my aries exs was really into paintball.

not really Kris.

what is your beef with Libras anyway?

"Less Fake"

Even I had this perception abt Libras being fake/showy, though it can be a predujice I know.

Any insights ?

prejudice *

I dunno. Isn't everyone fake until you get to know them? Libras guard there inner life more.

Also what do you mean by showy? just curious.

showy- petentious...kinda snobbish.

I can be petentious but that is because I think it is funny. I am sure everyone thinks I am petentious because of the way I look and because I am so emotionally aloof but when I get petentious it is a defence mechanism. I do like things to appear nice but because I am a Libra and need to bring balance, I actually have a very dark side as well. But very few ever see that side of me.

Underneathe, I am probably the friendliest person you would ever meet. I have friends from farmers to politicans, from 70yr olds to young 20-somethings, from poverty stricken single moms to people worth hundreds of millions of dollars. I pretty much love everyone and am very versatile, comfortable with everyone. Most people consider me friendly but hard to know.

I figure we are all in this together so we should make life easy for each other and just like each other. I can honestly say there is no one I dislike. (Except one girl I worked with years ago. She was nasty.)

I guess what it boils down to is I just like things to be nice and pleasant.

But unfriendly, no not really. I often become people's confessor because I just get it and accept that people are people and no matter "how bad you are" at base, most people mean well and need to be forgiven.

Cool insights LS. Thanks.

But a defense against mechanism against what ?...Do U seriously believe in just being nice to others (for harmony of course) ?
Being friendly in one thing...and being helpful is another.

defense mechanism *

Why does anyone get defensive? I think we all (meaning everyone) get defensive when we don't feel comfortable or feel judged in some way. We all (meaning everyone) get defensive when we are unsure about someone's motives and don't quite trust that they really accept us and want the best for us.

?...Do U seriously believe in just being nice to others

Don't you?

*** Being friendly in one thing...and being helpful is another.

how so?

I understand ...maybe the difference lies in the extent of being defensive.

U can be nice/friendly toward others...Doesnt require substantial effort.

But to have empathy and deliver....U need to walk an extra mile.

Generally, the former is seen as a pretension.

Actually the pretentious people I know, would make the effort to help but without the empathy or emotion behind it. THAT is true pretention because it is intended to impress.

It really comes down to intent.

And since Libran girls are supposed to be the most beautiful...Vanity has to be factored in...I guess.

Well said. In fact I cudnt think abt the reverse of that.

What does vanity have to do with anything?

Just because someone is beautiful doesn't mean they are vain. And just because someone takes pride in their appearance doesn't mean they are "vain".

Everyone calls Libras shallow yet no one can get past the beauty.

Everyone calls Libras shallow yet no one can get past the beauty.

HA HA

Maybe thats because there's nothing else there

just messin

I love the libra women

Not to be mean or anything...but I have seen some not-so-pretty libras...they still had a great personality though and I like them alot.

Really? I haven't. Every single Libra woman I know (and I known lots) is beautiful. Maybe not always in a conventional way but beautiful, even if she is in her 60s. Most of us have modeled in some capacity over the years.

It was a guy, he's not so handsome. But very nice.

Oh Libra men, from what I have seen, aren't lookers.

The women just have a graceful presence. Our hair is usually a mess but we just have a way of moving that is intriguing.

My libras a cutey, actually my past libra was too.

You are right about the hair though. My libra cousin is pretty, but her hair is a wild mess LOL.

I know! I can usually tell a Libra by their look of drama and the hair. LOL!

It is kind of cute.