Libra women help me out please

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I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol

My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.

So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!

So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.

My question is what should I do in this situation?
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Posted by narleycharley94
I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol

My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.

So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!

So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.

My question is what should I do in this situation?


Libra or not, stay away from pain and find someone that wants you ... sorry but it's true ... sniff ...
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Posted by narleycharley94
I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol

My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.

So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!

So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.

My question is what should I do in this situation?


Libra or not, stay away from pain and find someone that wants you ... sorry but it's true ... sniff ...
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+1 agreed. you gave it your best right? that's all you can do. now give your best to someone deserving and see how you feel.
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Posted by narleycharley94
I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol

My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.

So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!

So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.

My question is what should I do in this situation?


Libra or not, stay away from pain and find someone that wants you ... sorry but it's true ... sniff ...
+1 agreed. you gave it your best right? that's all you can do. now give your best to someone deserving and see how you feel.
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Hang around but keep boundaries. Tell her what you're willing to do and not do. Stop telling her that she ripped your heart out and just let the hurt go.

Tell her you are good with being friends, keep your boundaries, don't initiate a conversation about the past (if the topic comes up let her be the one to initiate it), and make yourself available to hangout with her. Make sure you are on point though---dress and smell (go buy "million" the cologne--trust me), keep up with your Virgo charm and chivalry.

We love y'all but you guys come off as too emotional and it takes us a while to appreciate/see that silent commander in you. Y'all are manly just like Aries but with super swag.
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Posted by narleycharley94
I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol

My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.

So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!

So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.

My question is what should I do in this situation?


Libra or not, stay away from pain and find someone that wants you ... sorry but it's true ... sniff ...
+1 agreed. you gave it your best right? that's all you can do. now give your best to someone deserving and see how you feel.
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He can't do that because he loves her and she probably has his heart. When a woman has a virgos heart it's hard for a Virgo to let go. Especially a libra---they are weak to us. The dynamic between a libra and Virgo can be unreal (like soulmate'ish). Once the power struggle is laid aside--it's pretty beautiful relationship to witness or be apart of.

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Posted by narleycharley94
I treated her like a queen when we were together and I think after awhile she became comfortable and expected me to do things.

I know now that someone else will come along that deserves my attention, so I'm going to ignore her attempts to keep in touch because it only reminds me of the pain I went through before when I talk to her
Are you not willing to have little spats and listen and talk it out at all. You just throwing the towel in and maybe really communicate what's bothering you and see if it can be worked out. Or live your life how you see fit usually with equal amount of understandin, time, effort, patience, and adapting.
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Posted by narleycharley94
I treated her like a queen when we were together and I think after awhile she became comfortable and expected me to do things.

I know now that someone else will come along that deserves my attention, so I'm going to ignore her attempts to keep in touch because it only reminds me of the pain I went through before when I talk to her
Yup. Do it. And there may even be a time where she breaks down and wants you back after she's realized you're really not talking anymore. But I would move on. She had her chances.
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I follow this but I'd take her back only to show her whose boss man. Virgos are beast in the bed so he just has to put it on her. ?

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Posted by narleycharley94
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I chased this woman for 6 months trying to be rational and show her she was worth fighting for but after pushing me away and not wanting to see me for so long a person can only take so much.

I love her dearly but I would be insane to keep chasing her after her showing no interest in me.


You don't have to "chase" her. At this point chasing a libra will push us away. Be available and let her come to you, then dish out your chivalry and some firmness. She'll come running back but she's playing on your weak hearted side.

Don't call her and I bet you she will find a reason to call you. We don't know how to let go and will keep doors cracked open. Virgos do the same but you guys tend to show your cards first so it becomes a great cat mouse game for us.

I'm telling you---she's power struggling with you and every single time you pour your heart out she equates that to you screaming mercy. Be present but firm. If you love her still. You're the oldest anyway so act like it.



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I chased this woman for 6 months trying to be rational and show her she was worth fighting for but after pushing me away and not wanting to see me for so long a person can only take so much.

I love her dearly but I would be insane to keep chasing her after her showing no interest in me.


Not every thing is about chasing dear. You have to both be willing to come at least 50/50 both sides. You and her. I see you want to chase okay not too aggressively, but not all the time pull back and see if it's worth it. Action is right here.

You focus on school and a career, then think about a lady.

You do you and she does her then you guys spend time together talk, get to know each other.
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@First Decan I'm not sure lol

I do know that besides my sun being a Virgo, my Venus is in Libra and Mars in Gemini

And too your other post I agree, it's hard when one minute someone is talking about marrying you and 3 months later they break up with you and you're unprepared for it so yeah
Earth and air too. I get you now. Lol
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@First Decan I'm not sure lol

I do know that besides my sun being a Virgo, my Venus is in Libra and Mars in Gemini

And too your other post I agree, it's hard when one minute someone is talking about marrying you and 3 months later they break up with you and you're unprepared for it so yeah
You asked her to marry you? And total rejection. Yikes bro. Yeah no.
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Ignore the stupid cunt. She's 21 years old and has no idea what she wants.

They're stupid cockteases by nature. She gets off on the attention you give her no matter what she does to you. Immature Libras are attention whoring users. They're insecure fucks who seek attention and will do some fucked up, shady shit to get it.

Either way, you need to drop her. Entirely. No more answering her texts. You look like a pathetic loser when you continue to respond to her.

You need to spend your time and efforts on someone more deserving, not some lame bitch who needs a swift kick to the ovaries.
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Posted by narleycharley94
@FirstDecan

I chased this woman for 6 months trying to be rational and show her she was worth fighting for but after pushing me away and not wanting to see me for so long a person can only take so much.

I love her dearly but I would be insane to keep chasing her after her showing no interest in me.


You're doing it wrong. Stop.

Chasing after a bitch who has no fucks to give about you is stupid and pointless. You can't "show" someone who they're worth if they aren't even remotely mature enough to realize it. Drop that stupid ass fairy tale bs perpetuated by media that "saving" lame assholes like this or "rescuing" them is any sort of normal or sane foundation for a relationship.

They aren't therapy sweetie. Do yourself a favor and stop approaching relationships as if they're a form of therapy where you play therapist. You're doing it entirely wrong.

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And too your other post I agree, it's hard when one minute someone is talking about marrying you and 3 months later they break up with you and you're unprepared for it so yeah
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Rule #1 when dealing with Libras-

Do NOT believe a single ounce of their rushed proclamations and flowery words. If it sounds too good to be true or a little rushed, it usually is. They have zero truth to them.
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Posted by narleycharley94
@FirstDecan

I chased this woman for 6 months trying to be rational and show her she was worth fighting for but after pushing me away and not wanting to see me for so long a person can only take so much.

I love her dearly but I would be insane to keep chasing her after her showing no interest in me.


You're doing it wrong. Stop.

Chasing after a bitch who has no fucks to give about you is stupid and pointless. You can't "show" someone who they're worth if they aren't even remotely mature enough to realize it. Drop that stupid ass fairy tale bs perpetuated by media that "saving" lame assholes like this or "rescuing" them is any sort of normal or sane foundation for a relationship.

They aren't therapy sweetie. Do yourself a favor and stop approaching relationships as if they're a form of therapy where you play therapist. You're doing it entirely wrong.

Posted by narleycharley94


And too your other post I agree, it's hard when one minute someone is talking about marrying you and 3 months later they break up with you and you're unprepared for it so yeah
Rule #1 when dealing with Libras-

Do NOT believe a single ounce of their rushed proclamations and flowery words. If it sounds too good to be true or a little rushed, it usually is. They have zero truth to them.

I don't know about zero truth lol cuz trust me when I say I'd cock slap the shit out of you only cuz you're so aggressive it's really a turn on

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Those words are far from flowery, dear.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Ignore the stupid cunt. She's 21 years old and has no idea what she wants.

They're stupid cockteases by nature. She gets off on the attention you give her no matter what she does to you. Immature Libras are attention whoring users. They're insecure fucks who seek attention and will do some fucked up, shady shit to get it.

Either way, you need to drop her. Entirely. No more answering her texts. You look like a pathetic loser when you continue to respond to her.

You need to spend your time and efforts on someone more deserving, not some lame bitch who needs a swift kick to the ovaries.
THIS ISNT TRUE WE DONT SEEK ATTENTION ONLY FROM OUR MATE OR WHO EVER WE ARE IN LOBE WITH . I do believe she's young and we don't just act this way for just any reason maybe your missing something or you aren't doing something that she like. Doesn't mean she doesn't want him it just means he's missing something Virgo and libra are compatiable so it's something more to this story
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Ignore the stupid cunt. She's 21 years old and has no idea what she wants.

They're stupid cockteases by nature. She gets off on the attention you give her no matter what she does to you. Immature Libras are attention whoring users. They're insecure fucks who seek attention and will do some fucked up, shady shit to get it.

Either way, you need to drop her. Entirely. No more answering her texts. You look like a pathetic loser when you continue to respond to her.

You need to spend your time and efforts on someone more deserving, not some lame bitch who needs a swift kick to the ovaries.
THIS ISNT TRUE WE DONT SEEK ATTENTION ONLY FROM OUR MATE OR WHO EVER WE ARE IN LOBE WITH . I do believe she's young and we don't just act this way for just any reason maybe your missing something or you aren't doing something that she like. Doesn't mean she doesn't want him it just means he's missing something Virgo and libra are compatiable so it's something more to this story
Don't take Rocky's comment too personal. Immature Libras ARE cockteases. Emphasis on "immature".
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Yet another dipshit newb who can't read for shit. Why are people so fucking retarded when it comes to reading comprehension? So damned annoying.
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Posted by narleycharley94
I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol

My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.

So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!

So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.

My question is what should I do in this situation?


To be honest as a fellow libra I feel like she simply can't make up her mind whether she wants to get back together with you or not. Chances are when she hits you up like that maybe she's about to say something then gets lazy about it. Why did she break up with you?

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She basically said we lost the passion in our relationship and she made several attempts to rekindle the flame but she said she stopped feeling the same way about me.

I asked her could we ever be friends again and she said she couldn't answer that question. Ever since then I stopped talking to her in hopes to move on and heal.

She is dating a new guy now but it doesn't matter to me. I'm focused on my life and what makes me happy, I'll always love her, she was the most amazing girl I've ever known but life goes on
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Posted by narleycharley94
I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol

My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.

So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!

So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.

My question is what should I do in this situation?


Block her and move on, for you!
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Posted by narleycharley94
She basically said we lost the passion in our relationship and she made several attempts to rekindle the flame but she said she stopped feeling the same way about me.

I asked her could we ever be friends again and she said she couldn't answer that question. Ever since then I stopped talking to her in hopes to move on and heal.

She is dating a new guy now but it doesn't matter to me. I'm focused on my life and what makes me happy, I'll always love her, she was the most amazing girl I've ever known but life goes on

Were you romantic and did romantic things? But yea just continue to move on with your life and block her if you need to. If she ever tries to come back in the future cuz it doesn't work with her guy don't allow her the opportunity to because your not a rebound. What's meant to be will be focus on you !
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Posted by narleycharley94
@FirstDecan

I chased this woman for 6 months trying to be rational and show her she was worth fighting for but after pushing me away and not wanting to see me for so long a person can only take so much.

I love her dearly but I would be insane to keep chasing her after her showing no interest in me.


You're doing it wrong. Stop.



Huge lie but if that makes you feel better then go for it lol. All Libras aren't the same.

Chasing after a bitch who has no fucks to give about you is stupid and pointless. You can't "show" someone who they're worth if they aren't even remotely mature enough to realize it. Drop that stupid ass fairy tale bs perpetuated by media that "saving" lame assholes like this or "rescuing" them is any sort of normal or sane foundation for a relationship.

They aren't therapy sweetie. Do yourself a favor and stop approaching relationships as if they're a form of therapy where you play therapist. You're doing it entirely wrong.

Posted by narleycharley94


And too your other post I agree, it's hard when one minute someone is talking about marrying you and 3 months later they break up with you and you're unprepared for it so yeah
Rule #1 when dealing with Libras-

Do NOT believe a single ounce of their rushed proclamations and flowery words. If it sounds too good to be true or a little rushed, it usually is. They have zero truth to them.
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