
narleycharley94
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Posted by narleycharley94Libra or not, stay away from pain and find someone that wants you ... sorry but it's true ... sniff ...
I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol
My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.
So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!
So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.
My question is what should I do in this situation?

Posted by tcta+1 agreed. you gave it your best right? that's all you can do. now give your best to someone deserving and see how you feel.Posted by narleycharley94Libra or not, stay away from pain and find someone that wants you ... sorry but it's true ... sniff ...
I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol
My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.
So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!
So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.
My question is what should I do in this situation?
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Posted by AbbyNormalnice rack Abby!Posted by tcta+1 agreed. you gave it your best right? that's all you can do. now give your best to someone deserving and see how you feel.Posted by narleycharley94Libra or not, stay away from pain and find someone that wants you ... sorry but it's true ... sniff ...
I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol
My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.
So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!
So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.
My question is what should I do in this situation?
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428who ? I'm not on reddit ?
Did I see you on reddit?

Posted by tctaI know was wondering if @Op was.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428who ? I'm not on reddit ?
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428oh, I thought it was a male - but you never know lol ...Posted by tctaI know was wondering if @Op was.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428who ? I'm not on reddit ?
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Posted by tctaim so confused....Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428oh, I thought it was a male - but you never know lol ...Posted by tctaI know was wondering if @Op was.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428who ? I'm not on reddit ?
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Posted by AbbyNormalHe can't do that because he loves her and she probably has his heart. When a woman has a virgos heart it's hard for a Virgo to let go. Especially a libra---they are weak to us. The dynamic between a libra and Virgo can be unreal (like soulmate'ish). Once the power struggle is laid aside--it's pretty beautiful relationship to witness or be apart of.Posted by tcta+1 agreed. you gave it your best right? that's all you can do. now give your best to someone deserving and see how you feel.Posted by narleycharley94Libra or not, stay away from pain and find someone that wants you ... sorry but it's true ... sniff ...
I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol
My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.
So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!
So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.
My question is what should I do in this situation?
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Posted by narleycharley94Are you not willing to have little spats and listen and talk it out at all. You just throwing the towel in and maybe really communicate what's bothering you and see if it can be worked out. Or live your life how you see fit usually with equal amount of understandin, time, effort, patience, and adapting.
I treated her like a queen when we were together and I think after awhile she became comfortable and expected me to do things.
I know now that someone else will come along that deserves my attention, so I'm going to ignore her attempts to keep in touch because it only reminds me of the pain I went through before when I talk to her

Posted by TheLibraMudraI follow this but I'd take her back only to show her whose boss man. Virgos are beast in the bed so he just has to put it on her. ?Posted by narleycharley94Yup. Do it. And there may even be a time where she breaks down and wants you back after she's realized you're really not talking anymore. But I would move on. She had her chances.
I treated her like a queen when we were together and I think after awhile she became comfortable and expected me to do things.
I know now that someone else will come along that deserves my attention, so I'm going to ignore her attempts to keep in touch because it only reminds me of the pain I went through before when I talk to herclick to expand


Posted by narleycharley94You don't have to "chase" her. At this point chasing a libra will push us away. Be available and let her come to you, then dish out your chivalry and some firmness. She'll come running back but she's playing on your weak hearted side.
@FirstDecan
I chased this woman for 6 months trying to be rational and show her she was worth fighting for but after pushing me away and not wanting to see me for so long a person can only take so much.
I love her dearly but I would be insane to keep chasing her after her showing no interest in me.

Posted by narleycharley94Not every thing is about chasing dear. You have to both be willing to come at least 50/50 both sides. You and her. I see you want to chase okay not too aggressively, but not all the time pull back and see if it's worth it. Action is right here.
@FirstDecan
I chased this woman for 6 months trying to be rational and show her she was worth fighting for but after pushing me away and not wanting to see me for so long a person can only take so much.
I love her dearly but I would be insane to keep chasing her after her showing no interest in me.




Posted by narleycharley94Earth and air too. I get you now. Lol
@First Decan I'm not sure lol
I do know that besides my sun being a Virgo, my Venus is in Libra and Mars in Gemini
And too your other post I agree, it's hard when one minute someone is talking about marrying you and 3 months later they break up with you and you're unprepared for it so yeah

Posted by narleycharley94You asked her to marry you? And total rejection. Yikes bro. Yeah no.
@First Decan I'm not sure lol
I do know that besides my sun being a Virgo, my Venus is in Libra and Mars in Gemini
And too your other post I agree, it's hard when one minute someone is talking about marrying you and 3 months later they break up with you and you're unprepared for it so yeah


Posted by narleycharley94Okay so what are you going to do?
No I never asked her to marry me she would tell me that she could see herself marrying me within the year and I would always say I'm just enjoying each day I spend with you.
It wasn't like that


Posted by narleycharley94You're doing it wrong. Stop.
@FirstDecan
I chased this woman for 6 months trying to be rational and show her she was worth fighting for but after pushing me away and not wanting to see me for so long a person can only take so much.
I love her dearly but I would be insane to keep chasing her after her showing no interest in me.
Posted by narleycharley94Rule #1 when dealing with Libras-
And too your other post I agree, it's hard when one minute someone is talking about marrying you and 3 months later they break up with you and you're unprepared for it so yeahclick to expand

Posted by LibrasettingThose words are far from flowery, dear.Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by narleycharley94You're doing it wrong. Stop.
@FirstDecan
I chased this woman for 6 months trying to be rational and show her she was worth fighting for but after pushing me away and not wanting to see me for so long a person can only take so much.
I love her dearly but I would be insane to keep chasing her after her showing no interest in me.
Chasing after a bitch who has no fucks to give about you is stupid and pointless. You can't "show" someone who they're worth if they aren't even remotely mature enough to realize it. Drop that stupid ass fairy tale bs perpetuated by media that "saving" lame assholes like this or "rescuing" them is any sort of normal or sane foundation for a relationship.
They aren't therapy sweetie. Do yourself a favor and stop approaching relationships as if they're a form of therapy where you play therapist. You're doing it entirely wrong.Posted by narleycharley94Rule #1 when dealing with Libras-
And too your other post I agree, it's hard when one minute someone is talking about marrying you and 3 months later they break up with you and you're unprepared for it so yeah
Do NOT believe a single ounce of their rushed proclamations and flowery words. If it sounds too good to be true or a little rushed, it usually is. They have zero truth to them.
I don't know about zero truth lol cuz trust me when I say I'd cock slap the shit out of you only cuz you're so aggressive it's really a turn on
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamTHIS ISNT TRUE WE DONT SEEK ATTENTION ONLY FROM OUR MATE OR WHO EVER WE ARE IN LOBE WITH . I do believe she's young and we don't just act this way for just any reason maybe your missing something or you aren't doing something that she like. Doesn't mean she doesn't want him it just means he's missing something Virgo and libra are compatiable so it's something more to this story
Ignore the stupid cunt. She's 21 years old and has no idea what she wants.
They're stupid cockteases by nature. She gets off on the attention you give her no matter what she does to you. Immature Libras are attention whoring users. They're insecure fucks who seek attention and will do some fucked up, shady shit to get it.
Either way, you need to drop her. Entirely. No more answering her texts. You look like a pathetic loser when you continue to respond to her.
You need to spend your time and efforts on someone more deserving, not some lame bitch who needs a swift kick to the ovaries.

Posted by dolluxeYet another dipshit newb who can't read for shit. Why are people so fucking retarded when it comes to reading comprehension? So damned annoying.Posted by LibraGirlLostDon't take Rocky's comment too personal. Immature Libras ARE cockteases. Emphasis on "immature".Posted by rockyroadicecreamTHIS ISNT TRUE WE DONT SEEK ATTENTION ONLY FROM OUR MATE OR WHO EVER WE ARE IN LOBE WITH . I do believe she's young and we don't just act this way for just any reason maybe your missing something or you aren't doing something that she like. Doesn't mean she doesn't want him it just means he's missing something Virgo and libra are compatiable so it's something more to this story
Ignore the stupid cunt. She's 21 years old and has no idea what she wants.
They're stupid cockteases by nature. She gets off on the attention you give her no matter what she does to you. Immature Libras are attention whoring users. They're insecure fucks who seek attention and will do some fucked up, shady shit to get it.
Either way, you need to drop her. Entirely. No more answering her texts. You look like a pathetic loser when you continue to respond to her.
You need to spend your time and efforts on someone more deserving, not some lame bitch who needs a swift kick to the ovaries.click to expand

Posted by narleycharley94To be honest as a fellow libra I feel like she simply can't make up her mind whether she wants to get back together with you or not. Chances are when she hits you up like that maybe she's about to say something then gets lazy about it. Why did she break up with you?
I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol
My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.
So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!
So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.
My question is what should I do in this situation?



Posted by narleycharley94Block her and move on, for you!
I'm new to this forum but I prefer the advice of real people over a paid professional lol
My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.
So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!
So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.
My question is what should I do in this situation?
Posted by narleycharley94
She basically said we lost the passion in our relationship and she made several attempts to rekindle the flame but she said she stopped feeling the same way about me.
I asked her could we ever be friends again and she said she couldn't answer that question. Ever since then I stopped talking to her in hopes to move on and heal.
She is dating a new guy now but it doesn't matter to me. I'm focused on my life and what makes me happy, I'll always love her, she was the most amazing girl I've ever known but life goes on
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by narleycharley94You're doing it wrong. Stop.
@FirstDecan
I chased this woman for 6 months trying to be rational and show her she was worth fighting for but after pushing me away and not wanting to see me for so long a person can only take so much.
I love her dearly but I would be insane to keep chasing her after her showing no interest in me.
Huge lie but if that makes you feel better then go for it lol. All Libras aren't the same.
Chasing after a bitch who has no fucks to give about you is stupid and pointless. You can't "show" someone who they're worth if they aren't even remotely mature enough to realize it. Drop that stupid ass fairy tale bs perpetuated by media that "saving" lame assholes like this or "rescuing" them is any sort of normal or sane foundation for a relationship.
They aren't therapy sweetie. Do yourself a favor and stop approaching relationships as if they're a form of therapy where you play therapist. You're doing it entirely wrong.Posted by narleycharley94Rule #1 when dealing with Libras-
And too your other post I agree, it's hard when one minute someone is talking about marrying you and 3 months later they break up with you and you're unprepared for it so yeah
Do NOT believe a single ounce of their rushed proclamations and flowery words. If it sounds too good to be true or a little rushed, it usually is. They have zero truth to them.click to expand
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My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago after a 2 year relationship, I literally chased her all the way up to November. She is a Libra and I'm a Virgo, she's 21 and I'm 24. Initially, I was determined to win her back because I couldn't stop thinking about her and I knew we could overcome our issues. But me being emotionally blind at the time, she slowly pushed me away and started treating me like a piece of sh*t basically. We went from talking everyday and hanging out to her ignoring me and avoiding me. After months of me trying to win her back and show her how much she meant to me.....I just gave up and got tired of her leading me on and then crushing my hopes with her actions.
So I stopped contacting her for about a month and then she texts me just to talk. So I started texting her back just to catch up and she disappeared again!
So I said to myself I'm not taking to her anymore she keeps ripping my heart out over and over. She texts me again two weeks later and I kindly tell her, even though I still love you, I have no desire to be friends or talk to you as it is to painful for me. She says okay and I'm thinking she will leave me alone for good so I can finally heal from it. But then she starts texting me again a week later. I'm asking all you Libra ladies....what should I do? I know she doesn't want me back because if she did we would certainly be at least talking more and dating by now but I don't want to be rude and ignore her forever either as I clearly still love her and cherish her.
My question is what should I do in this situation?