Lingerie

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littlesparrow
@littlesparrow
10 Years

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Can I offer you a little unsolicited advice?

First, Cosmo lied. The ability to deliver “mind blowing orgasms” will not make a man stay with you. All women with a vagina are capable of having sex.

Coming onto the forum, and saying ‘I like lingerie. Do you?’ Is kind of sickly sweet and the female equivalent of “look at me. look at me” because I have zero doubt that you know the answer to this question. So why pretend?

My best advice to young women is don’t pander. Respect yourself. Hold your own. Know that what you have between your ears is worthy of any man's time and attention. I think for most men, a woman than can match them intellectually and own herself (play by her own rules) is sexier and more desirable than any amount of lingerie.

If you like lingerie, buy it … but do it for YOU not for some guy.

As I said, completely unsolicited advice.

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CopperDove
@CopperDove
10 Years5,000+ Posts

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I like nice lingerie and wear it for myself to enjoy whether I have a partner or not.

I have my collection organized in categories including an "expendable" category for things that didn't cost much so if they rip while playing 😉, no big deal.

Another category is "special" which is expensive pieces that are ideal for photographs, and/or if I have a partner who is extra careful.

I prefer it when my partners like to see me in nice lingerie and enjoy helping me pick what to buy next. I like dressing up for partners so that's part of it. Some men are not interested so wearing it won't get their attention, but it's been a long time since I dated someone like that.



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Libra
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9 YearsLibra

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@GreyWiz: the chick u r mentioning is that me?
If that's me ...m not thinking anything lyk that 😢
And moreover I cut all contacts with my ex ...this lingerie thing has nothing to do with him .....he has done a lot of things (bad)after my last post ...m not giving him any second chance .....now m concentrating on good things in my life ....n moving on.
If I change my mind ...then smack me left n right lol 😆
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AriesJo
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I’m totally confused by this post and a bit shocked, I can’t speak for all men but of course men like it? And if it makes you feel more confident then men like that too?

it’s for both of our enjoyment in a way? And what guy doesn’t want his lady to feel sexy? So I’d a bit confused. I would definitely notice, and I’d probably notice anything a woman made an effort with.
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Eleventh
@The_eleventh_sign_11
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I'm all for invoking your inner goddess though I'm a firm believer in wearing lingerie the right way...it's all about accentuating lines and curves and playing with your identity of firm and figure when you shed your everyday clothes.....I can't stand current Victoria secret panties how they are low and horizontal across the waist, they make the torso look longer than it needs to be, I like the 80s over the hip bikini style like what Brazilian women wear....either way it's heaps of fun