Libra man 5 rule handbook

1) Thou shall not flirt....if your my woman then have eyes only for me.
2) Confusion is the name of the day....yes i'll occassionally leave you confuse about my love/feelings for you. Get use to it
3) Going Cold...if you annoy me,if you make me jealous,when am down,when am living in my head. Again get use to it.
4) Attention...i love it,want it from you and others. However the one am with must never crave others attention.
5) Jealousy....haha,for this one i have astrology on my side. Its well known libras dont get jealous. Mmmmm oh yes we do,we just hide it better than others and we will detach to figure out why we feel jealousy. Confuse? So you should be.

Seriously I dont get it. Where is the love for the libras...? No type is perfect but I keep hearing how bad we are in relationships, we are so inconsiderate etc... I put a ton of effort into relationships and in quite a few cases get taken advantage for it...nice guys finish last right...but we still try... So in our defence (please take this in the fun spirit intended)

1) Thou shall not flirt... Ive stood by and watched quite a few gfs flirt, if I said something I was a hypocrit, but if I didnt I was a bastard who never cared about them....sigh.
2) Confusion is the name of the day....Are we suppossed to confess undying love even when the other person is going back and forth? Seriously? No really...? Because every other type is so consistent... Hey ms. sagittarius this is great you are a lot of fun....wait where did you go. Oh right you have 500 others and I did one stupid little thing you didnt like so I can never speak to you again.
3) Going https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/libras-and-cutting-people-off-2250308/ I have heard a ton of butter about this. If I go cold its because you generally have crossed the line, or I realise im pissed or worn out and dont want to take it out on you. Or is it better to be like some scorpios stabbing that stinger carelessly into any innocent bystander just because THEY are unhappy, asserting their opinion as if it were a fact, which its not because they are wrong? Or an unhealthy cancer throwing an absolute rightious fit over the fact we didnt notice their left outermost hair braid has a new shade of streak in it. Nevermind its because its dark out in the hot air balloon that we rented for your birthday, and the 300 acrobats with torches spelling out "I LOVE YOU" on the ground are too far off to illuminate it... We didnt notice your hair...
4) Attention...we are social. Tell a virgo they cant do anything practical and watch what happens.
5) Jealousy....evey sign gets jealous, its just how we deal with it that may be different. See above link 🙂

Anyway I guess the point is who is perfect? Sure there are some bad examples, like with any type, but most libras I know would go to hades and back for their mates. How about making it clear you want us to or its appreciated?

Hey hey hey...the thread was not a put down....all uve done is given explanation for all 5 points.
And i have already learned and accept thats a libra way.
🙂

AHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAH

libras good at hiding jealousy :/

Posted by CasperChief117
AHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAH

libras good at hiding jealousy :/

Whats so funny casper?

LMAO.. HAHHAHA!!!!

really i dont see the difference between our detachment and a scorpios silence as a means to detach

we never really detach, we just try and calm our emtions down and figure out what got us that way, you cant lead with your emotions all the time and you cant always use your mind in emotional situations

but you can use both, and we find out what got us mad, angry, jealous, sad, depressed and if we see the same shit happening again then we will detach b/c its a tell tell sign we are being played with

And going cold is us leaving you by yourself b/c we need to clear our head but everyone has a stop button and if you keep closing us in we will explode. Some are verbal, some may just push you out the way, some may be grounded about it

Pride of October,where have you been hiding?? Glad to see you back on here.🙂
Yes i agree, as a scorpio i tend to go listen:
1)if am annoyed with myself
2)if someone tick me off
3)if i dont know you well enough.
But thats not detachment.

Lol at pandora box, I know what u mean its a constant love\hate ferris wheel ride BUT its fun!

He is dating someone else, as are you, so you really don't know what it is to be his "main squeeze". *sigh*

Posted by little_sparrow
He is dating someone else, as are you, so you really don't know what it is to be his "main squeeze". *sigh*

Nor does he,know what it is to be mine. *sigh*

Posted by FemmeScorpion

Posted by little_sparrow
He is dating someone else, as are you, so you really don't know what it is to be his "main squeeze". *sigh*

Nor does he,know what it is to be mine. *sigh*

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And what does it mean to be yours, Femme? That one would have to either rage uncontrollably OR sit idly by while you have emotional affairs with multiple other men OR beg you to stop and be true blue? Aries chose Option B, and you would want Libra to choose C. But he'd choose D) None Of The Above. He'd leave before you played him and broke his heart... or never let you in his heart in the first place.

As bluntly and realistically as possible.. he doesn't WANT to know. What he already knows about you is plenty enough to keep him at arm's length from you and to ensure he won't get involved with you more deeply. He enjoys the flirting and the games... but Libra KNOWS that you do this shit both behind your Aries bf's back.. AND with Libra's Aqua brother. (And don't call it "just flirting".. it's an emotional affair and you are completely obsessed with this Libra.) You don't stand a chance, not even if you dump Aries and ignore Aqua and throw yourself at Libra's feet... not even if Libra broke up with HIS woman.

In Texas Hold 'Em.. they call this "drawing dead."

Posted by Nefer

Posted by FemmeScorpion

Posted by little_sparrow
He is dating someone else, as are you, so you really don't know what it is to be his "main squeeze". *sigh*

Nor does he,know what it is to be mine. *sigh*

And what does it mean to be yours, Femme? That one would have to either rage uncontrollably OR sit idly by while you have emotional affairs with multiple other men OR beg you to stop and be true blue? Aries chose Option B, and you would want Libra to choose C. But he'd choose D) None Of The Above. He'd leave before you played him and broke his heart... or never let you in his heart in the first place.

As bluntly and realistically as possible.. he doesn't WANT to know. What he already knows about you is plenty enough to keep him at arm's length from you and to ensure he won't get involved with you more deeply. He enjoys the flirting and the games... but Libra KNOWS that you do this shit both behind your Aries bf's back.. AND with Libra's Aqua brother. (And don't call it "just flirting".. it's an emotional affair and you are completely obsessed with this Libra.) You don't stand a chance, not even if you dump Aries and ignore Aqua and throw yourself at Libra's feet... not even if Libra broke up with HIS woman.

In Texas Hold 'Em.. they call this "drawing dead."

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Hahahaha you crease me up....Nefer draw your conclusion from what you know!!
Because you are clueless...go preach to someone else coz u aint my saviour.
Thanks for stopping by and posting thou doll!!

Posted by QLIbraMale
@FemmeScorpion Did you find your answer, that you was searching for? or will you be wrapped up in confusion over the holidays? lol

What hols? xmas hols? Yeah i got my answers. Libra man aint that hard to figure out.🙂
Am not saying i figured it out all by myself,i had help from a gr8 trusted pal.

shall I add:

Must must never take the limelight from Libra..