Might Have Found Balance...

For the past two years I know I have been out of balance. The past three months have been the worst of it and tonight I thought the event that occurred was going to bring about my Libran wrath like never before. I do have to point out my run/ignore instinct really brought me to where I am now. I won't bore you with the details of getting to the point where I believe I found my balance, but suffice it to say it was more of the same.

As I stewed and thought of every "wrong" that had been done to me that natural indecisiveness kicked in. The one side had that brash "I don't need to be liked" Libra and on the other was the "Oh God if I go through with this I won't be liked" side. It is here that the balance began. The compromise phase said go with the ignore tactic. With a slow tilt though saying "let them know you've been hurt". Finally (always the diplomat) I decided a list was in order along with a cause and effect chart to how I arrived at such a situation.

The conclusion? My feelings along with my perception were bringing me to this state. Stoicism points out that often it is our opinion of a situation that creates the issue at hand, not the situation unto itself. Instantly that flash of anger was gone and I was left with balance 🙂 So fellow Libras use the gifts we posses to probably analyze the situation. We can advise ourselves as well as we advise others.

Really well said. I am a Libra as well who has had a bad last few years, and an especially bad last few months, hoping for a turnaround soon 🙂

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