Miss The Guy He was

I think this is it for libra man and I. We cannot get along mainly because he has mistreated me. The messed up part about it he's moved on but he still tired to play saying he still cares blah blah.
Now we don't talk at all and i was doing fine without him until he magically came back about a month ago. He's selfish i must add. He doesn't want me to be with another guy but yet in our very last argument he told me he doesn't love me. So what's the deal libras? The guy begged to see me and thinking he had changed then, i paid him a visit only to realize he wanted me to make the first move by kissing him.
So he tells me to come closer to him waiting for a kiss i kissed the guy (stupid me) and then he asked if i wanted sex. I refused him so he gets upset.
I told him the only reason i agreed to see him was to talk. Long story short, the following day he says i forced him. (confused!!!!!!) like wtf—? how did i force you? you called me closer. You're the one who asked me if i wanted to have sex with you. Gosh!
He will start an argument and blame me for responding. How do you deal with that? worse part is as much as he upsets me i care for him and i shouldn't. I guess it was all part of making me jealous of his new relationship and maybe even trying to make me miserable.

note. I only agreed to see him because he had told me that he wasn't in love with her and he was planning on leaving her because he wanted to be with me and yes i believed him because i still loved him and believed we had a strong connection passed the arguments in the past.


so libras, your partner in crime did this to me therefore i want your input on how to deal with this and know how to deal with libra personality because before he was my lover he was my friend. I miss the friend in him not the cold heart jerk he has become. Even more so will my friend ever come back? Will he ever realize is wrong?

WHAT is the question here? You have answered everything you need to know in the title and in the first part of your story.

That friend you saw in the beginning was the pretty facade. This crap you're seeing now is the douche he really is, sadly.

He wants his cake and to eat it too. Doesn't want you, but doesn't want you to date others. Wants you to stick around for free sex.

That's it. Move along. Dude's an entitled asshole, lady.

Will he realize he was wrong? Yes.

...in about 40 years.

I never could figure out how men like that can look themselves in the mirror at the end of the day. There is no empathy for others, no care or concern for the effect they have on the woman they are manipulating, and they do so with purely selfish intentions. Where do these type of men come from?

The best thing for you to do is gather up your strength and close that door. He is an asswipe.
P.S. this has nothing to do with sign ....

Don't be upset, you was doing all your nice and best to show him you are a real woman , but he show to you his bad side....
Yes, the best thing now is to stay away of him. If you want to play him the same card, you can do something to kill his Ego : ask him to meet in a hotel or your place , but not to his place ! Initiate a kiss, but don't give it to him. Touch his sensitive parts of body , push him in the bed, and while he is stay there waiting for you to come over him , keep a little distance from the bed, then leave and close the door ! without any word ! This is what he deserving !