My Libra Girl got me FIRED!

Had a wonderful day with LG (Libra Girl). Did a lot of errands together. Had a nice lunch together and LOTS of conversation. SOMEWHERE in one of our conversations she mentioned she thinks SHE got me FIRED! She and I are both in real estate and we were both in the same brokerage house. Well, about six months ago, I was promised a private office for 3 weeks---the Broker never kept her promise. So LG took it upon herself to talk to the Broker and tell her I wanted to know why I still didn't have an office. A few weeks later I was "fired" without any explantion whatsoever (I made them a LOT of money---sold 25 houses in the first six months of last year---so it didn't make sense. 'Still doesn't make sense to me). I just went to another Broker who hired me immediately---LG stayed with the previous Broker. NOW, TODAY, after thinking things through over and over again, LG believes what she told the Broker made the Broker think I wanted to leave---so the Broker just let me go before I even got to talk with her. That's the reasoning of LG. And she tells me TODAY.

I see this in so many different ways. Am I suppose to be HAPPY that LG got me fired? Is she telling me this because she's feeling guilty? Am I suppose to be HAPPY that she told me---honesty and all that---so now, in her mind, we're even closer? Is it just a statement of fact according to her---or is she saying, "Look what I did to you. Why are you hanging around?"

Your thoughts?

Atom

She may have contributed, maybe not. But it's irrelevant in your quest to find out how she feels about you, today.

She told you because of her desire to be honest. Fairness first and foremost even if it means to come clean and make an arse of ourselves. Also, now you can never hear it from someone else. She feels bad about it and it's been on her mind. Setting the record straight.

Good girl...

I already told you, but, you're not listening because you WANT to chase this girl, you are doing whatever you possibly can to get her . .

She's playing you . . I know, you don't want to hear that.

Suit yourself . . get burnt.

Think about it Atom . . .

It appears from everything you've said . . she wants attention from you . . but, not you. You're just thinking about how much you want her - YOU WANT HER -

Your not thinking about it from the other way around . . is she behaving like a woman who wants her man?

Step back . . take a look . . if a woman is crazy about her man . . she WANTS HIM.

Not just attention.

It's hard, I know . .

Every woman I know and I know many at my age . . when she's mad about somebody, she takes him into her bed and makes passionate love to him. That is what women do when they have been swept away by a man . . every woman . . sun sign has nothing to do with "love", mate.

If she ain't shagging you after all this time . . she ain't feeling you. If someone isn't feeling you . . why do this to yourself?

Your causing your own pain because your wanting somebody who doesn't want you.

Can take a lot longer if you want someone and you're shy...

Unless the guy does all the leg work it can take a loooooong time...

Of course . . what do I know . . being a Pisces . . I love getting boned

Perhaps, she's just frigid . . hand jive, com'on baby give me that hand jive

Who did that? Clapton?

Rosie you're all right -- you wear my ring

When you hold me tight -- rosie that's my thing

When you turn out the light -- I've got to hand it to me

Looks like it's me and you again tonight - - rosie

P-Angel, I'm giving her more time---I know Pisces girls are quite different (I've had some AMAZING romances with a few). I think Libra's right about her thinking about this for quite a while and coming clean. And, frankly, that kind of honesty is so RARE. And, yes, unfortunately I may need to come to the conclusion she's just frigid and ever will be. But, as Libra has pointed out many times in many posts, there is that subtle affection, the little shy stuff, that Libra girl is doing now. Was she offered an office at the old place? She could have one if she wanted to but prefers to work from her home. The Broker did go to her directly to be sure she wouldn't leave.

Clapton quote? Thanks, P-Angel---he and I have the same birth date, different years. Brings a smile to my face. And, yeah I may be being strung along, so I want you to know I am taking to heart your comments about maybe she just wants the attention. The thing about us Aries is once we KNOW it's not gonna happen or it's just plain over, we're GONE.

kennyg . . I've never dated a female Libra . . but, I did live with a male for several years and he was a "lover" . . oh yeah . . hot, heavy and horny.

Atom, you know you . . I just wanted to make sure that you're not "blinded" . . love does that to people, unfortunately.

Clapton rocks . . didn't he once say something like, he's bagged over a thousand women? Damn . . I wanna be #1001

hehehehe

The LEEBRA, Everyone says real estate is in a down turn, but I've been doing this long enough that I've been able to survive any Market---besides, I believe you make your own success. INTRIGUING question, "Do I have something she needs?" Not really. She's self-sufficient. She did just fine before without me in her life. 'Doesn't have many friends, so that could be it.

And P-Angel, BELIEVE me: Libras know how to blind you immediately! Yow. I know I have true feelings, deep affection for her. Have seen the good and bad, as a whole. Maybe breathing room away from her helps me to make sure I'm NOT blinded by her! Clapton? We both have the same type of personality. So it's pretty sweet!

I don't understand the big deal. You were fired, whether because of her or not, yet you found a new job immediately (and from what I can tell you're not emotionally or financially damaged because of it).

If you want us to assess what we think based on what you've typed, then I say she's grabbing for attention and pity...not so much she feels guilty for what she's done, but rather bringing up a topic she knows she can bind to you with. I don't know your saga with this girl. Honesty is great, but 6 months of holding it in? She had a motive.

H'Peach, Bind to me with? Motive? I wonder. . .

Is that a woman thing?

Is getting enough attention and pity worth that?

Makes me think. ..

Only you can determine if that kind of drama is worth your time...