Is it possible to flirt with Libra women?

Or is flirting something that is usually one sided with lady Libras? Its something that they prefer initiating? Are Libra sweethearts normally reciprocal with flirting? and on the side which zodiac sign men do you like to flirt with?

Hi, Fierce. My take on flirting with the Libra ladies is this: they LOVE to innocently flirt with other men---winking, lightly touching their arm, giving attention to their conversation. Then they go on. It usually doesn't last long. If you REALLY like a Libra girl, IMO, you just walk away while she is doing it. The guys I know that usually get attention from a Libra girl in this way are flattered and a little confused. But it's all innocent. And temporary. When your Libra lady turns around and sees that you're not there she'll come looking for you. She'll be happy you're just doing whatever you're doing and then start focusing on you again.

ALL Libra ladies know they're pretty. Nay, BEAUTIFUL. They LOVE to be complimented---NOT flattered. My take on this is just keep it light and truly compliment her once in awhile---it WILL be genuine, no doubt about that! Something like, "Your hair looks so nice today," or "You look so pretty in that dress,"--"that's a great color on you." REAL compliments. Including, "You were so smart figuring that out!" and genuine appreciation stuff: "Thank you for your help on that." They can see through ANY thing that isn't true. And you WON'T find it very hard to find somethng to compliment her on. Remember: once in awhile. Try to flatter her as a playa and, yuck, you'll probably be very pleasantly escorted out the door before you realize it! It's COLD out there!

Two different things: her flirting, your complimenting. Yeah, you ARE being a flirt by complimenting her (you're showing her the right attention). BUT I think it goes deeper with her then her innocent flirtations with other guys.

I do the flirting when there is nothing to lose and I don't take kindly to people flirting with me. Very invading I find it.

When I really like you and a lot is at stake I don't flirt at all.

Like I'm some cheap bimbo that can actually be flirted with. I don't think so...

Au contraire!

Not sure I'm following.

You were not flirted with and that's where you should wish to be. The above is hardly an achievement.

This comment is sexy though

'True'

Are you an earth sign?

October people are special what can I say?

Now there's another flirt...

Libra moves slowly.

I can't stand smileys

How good?

Anyway, that was your crash course in flirting with Libra. Although being a Scorpio you are much better trained in that department. Scorps can flirt outrageously and can be very transparent. But you have my vote. You're very entertaining and can make me laugh...

Then I would have said 'crashed'...

I don't collect watches but what I have I like...

I prefer mine...

Hope wholeheartedly that that's not your definition of antibling...

Make a guy a compliment and this is what you get...

Who wears crystals in a watch? Gold is good, in moderation...

(No point in arguing about pretty things with a Libra)

Do these watches come with cars?

The gold on my watch is very good.

You're a cynic - that's too easy and uncreative, my dear. And that too not a virtue.

Sorry for the judgement there. But hey, I praised you earlier so at least I am balancing it out...

Being cynical is easy and uncreative. Stay with it, dear Yorkshire man...

(you are in Yorkshire, right?)

If you're cynical at my expense, then naturally...

At the time of reading I decided you were cynical, as we had already established.

"play 'go to the libra board and look at the bling watches'"

This is disappointing...

Not nice.

The whole thing. Libra is very one-on-one, and by redirecting people to "play 'go to the libra board and look at the bling watches'" you take that aspect away and it annoys me, a lot. Although of course I have no right to speak, of course...

I'm sure you'll get your sign of approval eventually but you probably won't find it on the Libra board.

It's just before to midnight and time for bed. Goodnight.

Interesting...

"Steel= you are dutch" - This makes no sense to me

"Venus in Virgo" = troubles me in a different way (am too lazy to be of service) but keeps the flirty Libra extremely well in check.

Leave Dolly alone...

So you are a venus in virgo?

Antibling, you've succesfully redirected to the Libra board. But I don't do threesomes, as already mentioned. So I'm off.

Back to the original topic. I have recently discovered that Libra women can be flirted with, will flirt back AND can be charmed. I may have disrupted the space-time continuem. I am sorry if the universe explodes as a result of my antics.

Ok, so it looks like they have to be loosened up a bit by lots of genuine conversation and a building of trust. It started with a lot of "Don't try and charm me, do you think I am an idiot?" and has progressed to "Are you trying to charm me? Damn it it's working." There may be hope left in the world. I may even go so far as to say they like being charmed....but you need to get in their good graces first.

Libra gals dont flirt with total strangers. They need to know a bit about the person to start this flirt. It may stop all of a sudden and resume after weeks.

We ourselves create the situation (by playing a little difficult) where we feel that you deserve us. We want to feel cherry picked. So you have to go through hoops a bit. We like effort. Then the fruits are your to reap.

That's all it is...

yours*

Well being a libra myself presented it's own challenges. She was well aware of my normal charming self and I of her purposeful aloofeness so it was a bit of a tab dance at first and we kinda met in the middle. I toned it down and became more straitforeward and she showed her appreciation by being more flirty. I guess it is kinda cheating though because we have known each other since we were little kids and recently discovered we have both been interrested in each other pretty much since high school when I went and visited my hometown earlier this year.

I think in a situation where you know each other and s/he behaves under normal circumstances I think it'a easiest to change however you behave now. So that the other person can see a change and wonder what's going on.

Two Libras is a tough one in a way: neither solicits for information very well so one or the two has to stick his/her neck out and take the risk. Just say the magic word, in close proximity of each other.

In the moment itself I am shy and will wait it out even though I can sense that the other one likes me. Bit like an airplane landing, just before the wheels touch down there is that three-second moment of absolutely nothing...

how h/she behaves*

one of the two*

(sorry for very poor spelling)

*** When I really like you and a lot is at stake I don't flirt at all.

Ding! Ding! Ding!

When I really like someone, I behave. (But it has to be like them to the point of vulnerability.)

*** I have recently discovered that Libra women can be flirted with, will flirt back AND can be charmed.

Ofcourse! We are flirts and charmers. It is our thing.

*** Libra gals dont flirt with total strangers. They need to know a bit about the person to start this flirt.

Completely untrue. I flirt with strangers constantly. Men, women, dogs, cats.

The only time I don't flirt, other than the aforementioned, is when I find the person a) boring b) crass or unappealing c) likes me too much and is starting to take me too seriously when the feelings are not reciprocal.

Ahhh Libra, the bulk mailers of the flirting world...

It's best not to take them too seriously. Always remember that you will be one of many that get stuck with a subscription to Better Homes and Gardens while vying to win the Publisher's Clearinghouse of their heart...

One day Cookie, if you keep playing, you might just win the sweepstakes.

🙂

and that might just be how we keep you hooked. 😉

hmmm but why keep hooking if you're not interested for the long term? Personally I know when I start pulling away (which is darn hard I might add) he starts dragging me back but has made it clear he's not ready for a "Relationship" at this time.....why not let me go?? grrrr@u librans LOL........its cruel 😛

Chatz,

We are all interrested in the long term, but we won't let you know because we don't want to open ourselves up to the possibility of someone "moving in too quickly". To alot of people it comes across as "I don't wan to be with you" when we are trying to get accross "I am fine on my own". From there we can see if the other person is independant and confident enough to be alone themselves which we take as an indicator that they won't later be clingy or possesive when things do get serious.

ok I think

"ok I think"

Tell me about it, were such pains in the ass.

nic THAT is the most TRUTHFUL comment I have seen today LOL....yes you guys are!!! But the more stupid part is that we keep hanging around for more of the pain in the ass!!! Why? because we are hypnotized and entrapped by the charm that somehow you use for your own needs/wants.

Talk about being difficult though making someone believe you're not interested like that....I wonder how many times you guys actually miss out on somebody really special due to your ways...I mean how many women are going to hang around for this stuff— sheesh they'd have to be very special!!! and being told "I'm not ready for a r/ship"?? in my eyes is pretty much putting it straight but he did it nicely I have to admit LOL....I mean how can I be upset? I can't...it just makes me wanna hang around more.....gawd *rolls eyes*

Well the opposite can be true as well. If we commit to someone, we might miss out on something special. We don't see either as absolute truths and that is why we take so long to come around. Knowing who the right person is isn't something that can be told or convinced, it has to be felt. And that takes time. We would be a lot less difficult if we had the patience in our pants that we have in our heart 😉

lol!

ummmm .... when I said that bit about hooking ... I was flirting with Cookie. His use of metaphor moves me.

now now LS, no fair using your superhero powers on us mere mortals...

I guess it's the combination of flirting and fickleness. Which is fine in the beginning, but if you're in a relationship with one you never know if they are just being themselves or baiting the hook for the next catch.