My libra's head is in the clouds

So me and my libra have been dating for 9 months now. We're both artists, he's a music producer and I'm a photographer. He's been increasing in popularity recently on his social media and I'm so happy for him because he's finally getting the recognition he deserves. Only thing is, ever since he's been getting noticed his ego has inflated and he's been ignoring me and my needs.

I'm scared to address it because I don't want him to think I'm raining on his parade or being negative but when we went out to eat the other day, he was completely immersed in his phone. He didn't ask about my day or what I've been up to (which he never has), always talks about himself, and just was totally lost in his phone and social media. We went to the grocery store and he got a message on Instagram, stopped dead in the aisle to answer it. In my head I'm thinking like are you serious? I'm losing him to technology and all these new fans he has; he's totally detached from me and has never expressed whether he loves me. The only time I feel his affection and possible "love" is when we're having sex. Other than that he's cold as ice. But he talks about the future with me because the other day he said he wants us to save up so we can move to california. So that gives me hope.

But I'm still confused as to what's going on and whether or not I should say something or let it be. Help?!

Posted by Timon
Say something. But tbh I don't think he is that into you. A libra inlove is affectionate.

Could be true but I also look at the way he was raised and things he's been through. He's been hurt a lot in the past and did not have the best upbringing so he may not know how to be that way. Also I believe he's been in love once and that girl hurt him as well.

We seesaw from being all lovey-dovey to being detached. At least that's how I am and something I've been working on.

Best thing to do is talk to him.