Is there a time frame on how long it takes libras to regroup?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Brickhouse27 on Wednesday, April 11, 2018 and has 25 replies.

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Ok to make a long story short. Myself and the man I've been with for 4 years now are currently living in 2 separate places due to situations that occurred. His dad passed and he is the oldest, he has 2 younger brothers that dont yo anything around the house. Fyi we were staying at the parents house. It's always alot of ppl there, its loud, etc. So we decided to just give each other space until he gets that situation under control.

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Yeah your absolutely right. It's so hard cause I feel like I'm letting him go through it alone. We have been through alot, that's my best friend but I dont have a choice but to give him his time alone.

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Depends.

Family:

Relatives - I love my family regardless so I don't really stress about that.

Starting one - Mona Lisa Vito status.

Work:

Job Stress - Nothing a night of good food, drinks, & company can't fix.

Career Outlook - I always feel like I can do more & do better.

Life - Never satisfied.

Death:

Of Loved Ones & Friends - they're in a better place so I get somewhat jealous that they don't have to deal with anything anymore. I do feel bad for the people they left though.

Thoughts of my own - Biggie's first album. That would change though if I started a family.

Relationships:

Mutual breakup - immediately

Dumper - months

Dumpee - years

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Posted by Brickhouse27
He wants a child and I want to give it to him. We cant raise a child though in a house with all that going on and no space.

I say cross that bridge when you get there. The living situation should be solved first, as it would just be added stress trying to juggle everything. Plus, would you want to raise a child in that environment?

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And I believe you on that. He has been used and abused in the past so when someone genuine comes along who doesnt need anything except for to love him for who he is, he doesnt know how to fully accept it. That's how I feel.

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We were staying together prior to his dad passing. Someone broke in our place and I was a little paranoid so they said we could come stay for a while. Then his dad got sick and passed away, we moved in for good. No the 2 brothers weren't staying there prior to the dad passing. They came back afterwards. Him being the oldest, he knew he had to help his mom.

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Posted by Timon

Posted by Brickhouse27
We were staying together prior to his dad passing. Someone broke in our place and I was a little paranoid so they said we could come stay for a while. Then his dad got sick and passed away, we moved in for good. No the 2 brothers weren't staying there prior to the dad passing. They came back afterwards. Him being the oldest, he knew he had to help his mom.

Ah I see. Hope his brothers are helping also since they also moved back there.

Off topic but I always receive a notification saying you have quoted me but it never shows up as a quote here. How do you do that? 😆

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I know one isn't. He is so selfish it's not funny. You have to delete the previous comments or statements before posting.

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Posted by Toti
Libra will dig out an issue twenty years old and suffocate everyone with it. They overthink and obsess over almost everything. Like they live in constant panic attack.

So true and it shows even when they try to hide it.