Need advice... dating libra man!!

So I’m a cancer woman,36, and I started seeing a Libra man ,29, about three months ago. I was in the middle of a separation with whom I have two kids with. Libra 37, did catch me at libra 29s place in mid November and has questioned me ever since. I finally told libra 37 the truth about me and libra 29, but that we ( me and libra 29) dated briefly and I left him alone, which isn’t true. Libra 29 knew the situation when he decided he wanted me and this relationship. The first two months were hot and heavy and libra 29 wanted me by him every waking moment that I could be. My ex, also a libra, 37, made things difficult and started looking for libra 29, to talk to him. So that put a strain on me and libra 29. The last past month I haven’t gotten any I miss yous or I want to be with you every day and night, but nothing has really changed. We text and talk every day, never miss a day. Sex is still amazing. We go and hang out when we can, due to my kids and work schedules. About a month ago, I told him we are better off as friends. He agreed. But it’s like we are more than friends still. I’m not rushing the label and we rarely ever argue or get mad at one another. We have an open communication, we understand one another in ways we agreed no one has ever understood us. I know the strain and stress from ex libra 37, pushed him away. Me and libra 29 even talked about taking time apart, but when that was said, he would be the first to come back, that day, and say it’s hard for him to walk away.

So, though libra 29 agreed that we are friends and has made the comment it’s not there and he has a lot in his plate, what am I to make of me and his relationship?? Fwb, casually dating, dating with no label yet. I know he’s not seeing anyone else, from what I can tell, I’m with him a lot , and sexually we go at it all the time. I do hide my car when I go to his place, and when I asked him about why I should still hide it since we are not a secret anymore, he replies that he doesn’t want the bs from ex libra. Which I sometimes feel the same.

But what are me and this libra—?

You guys are FWBs. That's all. I surprised because normally Cancers and Libra's don't gel romantically. Great as friends.

Lol you downgraded the relationship to a fwb and now your confused asking what the relationship status is? Re-read what you wrote. You are in the driver seat, he just agreed with what you dictated.

So if you like Libra 29 why are you still with Libra 37 and cheating on him? Wouldn't it be better to break up with L37 and be available for L29? I don't understand this logic.