Need help with Libra ex.

So, Libra and I dated for about 5-6 months earlier this year. He ended it. There were some time conflicts happening, I was finishing my thesis and just too tired to keep up with Libra's busy social life. I am usually a pretty social person but I had a lot on my plate at the time. In any case, we did not really speak for three months aside for meeting for coffee once. We have mutual friends and any time I would run into them it was like they were watching me for him, or asking "how I was doing" in a way that they thought I was really suffering through the break up. Though i missed him, suffering was not quite the way I had felt and i was very curious what he was saying to them?

I kind of had it and felt emotionally secure enough to contact him. I sent him a letter in the mail, not expecting a response, just being honest that I appreciated our time and that he helped me work through some things. He messaged me in the middle of the night wanting to see me the next day. I agreed. He came over and we talked for ~4 hours. It seems to me that our feelings are still pretty strongly there for one another but then I have not heard from him since this day (last week). I am not sure if I should keep pursueing this or just let it go.

Any insight?

It's up to you.

He had friends checking up on you. If he was telling them how hard the break up must be on you (and you didn't say that to him) then he is just projecting his feeling onto you and relaying it as fact. Sounds like he regrets breaking up with you. Just look how fast he came running when you extended an olive branch.

Want to know why you haven't heard from him since that day last week? He is shy, an uncertain libra. If you like him, reach out to him. See if/how he responds. Over the months you and him were broke up he didn't have the guts to call and check in on you so he sent friends. Have any of those mutual friends mentioned him since you two talked? He may ask one of them to gauge your interest first before he moves again.

I think the way things are going is just fine. Don't jump the gun though just continue to go with the flow. Your airy libra will appreciate the space, as well as the comfort in knowing you still care. However until you are sure where it is going, I would make subtle attempts at just keeping in touch. Such as "Have a nice Day text" or "Hey hows' your day going today" if a new movie comes out say "Hey we should totally go check out that new movie, heard it was going to be real good". Or suggest you go for drinks and catch up, no emotional talk unless he brings it up since he was the one that broke it off. Watch, Listen, and HAVE FUN. Those are your only 3 jobs, he's the one that walked, not you. So don't do too much.