NSA with a libra man, helpp!!!

This topic was created in the Libra forum by capsaturn on Tuesday, December 13, 2016 and has 4 replies.

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@capsaturn
9 Years

any of you had a no strings attached with a libra man? I'm a cap woman and hooked by his charms and deceiving promises. In the first month he treats me like his girlfriend and he'll come over 4 - 5x a week and takes me to the movies and dine out. Then after a month, he completely ignores me like i don't exist. Until i burst out and confronted him about his actions then he'd reply with completely nothing like "k" ,

"say what i want to say, because he doesnt have a time arguing blahblah" like ftw. After which, he would only come once a week and won't talk to me after but he would still kiss me goodbye. I'm just scared, he might leave me hanging. I want to ask him what happened, or if he wants to end this NSA relationship thing he can just tell me right away so i don't wait for him. I like him! and i want to know if he likes me too. i feel terrible! advicess pleaseee!

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@bridgelover
11 Years

If he is a sun Libra, it's very likely he has Virgo placements, & that behavior sounds SO Virgo-like!

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@Deedee86
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I can't speak for every Libra man but the couple that I have had relationships with were definitely not the NSA type. The lack of commitment may have turned him off.

Try having an honest and open conversation about where you two stand in the relationship. Maybe you both really want strings.

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@Loubra
9 Years

The fact that you are questioning this arrangement let's me know you value yourself too much for such arrangements.

You're in a dilemma: Who do you love the most? Yourself or a "situationship" that could devalue all that you stand for as a woman.

If you want him, go back to the table and demand for what you truly want. Don't leave anything on the table. If he won't oblige, walk away.

Also, if after these dates sex is had then again, the dates mean nothing more to a man than the usual pregaming. It only means something when there is a commitment to make you the #1 and only one.