Question regarding Libra men

Do you have to be a complete and utter flirt to keep a Libra guys interest?

No but it helps , if flirting does'nt come natural to you , maybe a Libra is not for you. Flirting is our way of letting you know we like you ! It's a compliment and it should be a thrill for you ! (It also helps to smile and be sexy)

i wouldn't think so, you're better of doing what comes naturally. think it would depend on his venus too.

the libra guys i've known seem to love conversation most of all. and a bit of playful teasing. what's making you ask, tbird?

Being able to hold an interesting conversation along with being playful and fun are what keeps my Libra man (Libra sun, Libra moon) asking for more.

I've been talking to a Libra for a while now. I just wanted to know out of curiosity. I am very shy and I like him but I don't want to be like meh. Does that makes sense? I hope so.

Oh I don't mind it, I actually like it A LOT it makes me mushy. I'm shy so I don't want to make him disinterested because I clam up sometimes. He will say something like I want to kiss you and I put *blush* and he's like your adorable. I just want to make sure that he's like oh this girl is too.... I dunno bland! lol He says he is a gentleman. I like to think that he is... he never went far with it...never made me feel uncomfortable and be like eww perv! lol But heck I just learned a valuable lesson that guys are full of it. No offense but you are. Girls can be too... but guys yeah you take the cake, the tray, and the party van with the balloons hanging out the window.


We have tons of conversations for the longest time. He will message me first thing in the morning ask how I'm doing. Send me songs to listen to... like a digital play mix. He exposed me to his favorite band and other personal stuff. He told me he likes me but I'm taking all of this with a grain of salt and not even kosher salt. I'm not saying he is a liar I'm just saying I'm being guarded. But I do like him.

Curiosity I want it to come natural and it does... I just think he is so polite he wouldn't be like bring out your inner freak woman! lol I mean I have a Scorpio in Venus so yeah the freaks there (lol) she just needs to feel safe and secure before she comes roaring into town.

It sounds like he's been very frank and open with you , and at the same time hes being a gentleman . he obviously likes you ! If he cant get you to open up more he will move on , If he is a true Libra there are other girls that would like to date him so dont wait too long if you like him. . Libras need positive reassurance !
Libras are lovers , You only live once, the choice is yours ....

I wouldn't mind showing him affection! Actually looking forward to it. Holding his hand, cuddling, giving him a smooch and whatnot. I have read that once a Libra guy excuse my language but beds you they loose interest. Is this for the more Libra man who hasn't evolved? How would I know he's evolved or not. Some site I read said Libra's flirt with any and everyone and you can never truly have Libra man because he is constantly weighing his options and keeping a look out for the next best thing. Other sites says that when he chooses you he is as loyal as they come. So I'm guessing one is for the evolved Libra and the other is for the non-evolved Libra.

I like this guy! When I do open up to him he will put something like swoon. And I'm like zomg! That's what I'm doing but I'm keeping that under wraps. I don't want to scare him off. When I do close up he pushes and I do open up and he makes me feel reassured. So that's good. I told him I liked him that took a lot to say... not a lot of prodding on his part but on mine. I didn't want to scare him away. He says no I'm okay, your good or I'm a fan. Then he will say your adorable. I tell him the same.

He does pick on me and I think it's the most adorable thing on the planet! I'm used to being playfully teased I'm the baby out of a big family that did nothing but playful teasing so I'm game and I can dish it out too. =D Jeez man freaking Libra's you guys are too darn adorable! For your own good oh yeah when I told him he was too cute for his own good... he replied for your own good. Libra's! Well at least he is honest. =D

Posted by libragemmale
No but it helps , if flirting does'nt come natural to you , maybe a Libra is not for you. Flirting is our way of letting you know we like you ! It's a compliment and it should be a thrill for you ! (It also helps to smile and be sexy)

Do Libra's find demure woman sexy?

Thank you for the reply!

We had a date set up for Monday but he just texted me and moved it up to tonight. Eeep! I'm nervous! I'm SO new to dating! I know your like wha?! Your 31 woman! I married my high school sweetheart and he was really the first guy I dated and we split up this year so I'm thrown into the mix again. We are NOT getting back together. He's moving in with his g/f and I'm happy for him. I don't hate him we just moved apart.

I digressed I apologize! Any tips?

Libra's and Pieces are compatible plus I have tons of Virgos in my chart so I actually like getting physical loving then go away but be sure to come back. I enjoy that! Very much so! If not I will feel stiffled and that I can't swim. A fish NEEDS to be able to swim. He can have his reflection reading a book time and I can have my I'm in a bath for 30 mins listening to music time. Both signs need to refuel alone, love and physical contact, great conversation.

I'm sorry I'm not backing away from this gentleman unless he asks. But thanks for the heads up! lol

lol I will be sure to! I'm not saying he is my soul mate hell there is no way I can know that. But I am interested to find out! 🙂

Posted by Pecheresse
Libra — Pisces

You got that right!! lmao 😉 Oh me oh my!

Now I have a gemini my sister is making me have a date with. I hate that! Why can't see recognize that I don't want to. Maybe if I wasn't talking to the Libra I would be open to the idea but now I'm like meh I don't want to! lol I do have Taurus in my chart so I want to sit my bullas8 down and say make me!!! lol

Pieces and gemini are NOT good matches!! At all!

Posted by Pecheresse
hahah I think both fascinate each another, Libras because cerebral and Pisces cuz emotional....And its a challenge for a Libra to have to use patience with Pisces..There is no way Libra can play the role of the spoilt rotten child with Pisces... throwing tantrums and shit, because they def won't put up with Libra's shit. Lol

Oh man this guy is very fascinating! LOl amen! That's when I just turn around and say whatever. I'm going for a walk. lol

I have kids so I'm used to that... that won't work in this fish. But pouts with the big puppy dog eyes and bottom lip out like what Pieces do yeah I'm a sucker for that. My son is a Gemini and he does that! Little booger.... gets me every time even though I try my hardest to walk away and say that ain't gonna work mister. He follows me around with his hands in the air doing that. Oh you have to give in at some point on that one.

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Posted by tbird
Now I have a gemini my sister is making me have a date with. I hate that! Why can't see recognize that I don't want to. Maybe if I wasn't talking to the Libra I would be open to the idea but now I'm like meh I don't want to! lol I do have Taurus in my chart so I want to sit my bullas8 down and say make me!!! lol

Pieces and gemini are NOT good matches!! At all!

Gemini are two faced, Pisces asks in return for exactly what they give : honesty.... LOL
PS: I love Gems...but I know their games too well.

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Exactamondo! Plus he is a HUGE gambler and that would piss me off if we got into a relationship. I would be like you lost what on a stupid bet! Heck when I was around him he was betting! lol He was like your my good luck charm pick a card. 20 bucks is on it. I said don't have me do that... my luck doesn't work like that. He was like Oh it's okay your my charm. So I pulled the card and he lost. I could tell he was pissed! Tried to play it off later the next day I found out he was blaming me for loosing his 20 bucks! WTF dude I told you I don't work like that! If I did don't you think I would have a private villa in Tahiti?! Duh

Posted by Pecheresse
Hmm ok I'll be honest on the Libra men cuz I dated one so I know damn right. They're fucking awesome when you want to go out and have a blast. There's absolutely no limits with Libra dudes because they want to party and they party fucking HARD. But life ain't just about partying and when you ask them guys to get off their cloud and get serious? Well... guess they hear their mother's traumatizing voice and they just won't. Then shit hits the fan. Incoming calls, unknown girls. ex's. neighbors. Funner gurls than you cos NOT serious ones. They flatter his ego while you just want him to be a better guy. What for? He will party hard behind your back. Then tell you that it won't happen again. Then it will happen again. You'll find yourself not having any stable ground to actually build anything serious & you'll eventually leave. Then he will call you back. You'll return. You'll leave again. etc. Libras = Mad haters.

PS: Partyin hard with my ex was the fucking blast of my entire life. I don't regret pushing my limits to their limits lol.

Thank you for the heads up hun! Funny because the pushing them out the clouds sounds like what other signs do with Pieces! lol So that may be a problem we are both floating around in the universe like weeee! But I'll be hopeful but cautious! 🙂

Oh man. Gems and gambling. lol....My bro's a poker freak. He just brags so much about it. I also find a lot of gems are superficial. It's fun....then it gets old. Scratch the surface and sometimes there's nothing underneath. But still, lot of fun.😄



That's a Gem thing?! I didn't know that! lol So is this guy! He goes to Vegas every year to play in that big poker tournament. He's a nice guy and seems like he has a big heart but NOOooo backbone! Stick up for yourself man! I find it rather unappealing if I have to step up for him and say leave him alone stop picking on him! Jeez man step up be a man! I'm not saying fight him but be like I'm not taking that at the very least or walk away. Don't just sit there and just suffer through it.

I felt like punching the guy in the face I'm always calm not violent and I had to speak up. That's sad when a Pieces is sticking up for you and you can't do it. Yikes!

Hmmm...It all comes down to not suffocating the partner. I think Libra/Pisces is a great mix because both need this individual sort of freedom, if they can work on not losing their own identity, Bingo!




True so very much true! I did that with the cancer I was with and ol' boy he made me pay dearly for that mistake.

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Posted by tbird
Oh man. Gems and gambling. lol....My bro's a poker freak. He just brags so much about it. I also find a lot of gems are superficial. It's fun....then it gets old. Scratch the surface and sometimes there's nothing underneath. But still, lot of fun.😄

That's a Gem thing?! I didn't know that! lol So is this guy! He goes to Vegas every year to play in that big poker tournament. He's a nice guy and seems like he has a big heart but NOOooo backbone! Stick up for yourself man! I find it rather unappealing if I have to step up for him and say leave him alone stop picking on him! Jeez man step up be a man! I'm not saying fight him but be like I'm not taking that at the very least or walk away. Don't just sit there and just suffer through it.

I felt like punching the guy in the face I'm always calm not violent and I had to speak up. That's sad when a Pieces is sticking up for you and you can't do it. Yikes!

Haha I know what you mean... pushovers a little? Part of the diplomacy thing? I think Gems know exactly what they're doing, they always have a plan. The sulking is part of it. Lol.



lol oh man that's a Gem thing too? Oh goodness no! I can't do Gem's I need a man! I think so too cause he was so still and not bothered by it just looking calm not even ticked off just a little bit. I kept looking at his eyes and there was nothing there so I'm not surprised he wasn't planning something. Maybe that is why they like poker? I dunno... puts a spin on things cause I've known him for about a year and he always was super sweet to me AND my kids. Now that I'm separated he's making his move. Poker player.

Posted by Pecheresse
Quoting fucked itself a bit. haha.

lol yeah it sure did! =)

haha pech 😛

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Demure works, definitely.
Usually when a woman works what they've got, it works. Brash and nasty/vindictive doesn't apply here.

exactly true. the libra men i know appreciate a feminine aura. i have quite a bold side though, as well as coming off a bit introvert. in the case of my sag (libra moon mars venus)i really find myself being gentler around him, it just comes naturally. it's like the brash side of me calms right down.

even the more 'rough' libra men i know still have a gentlemanly essence, very considerate and rarely, if ever, selfish. good manners are important, he'll notice that and love it. listen and take interest in him, lots of eye contact. sounds like you'll do fine anyway, tbird. i do think pisces and libra have a natural rapport 😉

Aww Perch your so sweet! I think you are too hun! =) lol Perch

I'm so freaking excited! You have no idea he sent me a message saying yea for tonight. I asked him if I will get my hug he said of course... I told him excited he said do it! lol

Sun Pisces Ascendant Leo
Moon Taurus II Leo
Mercury Pisces III Virgo
Venus Taurus IV Libra
Mars Leo V Scorpio
Jupiter Virgo VI Capricorn
Saturn Virgo VII Aquarius
Uranus Scorpio VIII Aquarius
Neptune Sag IX Pisces
Pluto Libra Midheaven Aries
Lilith Virgo XI Taurus
Asc node Leo XII Cancer

Posted by Pecheresse
lol whatttt.... 😛

Trying to get over this whole damn thing and have a positive outlook on the whole lot of those Leeb males but your post made me cringe. LOL
Gentleman....Yikes. Its an act! They don't even change their fucking socks every day.
*Zips it*

Wait, wait, wait... gentlemen don't have stinky feet?! lol jk

Posted by Pecheresse
lol whatttt.... 😛

Trying to get over this whole damn thing and have a positive outlook on the whole lot of those Leeb males but your post made me cringe. LOL
Gentleman....Yikes. Its an act! They don't even change their fucking socks every day.
*Zips it*

omg you reminded me of when i lived with my friend and her libra ex last summer. god, he stunk. he was a stoner and never, ever bathed. once he used raid as a deodarant o_O

but even he had gentlemanly traits, haha!

it's lethal! all that charm should be illegal 😛

and they dress well, too...even the stinky waster loved getting spruced up in a suit and tie. weird o_O we used to make him stand outside when it got too bad haha. what a shame we didn't have a hose!

Excuse my blondness but whose chart is this? lol



Your not being blonde that was me being negligant of not providing the full information. Tis my chart my dear. I don't know his.

Yes the first stages of dating is silly but so darn cute! 🙂

Posted by nimbue
it's lethal! all that charm should be illegal 😛

and they dress well, too...even the stinky waster loved getting spruced up in a suit and tie. weird o_O we used to make him stand outside when it got too bad haha. what a shame we didn't have a hose!

gigglesnorts... god I hope he bathes! I would be like OK Libra no cuddling until you wash your tukas

Lethal yes illegal yes

Posted by Pecheresse
or not?
or can you?
maybe you can't?
i guess you can...
i believe you can..
but maybe I was wrong from day 1?
or maybe you just changed recently?
I wonder...
wait, I guess it's a new trend.
Or maybe not and I wasn't around when it started.
Man this is so confusing.

THIS made me spit my pop all over my laptop! Holy canoli!

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Posted by nimbue
it's lethal! all that charm should be illegal 😛

and they dress well, too...even the stinky waster loved getting spruced up in a suit and tie. weird o_O we used to make him stand outside when it got too bad haha. what a shame we didn't have a hose!

gigglesnorts... god I hope he bathes! I would be like OK Libra no cuddling until you wash your tukas

Lethal yes illegal yes

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lmao! it's ok, if he doesn't...you can always bath him! 😉 god i swear his socks could walk by themselves...such was the strength of their stench.

no but i doubt yours doesn't...hopefully that's one of the rarer libra traits 😄

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Febreze is alright though, right ?

As long as it's antibacterial your golden!

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Posted by nimbue
it's lethal! all that charm should be illegal 😛

and they dress well, too...even the stinky waster loved getting spruced up in a suit and tie. weird o_O we used to make him stand outside when it got too bad haha. what a shame we didn't have a hose!

gigglesnorts... god I hope he bathes! I would be like OK Libra no cuddling until you wash your tukas

Lethal yes illegal yes

lmao! it's ok, if he doesn't...you can always bath him! 😉 god i swear his socks could walk by themselves...such was the strength of their stench.

no but i doubt yours doesn't...hopefully that's one of the rarer libra traits 😄

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*gigglesnort* Nim I wuv you!!!! He does when he talked he says shower time so he showers. And no it's not getting steamy when he says shower time! muahahah

yes yes I can *blush*

Posted by Pecheresse
2 weeks after we started dating my ex told me his ex used to clip his toe nails.
I should of known what was coming my way. lolz

Ok confession time... I did that for my cancer husband. I don't mind feet though. He never asked I just did it... my way of catering to my man. Also when he is relaxing I just rub my hands thru with hair, just to help relax.

Okay I'm ready give me your worst ladies! lol I'm sure the wtf are you thinking is heading my way

Ok that's a deal breaker. I'm not into golden showers yet alone when I'm asleep. I like to swim but not in pee

How long did you stay with him after you found out?

Did he wear depends?

dudes who do coke have problems with their plumbing in all instances.

Posted by Pecheresse
My Libra ex peed in the bed.

LOL

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Posted by nimbue
it's lethal! all that charm should be illegal 😛

and they dress well, too...even the stinky waster loved getting spruced up in a suit and tie. weird o_O we used to make him stand outside when it got too bad haha. what a shame we didn't have a hose!

gigglesnorts... god I hope he bathes! I would be like OK Libra no cuddling until you wash your tukas

Lethal yes illegal yes

lmao! it's ok, if he doesn't...you can always bath him! 😉 god i swear his socks could walk by themselves...such was the strength of their stench.

no but i doubt yours doesn't...hopefully that's one of the rarer libra traits 😄

*gigglesnort* Nim I wuv you!!!! He does when he talked he says shower time so he showers. And no it's not getting steamy when he says shower time! muahahah

yes yes I can *blush*

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i heart you too!! 😄

ah, well he showers...green light, full steam ahead haha

I think it's time I step in here and break the news that most Libra men are clean, well shaven , neat and know exactly how to groom themselves , and whats all this about being lazy ? I work circles around my co-workers and cook and clean at home. Sheeez If you want a barbarian date an Aries .

Posted by libragemmale
Sheeez If you want a barbarian date an Aries .

LMAO!!!

Posted by Pecheresse
I musta dumped him maybe 2 weeks later or so. That was just too much. When I started dating him he was fun, interesting, good looking. Fast forward 2 yrs and he's ewww inside out.

LOl I hope that is an exception more than a rule!

Posted by libragemmale
I think it's time I step in here and break the news that most Libra men are clean, well shaven , neat and know exactly how to groom themselves , and whats all this about being lazy ? I work circles around my co-workers and cook and clean at home. Sheeez If you want a barbarian date an Aries .

whew! lol that's good news!

Posted by tbird
Do you have to be a complete and utter flirt to keep a Libra guys interest?

You don't have to "be" anything but yourself..

I don't recommend this Lib-pisc match for long term as both just don't "get" each other. Plenty of frustrations after a while

My liebe didn't like to sweat and liked smelling good all the time, dresses well, well groomed etc

That was in the past that's why! Lol

Btw one minute ago is still the past 😉

Yeah I know that there would be problems between the two signs, but my ex was a Cancer and everything should of been grand it wasn't. He was emotionally closed off in every way and unfilling. So I think that is on the individual and the other planets they are ruled by.

I don't know which planets he is ruled by. I know his sun sign is Libra but that tis all.

I had my date! He had to cancel on me last night because of issues but he called twice and apologized. We met today and it was really fun! He we ate then he took me to this antique place which I was all about. He said it was his favorite place. We walked around and he asked my opinion about things like pick your favorite. I think he was judging my style . lol

Most he agreed some he gave me this look and just looked away I died laughing! He wasn't really flirty because where we at had tables that you had to sit with other people not in your group. But when we were in the antique shop we went around back to look at different stuff and I didn't even notice but we were alone and he picked me up (he's very tall and I'm short) and planted one on me. He did that when we were outside again we were alone.

He said he had a blast and I told him I had fun. He's so adorable! Don't worry I'm not falling I'm being reserved but he's VERY sweet! Not stinky! lol Very open and honest! He just came out with personal stuff I wasn't expecting for the first date. He said we would definitely go out again.

He definitely has a wandering eye which doesn't bother me. He doesn't stare he just glances. Hell when he did it I started scoping the place too! lol He looked at me and smiled and got a bit closer. He didn't looked pissed or anything. I can read his face and I can tell he was trying to read mine.

So hopefully we will go out again. Great first date no complaints! YEAH!

Aww glad to hear it went well ! he's gonna glance at the other pretty girls, he can't help but look at pretty things ...but hes with you !