Question regarding Libra men (Page 2)

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Thanks guys!

So your saying all Libra's a pieces?! Jeesh well is there is a GOOD sign! lol it's like every site I go to every sign is the worst sign on the planet even mine...we mostly mine. We are aloof, indecisive, too darm dreamy, and hard to pin down as well.

I like him BUT I'm not pinning any hopes on him. He told me he was reliably unreliable. LOL He said he hates it and acknowledges it and he doesn't mean to be that way but he's was so many balls in the air that one is bound to fall and he has to pick it up and brush it off. He said his last gf broke up with him about it then he goes into how he would rectify the situation. Then he looked concerned like I'm was just going to break out running from his car. That was endearing.

All I asked was for him to let me know if plans change. That's all I require. He said always, as soon as I would know you would know and we would reschedule.

He texted me a few hours after our date and said he had fun and he would like to meet again soon. We had another thing scheduled for last night after he hung out with his friends but he was designated driver so he had to cancel. Which didn't piss me off I went to the movies with a guy friend and saw Paranormal Activity 3. That was hilarious! I never seen a grown man so scared in all my life. Muahwhaha

Perch I think you just described the Virgo I was talking to online!! lol

Even though he stood me up and he's a treetrunking jerk. I can't help but think he is attractive and I hate to admit it...if he asked me out I would seriously consider it. Uhhh I must be a masochist or something.

The Libra doesn't have me on a string the Virgo does... darn Virgos.

I enjoyed this thread immensely. I have a libra male friend and I honestly thought he was defective. It doesn't fit the ideal libra description. Actually similar to Pecheresse had been posting. I would perhaps describe him as a baby. Spoiled by friends and dare I say, somewhat 'retarded'. This actually made me laugh. Poor guy. We love him but, sometimes we just ignore him when he's thinking. He's a dangerous thinker. Anyway, the hot and cold thing--gets old. Wahahaha!

The wandering eye thing is actually true. Even with that he actually needs help with getting the woman. He's actually good looking, entered a male pageant once. But so needy. Sigh. We pray he matures after all these women he has strung along. Niyahahaha! Definitely fun to be around with. Of course, this is from a friend perspective. I've seen the women. Poor things... Hearts still hanging on a 'noose.' 😆

Damn u guys make me hate my sign. Is there like a book I can read to keep from acting this way? I've actually noticed that I do alot of the shit pech was talkin about. In the beginning I'm totally invested and I normally text or call her first. Then as we start talking more I back off a bit and she starts having to text me first. I hate that I do that shit, but honestly I feel like if I keep Texting and calling for no real reason she's gonna see me as clingy. I always want to give off a strong stable presence, but then when she asks why I've been distant I turn like mushy almost and find myself over apologizing for it. Then when I think I've made a fool out of myself I vanish... The past couple months I've had just a disastrous dating life. Ever since I "came out of my shell" if u will, I've been dating and hooking up with some really hot girls. The problem is it never lasts very long because I always pull some immature stunt, get embarrassed, and disappear... I really do try and control it and curve the 'out of the ordinary' behavior, but it's like if she doesn't show me that she wants to be with me 100% or I'm not sure if she does or not, I end up ignoring texts, giving strange answers to questions, and all around just stop being friendly. It's my way of hinting that I want her to try a little harder.. It always backfires 2. Ive also noticed when I can't be sure exactly how a relationship will turn out (somthing nobody can really predict) I'll start pulling the distance act. Its like I need her to chase me a little bit, and if she won't I'll fight the silence with more silence until it's been so long that it would just be awkward to talk again. I'm hoping this is just a phase. I learn more and more from each girl I meet, but the emotional stress from some of these girls... Well one in particular has been taking a serious toll on me. Giving up sounds wonderful, but I'll never be satisfied with my life if I do that. Patience, clarity, and forgiveness are the qualities a woman has to have to be with a libra I think.

I have enjoyed reading this thread I giggled quite a bit. Tbird I am a Pisces as well and yes it can work with a Libra haha. Like any sign or anything actually everything contains it's opposite so you have Libra males that are not mature and do irresponsible things and then you have mature Libra males.

You can go anywhere and you will hear many different sides of being a Pisces and Libra but honestly I think it comes down to maturity and where you are at in life. I was with a Libra prior to the one I am with now and we were both immature. And it was a disaster. Now I am with a Libra who is mature and it is wonderful.

As a Pisces generally speaking we tend to be small, cute sometimes doll like. We do not like to fight. But push us enough and we go from cute little gold fish to crazed white shark. Also Pisces women I find tend to be feminine which Libra males find attractive. We are playful and Libra males love to play. My mate loves that I am playful and silly. But we can be shy and soft which pulls at their manly strings.

Take your time and have fun. Yes you can get caught up in their charm and dazzle BUT Libra's can also get pulled into Pisces dreamy states as well. We can be charmers ourselves. We tend to be peace loving appreciating harmony and all lovey which also appeals to the Libra.

Just be careful that you do keep your sense of identity. We Pisces tend to march to the beat of our own drum and it's important we keep that beat. We are stubborn and we move and like to flow without restraints or restrictions. In the way we are who we are - the same applies to Libras. When they are loving strong - allow him too and when he needs space - dive into your hobbies - we tend to have many.

Be yourself. Be a lady and you should be fine. Good Luck.