Relationships Are Overrated

I'm saying this because people do not know why they are in one in the first place a real relationship is a union working together so things can be easier for both parties to make life less harder and also think most people are in relationships for the wrong reasons some do it as a meal ticket to have material things for them just look at what type of culture we are in money money more money lie and cheat steal just to advance in the world which i think is a messed up system and it mess up people way of thinking.

and i also think people are to damn needy and clingy everybody should be players so no feelings are hurt and you
move on just make sure people know about it though lol.

i'ma teenager this my mind state at tha moment sorry i can't help it but at least i can admit it though

thanks Summer Bear at least u get it homie i'ma a real person i tell it how i see it people hate honest talk but thats on them ima keep being real.


keep on playin player

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hahaha, playing the field and being a player is the same thing. At least in my generation it is lol!!!!!

Relationships being overrated in the opinion of SMiLES is yes...they CAN be overrated.

Really it just depends on the individual I guess.

yo smiles ma homie I'm glad u understand what I'm saying some people refuse to live in reality at least they're still some real people left in tha world.

ya digg keep tha game going players

Sounds like you really want a relationship but are afraid of getting hurt summer bear.

"Truth of the matter is relationships don't mean butter anymore. And marriage doesn't mean butter either. People come into them with those unrealistic expectations."

What does it matter what expectation people have regarding something that exists solely between you and the one you want to be with?

Like DepressedAngel and several others on here I had the same attitude when I was younger. What he said was exactly right. It gets old, it is like telling the same story to 100 people individually. No matter how cool the story was you get sick of telling it.

Now I know that there are things that each person is capable of that a relationship makes one more likely to realize and take advantage of.


Saying marriage is bad is like saying guns are bad. It's just a thing, someone has to do the bad.

LoL SB, you should know that Marriage is the new Dating haha. It's real sad actually! At least that's from what I've seen, people getting married and divorced; than getting remarried..what the hell is the world we live in and know coming to these days; in terms of relationships. Sometimes it looks like finding a "good" relationship is going to be someting near impossible for most now..terrible, but that's life! 😛

"Yea, I did. Then I woke up and saw it for what it really was. Pain & Suffering."

Most of them are until you find the right one and still the pain and suffering never truly disappears. There is a saying: It is through friction that coal turns to diamond.

Each person we interact with in life provides us with something, some it's acceptance, others motivation and others still, challenges. The relationships that you where you truly care about the other person are challenges. Not only do they challenge how you can handle loving someone else, but how you can handle yourself in the face of love.

There are a million cliche's out there that can be repeated regarding relationships. When I look at mine, I can see the danger, I see the possibility of putting every fiber of myself into someone else hoping to provide them everything they want and need with the risk of waking up one day realizing it all turned upside down. The thing is that when it comes to love and the sacrifice and faith that comes with it, not a moment of it is in vain because in the end it provided you more than you could ever dream of providing yourself.

And honestly, it's worth the risk for me.

"It used to make me angry. But now I realize that it's all good for me. I'm single and I have plenty of money."

It's good that your doing what you want to do and protecting yourself. I am in a relationship and just scraping by, prior to that I was in the same relationship and "plenty" would be an understatement on how much I was making, prior to that I was single and making plenty of money. In the end it will all be circumstantial so long as you satisfy your spirit.

"I rather be the guy thats hitting it on the side."

The guy that's hitting it on the side, if he is honest with himself, can only go to bed with the satisfaction of filing a small hole. No pun intended. Weather it is hitting it on the side or committing to someone, you only matter as much as other people want you to matter in this life. That changes things. I stole that one from Buddha.