relationships with this libra man = balencing act

I'm always interested with the steady stream of questions reguarding Libra men on this forum. I can't speak for Libra females and not all Libra males are built the same. I'm just speaking about me really so keep that in mind when reading.This thread is designed to be helpful to those frustrated in relationships with Libra men and i'll keep it basic.I consider myself healthy of mind and body , but just like anyone else I have my issues,I have never cheated on my partner and I don't intend on it - I am in my 40's.

#1) I need a partner , I can't endure life without one.It's a scary world out there and I am not always too good at confronting it all at once - alone.

#2) When I was younger i was extremely nieve about women ,and a late bloomer with relationships.I had a slow learning curve on how to approach women, especially the ones I was attracted to.I needed the woman to take the lead for a relationship to start. Otherwise i was a big flirt, I still am ,but with a 'taken' sign on my finger of my left hand.

#3) I need the woman I am relating with to be strong and confident ,I'm like a vine that needs a strong , solid tree to grow on. This vine will bloom with spectacular colors if the living conditions are good.

#4) When I am unbalenced , 9 timesd out of 10 it is because of a problem in my relationship.My relationship defines me.

#5) It takes a long time for my brain to filter relationship problems and try to come up with a FAIR solution. That is because I care -I am not ignoring the relationship problem , I am hard at work . I am an air sign , I prefer to be outside when I am dealing with my troubles.

#6)I can be the most charming , light and peaceful person on this planet ,and a joy to be with if my relationship is working well.I will bend over backwards for this to come true if I think I have found the right person.

#7) I am perfectly capable of defending myself when I feel I am being treated unfairly.In fact I can make my friends,family or partner feel like they going thru pure hell when dealing with me if those are the conditions. But fighting hard is usually a last resort and messy and ugly . I hate going there.

#8) I click well with females ,and I have alot of female friends. It comes very natural to me as I am ruled by Venus ,the Goddess of Love. If you are dating a Libra you will probably see that trait , understand that it's in his astrological DNA , also understand that other females will be prone to be interested in him. He may radiate

#9) To my core .I'm a lover , not a fighter. fighting zaps an enourmous amount of energy for me and It takes long time to recover .

I hope some of tis is helpful. Libras men are not at all like other men in many ways. BE patient with them

Pfft. Patience. :p

The flirtation thing irks the eff out of me but I always fall for you guys =/

Patience is a big one for me lol....learning it in my "librationship" now.

I am a Libra man and I support this thread.