Shy libran?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by skintessa on Thursday, June 9, 2011 and has 4 replies.

Profile picture of skintessa
@skintessa
15 Years

Hi all! First time poster, long time stalker...seriously.

I was curious as to whether anyone has ever encountered a shy Libra? As per my observations and understanding, we're supposed to be chatty, friendly, social, charming, etc. Yet, somehow, I find none of that in myself. I'm perpetually tongue-tied, awkward in social situations, and always at a loss for words. Is this at all common, or am I just an anamoly?

Profile picture of TheBeautifulStruggle
@TheBeautifulStruggle
15 Years500+ Posts

What's your birthday and birthtime? Have you ever done a natal chart on yourself? You probably have an ascendant or mercury in a sign that's it in a water sign/earth sign.

being 'outgoing and talkative' is a libra thing, but the overlying MO Libra-thing is being able to 'empathize with other people' and 'wanting people to get along, ie. harmony, balence. "

Profile picture of curious visitor
@curious visitor
17 Years500+ PostsLibra

sometimes i'm not feeling social, or i'm holding myself back to avoid scaring people. apparently it comes across as shy, and sometimes i'll even think of myself as shy. but definitely not shy at all.

it's just a really great excuse sometimes.

i can't think of any libras i've known that have been shy. but i've known plenty who were disinterested, coy, or just being polite. of course, there's also the situation of being "shy" in romantic situations, but i think that's just a need for more data.

old thread. but interesting topic.

Profile picture of Bella79
@Bella79
18 Years500+ Posts

Posted by QLIbraMale
I can talk to just about any girl except the few selected i see a future with lol.

My libra was shy in the beginning. He only talked to the people he knew and was chatty to a selected few.
It use to drive me nuts that he didn't approach me. He always used to stare at me, when I wasn't looking but my friends were.

Luckily, things turned out fine in the end and we have been happily dating for the last few months.