Transformation

Any Libras going through a transformation stage? I tend to take care of everyone else before myself. Lately, though, I've been feeling like I don't want others to be my priority. It's time for me to do my thing. Just do what I want, regardless of what others always expect from me. It feels a bit selfish but I think I need it to grow.

Keep growing it's wonderful 🙂 I have had this mindset for a while now and I'm loving it. Two of my daughters however are struggling with it but I just say, I'm doing me now and you are old enough to do for yourselves and I don't buckle! Because you once were, they think they can still use you to their advantage. Don't let them put your needs ahead of theirs and DON'T feel guilty!!

Posted by sweethearts
Keep growing it's wonderful 🙂 I have had this mindset for a while now and I'm loving it. Two of my daughters however are struggling with it but I just say, I'm doing me now and you are old enough to do for yourselves and I don't buckle! Because you once were, they think they can still use you to their advantage. Don't let them put your needs ahead of theirs and DON'T feel guilty!!

My son has always been very independent so he hardly acknowledges the change. My daughter asked if I was making her grow up on purpose...LOL. They're both grown but mommy isn't taking care of things for them any longer.

Posted by tiziani
I've certainly transformed this year and it's by no means complete yet. We all just came off a Saturn transit in Libra from 09 to 2012. That's three years of lessons. It'll probably take another two years after 2013 to finish learning them. Im enjoying it too.

I had no idea about the transit. That explains why the last three years have been hell. I need the changes, without the guilty feelings.

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Posted by MissLibra
Any Libras going through a transformation stage? I tend to take care of everyone else before myself. Lately, though, I've been feeling like I don't want others to be my priority. It's time for me to do my thing. Just do what I want, regardless of what others always expect from me. It feels a bit selfish but I think I need it to grow.

I'm going through that...I've noticed that al lot of the people I'm there for are never there for me and sadly I noticed on my birthday. So I've made a choice to take care of me first, and try not to care if their feeling get hurt, since they didn't really care about mine.

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I've had the same issues with so called friends. Lately, I've found myself cutting several people from my life that have just been there when they needed something. Glad I'm not alone in this.

Libra has friends all over the world but there is not any friend for him.... I think this is saying everything. And the meaning is not because nobody care of him, the meaning is because Libra don't like anyone too close by him, it give him pressure . So making friends is easy for him, but keeping them is hard because he has many ways to do wrong things , including lies and so on.... and there are not many peoples or almost no one who can tolerate this. Ignorance, no contact, disappearing act, appearing again and so on, this only make you distant with everyone and ther no one will stanf by you . So your personality and comporatament and family education also is the key.