Trying to understand Libra!

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TaurusAries
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Met a libra girl two years ago while we were both working in the same place abroad. We had a intense story over a few months we are so similar and I crazy fall in love for her like never before (seriously), she had a boyfriend back home so nothing happened between us even tho later on a common friend told me she was falling for me as well. The job was over and we both back to our countries then I realised even more how much I was for her and told her all my feelings via email. She replied saying that she almost break up with her boyfriend but they were back together that she couldn't be with me and didn't want to. We stopped seeing each other due the distance and decided to cut communication completely for two years. Never stopped thinking of her (every day) then decided to go visit her with the excuse of seeing other friends and now we are kind of friends again but we never talked about it again. I can't take her out of my head and when I'm with her I have the feeling that she feels for me as well. Every time I'm there she makes up excuses to see me and contacts me all the time but when we meet and we get a bit close she leaves or starts talking about her boyfriend. For some incomprehensible reason every time I manage to stop thinking about it she appears some how even tho we are separated by 3000 miles. mm..help! Don't understand why I don't lose the hope on this confusing situation... I know libras are very undecided also that they try not hurt others feelings specially the ones that fall for them therefore create confusing situations. I know she has a boyfriend but also complains about him and his current life when she's with me... why would she be so confusing why she already know about my feelings...she could just say I don't want to see you and I'd be ok with that...! Help? Any other similar stories with happy endings ? What could I do or better leave it! Any comments would be really helpful! thanks a lot in advanced!

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Starry22
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Hi there - librans are empathic by nature. So let me tell you, she definitely likes you and likes spending time with you. It could be love or it may not. But believe me.. Its something special. Unfortunately you came along at the wrong time! She was already in a relationship! You both have feelings but she now has an obligation to her boyfriend and cannot leave him. If you were in a similar situation she wouldnt want you to leave your gf either - its just not fair. So... What do you do now? She doesnt want to lose a friend whom shes so fond of but you and she wont be mean to you. Do you want to do it? If not let things flow
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No matter what she feels for you, she has a boyfriend. She is already committed to someone else. You shouldn't be interfering.

My Libra girl friend had very similar story, only it was not the case of long distance. I won't go into all the details, but I advise you as long as she has a boyfriend you shouldn't complicate her life. And yours for that matter. Respect her relationship and her feelings for another man.
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TaurusAries
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11 Years

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Posted by lucyL
No matter what she feels for you, she has a boyfriend. She is already committed to someone else. You shouldn't be interfering.

My Libra girl friend had very similar story, only it was not the case of long distance. I won't go into all the details, but I advise you as long as she has a boyfriend you shouldn't complicate her life. And yours for that matter. Respect her relationship and her feelings for another man.

Thanks for the advice!