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I thought u wasnt responding to me because im pathetic remember 🙂 @librawoman77 hows ur day going u ok?

Posted by Shrewdsharp
Girl, If someone gave me $ 1000 for Valentine's Day, I would never let them go. I like it when someone puts their money where their mouth is. It's so easy so easy to talk talk talk.... Talk talk talk....But money talks; it talks loud and clear. I would never ever ever let someone go who gave me a $ 1000, you are SHOWING her with action that you been business about her. I think you didn't get a present because she is stunned! Libras have a way of balancing the scales; we think it's fair. 🙂 I think you made an investment that will pay off perhaps down the line. She was probably silence by the realness of the gifts! Trust me it paved a very deep root between you two. What do you like about her soo much? Why are you attracted to an air sign? Do you know your placements like your Venus or moon? Is her Venus in Scorpio? If I was her I would dump every mutha and concentrate soley on you. I mean how much more sincere can you be?

Hmm, never looked at it quite that way. Hmm, you actually might be onto something Shrewd. Come to think about it, you just might damn well be right!

Shrewd you are a genius!

Idk why im attracted to air signs they bring me out my shell they r funny, all my exs were air signs @shrewdsharp me her just have alot in common she has what im looking for but at times she doesn't open up that well part of me wants to walk away but part of me know she has walls up idk all i can do is do my part and if she doesn't see that i have to walk away. Sometimes in life it could be bad timing ppl have alot going on and maybe rel and giving they aren't ready for idk honestly im a shower type of person i love and do without conditions or expectations but sometimes ppl dont realize who u r until your gone. U have good points to.

Your right @sugarfoot thanks for pointing that out i got more positive responses than negative 🙂

I thank everyone for there response i appreciate them.

Posted by Librawoman77
Shrewd you are a genius!

Yes I am! You respond so sweetly to Scorpios why is that? Where is your Mercury - (how you process incoming data) and your Mars - (how you fight, or go after what you want) ?

Awwww she did that oh I wouldn't do that in person im private about whats going on thats why i come here to vent no one would know ill b at the party smiling but hurting inside that was sweet of u guys @sugarfoot

I have ppl that like me but no one speaks up and when they do its like 5 yrs later when they r in the friendzone : ( @sugarfoot i have a few friends who do like me but they waited so long I don't see them in that light

Im also open to dating too so im not just stuck on one person but they just have my heart right now im sure by dating i find someone whos a better match @sugarfoot im not just home glooming over one person etc im open to others

Very true @cheekyfaerie

Yes thats the thing I literally walked away she came back to me and other night i broke it off with her tononly wake up to her charming apology like actions actions @sugarfoot and for me im too forgiving thats my weaknessm everything i post here we have talked about. I told her we shouldn't see eachother and left it at that then she hits me up giving me this explanation so i get wheeled back in : ( damnnn : (

I know i need to put my foot down @sugarfoot

I know i hope not either life goes on i know there will be other great ppl who is a better match @sugarfoot its just hard when u care

The other possibility is that your generosity freaked her out because she can’t pay back. She doesn’t feel that way about you and feels deeply guilty. I would be really upset if some nice person who I knew was into me – gifted me a thousand dollars – and I didn’t feel that way back.

Lovely, you seem like a really nice person. Generous to a fault. And it sounds like you like yourself but don’t trust that other people will like you back so you over give, hoping that your generosity wins the person over. You have to learn to trust yourself.

You have to leave space in a relationship for the other person to give back. If you fill all the spaces, the relationship becomes one-sided. That isn’t what you want. It will lead to you giving and giving and giving, getting depleted, and once you are depleted insecure because no one is filling you back up.

I have often found unhealthy (unbalanced) relationships harder to leave than healthy ones. I suspect that unhealthy relationships rot you at the core and make you wonder what is wrong with you. Need to flip this and evaluate the other person in relation to your needs. You need someone who gives back. This person doesn’t. Therefore, they aren’t a good match for you.

Your so right throughout my life u dont even think i know how to receive @littlesparrow i just help and give even to family. I am depleted i just get use to it. Even at work

Awww thank you. That sounds like a fun time @gengbenghiskhan 🙂 i love candy hearts

Posted by Shrewdsharp

Posted by lovely77
Yea and your comments are real i respect them too you dont come off rude to me at all she did @rockyroadicecream you gave a real response to me and so did a few others. I can literally feel the tension in her response lol. But its all good maybe i read her responses wrong, but i didn't read yours wrong and you told me like it is too so why single her out because she is extra extra

Rockyroad has the nerves to comment on someone's rude comment? LOL! LMAO, That is hilarious! That is hilarious! Rockyroad has said the most evil, heinous, barbaric, sinister, demonic cruel comments than anyone else on this forum! That is hilarious.

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Feel better now, cupcake? I'm sure that made your widdle self esteem feel so oh so great!

Gold star!