Virgo Woman Libra Male

9 months long distance
At first things were great.
Now I feel like things aren't the same anymore.
I barely hear from him.
When I do he is sweet but it's like there is no effort into our relationship in my opinion
I don't contact him as much either because I read that you should mirror their behavior.
But it's like how long does this void lasts or am I wasting my time with him?
I'm not sure why I can't make up my mind about whether I should just cut him off completely or stick around and try to get through this while being long distance. I came close to cutting him off but then he sent me a long message about how he missed me a lot and when he sees my face he forgets about all of his problems, Etc. but I don't know if I should believe him or if he is playing games at this point.

To Libra MALES:

Any advice to me ( Virgo woman ) on how to deal with a libra male?
How to turn the tables around?
How to get him interested again?
How do I let him know that he could really lose me by treating me like this??

Again , this is a long distance relationship. I will accept the fact if he doesn't want me anymore but how do I know that if he doesn't say that? He always says he wants to be with me and sees his self with me and marrying me.

Don't be petty best advice ..i hate virgos all because of 1 virgo i loved amd never had sex with