What else can I possibly say!?

What else can I say to this sagittarius friend of mine to get it through to him that I will never be
interested in him as anything other than friends? No, not in 6 months, not next year! Believe me, I
have told him, repeatedly. He even knows about my current "on hiatus" status from my scorp, but
no matter to him. He knows that we are supposed to end up together- umm no, we are not.

I'm not overly concerned about this, but I am at the start of night 3 with no sleep.
I need to not think too much, so maybe I am able to crash, so if anyone wants to put
their 2 cents in, please do! Feel free to derail if the needs strikes..

I don't see a need for me to go into much detail, so suffice it to say that this poor guy just
does not want to hear it. He lives hours away, effectually allowing me to stay physically away
from him since he started this nonsense. That makes it less of an issue for me, but the
only idea I have left is to just totally ignore him. I think that is just mean, and he truly
needs a friend right now- which I am happy to continue to be-but he has to stop with the
dating comments and continued expectations. I have been so blunt with him, I have even
been what I would consider mean or rude. No matter what is said, the next day he acts as if
I hadn't had another heart to heart with him the night before. Its as if when he sleeps it wipes
away whatever I have tried so hard to make clear. I can't be horrible to him, he has not done
anything that would justify that behavior from me. I only answer about 1 in 5 of his calls,
and his texts only if they have nothing to do with anything more than friendly chat.
I am close to the limits of my tolerance, and I tell him that as well!


He is extremely immature, child like almost, and not just in a "playful" adult way. He
has been through absolute hell in his life, and needs someone stable to talk with. He is
a very soft hearted, kind, person and deserves to be happy. One day he got this
idea in his head about me and he does not see any reason to allow anything I say to change
what he believes will eventually be. He thinks I will one day see the same and he is skipping
through his days just waiting patiently until I do.. He is whiney at times,and kind of needy..
I am becoming annoyed but at a loss of what to do. Maybe someone has some insight into
sadges that could help...idk

(I am pretty darn sleep deprived so please, no grief about my grammar or typos) Gracias !

this has turned into full blown harassment. most of the sags i know are not like this. i know you think its mean and rude to ignore him. but let him know that you are not talking to him because he is not respecting your feelings. you will talk to him again when he has accepted your feelings. i know he needs a friend right now, but he has to be a friend himself and he is not doing that.

Posted by chemengin
this has turned into full blown harassment. most of the sags i know are not like this. i know you think its mean and rude to ignore him. but let him know that you are not talking to him because he is not respecting your feelings. you will talk to him again when he has accepted your feelings. i know he needs a friend right now, but he has to be a friend himself and he is not doing that.

Thanks- you are very right. I let my feeling sorry for him get in the way of seeing this!

Even though he is not being outright mean, he isn't respecting my boundaries...

I'm going to stop letting him manipulate me with the "poor poor me"
The whole deal is a bit draining, and I just will have to put a stop to it.

Posted by QLIbraMale
Tsk Tsk Some people just can't appreciate a Good Stalker! 😛

LOL, right!! 🙂

Posted by trolltrain
give him a fuckitbucket

or tell him to whack himself off.

such wise and eloquently worded advice.

How was that date with your cousin?