What turns you off?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by AriesIntrovert16 on Monday, October 6, 2014 and has 7 replies.

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@AriesIntrovert16
13 Years1,000+ Posts

This question isn't exactly sex driven. I just want to know what about someone puts you off? More specifically, personality-wise?

And don't say Aries. 😛

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@jeane
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Dishonesty, someone with poor hygiene, a person who is unkind to others, laziness. I'm also not a fan of weak willed people who will moan about their circumstances but refuse to do anything about it.

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@LibraSid
16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Loud and aggressive people turn me off. This one is straightforward. I'm a calm peaceful person, don't fuck up my chi! 😛

Also, "show offs" and "know it alls" are annoying. This one is a little trickier because I very much enjoy skilled and smart people. If that skill or piece of knowledge becomes your all consuming definitive trait, you suck. Even worse is when there is no basis for a person's inflated ego.

The "stuck in the past" comment struck a nerve with me too. I've been dealing with someone lately who is this way. I can't handle it. Everyone has a shitty story. It sucks, we deal with it. Get yourself down off that cross, use the wood to build a bridge, and get over it! I don't like perpetual victims.

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@Blackvirgo
12 Years

I do lots of things that turn me off.

So I'm turned off by the fact that I seem to have a hearing problem. I mean I hear but I have like a delayed reaction or something.

Shrugs.

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@lucyL
12 Years500+ Posts

Loud chewing.
I can't stand it. It is irritating. Makes me nervous.
Now that I think about it, the worst loud chewing I heard is from my Aries best friend 😄 tough to keep her mouth closed even while eating lol

Bossy people. People that find amusement to mock others. Well I guess nobody approves those, but I have zero tolerance on that and it makes me disgusted.

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@lucyL
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Posted by LibraSid
Loud and aggressive people turn me off. This one is straightforward. I'm a calm peaceful person, don't fuck up my chi! 😛

Also, "show offs" and "know it alls" are annoying. This one is a little trickier because I very much enjoy skilled and smart people. If that skill or piece of knowledge becomes your all consuming definitive trait, you suck. Even worse is when there is no basis for a person's inflated ego.

The "stuck in the past" comment struck a nerve with me too. I've been dealing with someone lately who is this way. I can't handle it. Everyone has a shitty story. It sucks, we deal with it. Get yourself down off that cross, use the wood to build a bridge, and get over it! I don't like perpetual victims.

yeah this too.

in contrast to those "show offs" and "know it alls" , people who act simple and even humble in a certain way and yet hold great knowledge, wisdom or talent impresses me. I have much respect for such folks.