when im fallingin love.. out of balance, distant

I am Libra lady. Been in couple of relationships for a couple years. 2 years with Aquarius (one of the best, but shame we were so young), 1,5 years with Libra (nooott, i felt like living with my best friend and not in good meaning) and 6 years with Virgo (although I am Libra with Virgo moon and Virgo rising... he is too fussy, too negative and too... well he always kills my dreams form very beginning. He is just to negative from inside and throughout). Dated for while a Scorpio - ohh mysterious man, but too dark for me and wayyyy toooo stubborn. He drove me insane. We argued all the time. Don't get me wrong, I live Scorpio ladies - my mom and my best friend is one. Love them to bits. But the men.. Then I was seeing Aries man for a while. O gosh, what a man! I love Aries. They are manly men. Love them. If I am having a night out with my friends and I spotting a cute guy across the bar, I is Aries for sure! But now my eyes are on Cancer man and they been there for more a year. I am in shock, cause normally I loose interest pretty fast. And I know it is really reaaalllly bad match, but the heart wants what it wants 🙂) p.s. I secretly believe this could be my soul mate, couse I never ever in my life felt like this. We were seeing each other a year ago, but it didn't work out. He had a break with his ex and I had a break with mine. But i will never give up on him, although everything says i need to. Oh well..it is my life and I know I am making mistake 😄

But when I am falling in love and falling in love for real and not some "oh that guy is cute"...
Well first of all we all know that Libras loves to be in love and I hate to be on my own. I love when there are people around me, so I think that being on our own is just a waste of time, cause when someone is besides you he can give you some much happiness and new experience and you will never be bored 🙂
But when I really really like someone, I loose my balance. I am starting to feel so much emotions and feelings that I never been aware of, so I am starting to loose my charm and self confidence.
I might be flirtatious and charming around people I barley know, but when there is someone I am really falling for my scales just go wild and I am totally out of balance ( and out of this space as well). And then I am starting to run away, but not to far. I will keep my loved one pretty close, so I could control situation until I am on track again. But meanwhile I might be quite and for others I might seem disinter

Posted by Kodak375
Nah cancer men and libra women work well from all that ive seen, libra women are amazing women, I mean if theres a chance, go grab it =)

oh really? You are the first one who is saying this! 🙂)
So I have a hope.
Thank you so much 🙂

I know what you mean.
I always out of balance when I like someone. I have libra sun, Leo moon and libra venus.
I think my leo moon plays a big role when I like someone. I like attention, I'm clingy, I overthink, I'm worried about stupid things.
I will get upset if my man doesn't show me enough attention... but I won't say it.
My date is aquarius sun, pisces moon and pisces venus (KILL ME PLS)
He's too cool! He doesn't give me alot of attention. He's detach! We're in a LDR, and it's worst.
He doesn't like to open up to me yet. He doesn't like to talk about his problem. My leo moon plays a big role again. I like to get my point straight forward. I like to talk and work things out... but he doesn't.
I value my pride ALOT!! And I gave up mine ALOT in this relationship too.

However, I don't like keeping myself distant from my date though.