Posted by brokenbutfixableLibragirl
im a female but have been told this as well by many iv dated and it is mostly do to having second thoughts sitting on the fence per say just did this with a Gemini male. had to sort just disappear on him had too many second thoughts.
Posted by Sutekh
Because Libra is an air sign.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
wishy washy behavior..
it's like a compromise btwn his need for freedom and a longing for commitment/being trapped 🙂
Posted by oldskoolflavor
more like ..
his mind wants to experience both worlds the same time
one minute he's in single mode .. the next one he's in rlsthip mode
God really hates libras 😢
Posted by DESTINY0809Posted by oldskoolflavor
more like ..
his mind wants to experience both worlds the same time
one minute he's in single mode .. the next one he's in rlsthip mode
God really hates libras 😢
SMH..LOL..click to expand
Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)
Posted by SutekhPosted by DESTINY0809Posted by Sutekh
Because Libra is an air sign.
I'm an air sign as well and I am not like that..
what house is it in and how much earth water or leo do you have.click to expand
Posted by DESTINY0809Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)
Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?click to expand
Posted by oldskoolflavorPosted by DESTINY0809Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)
Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
truth is:
he won't like being pressured if your intention is obviousclick to expand
Posted by DESTINY0809Posted by oldskoolflavorPosted by DESTINY0809Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)
Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
truth is:
he won't like being pressured if your intention is obvious
Are you Libra sun sign? And what's your moon sign?
Hmmmm...true so without me even saying it all may be obvious...click to expand
Posted by LibraSidPosted by DESTINY0809Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)
Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
What is it you want from him then? You don't sound like you are sure, no wonder he comes close then backs off. If he starts chasing and senses your doubt, he will back off. I ain't gonna chase after someone who isn't interested.
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Posted by haightash
My brother, my dad and myself are all Libras, we all are wishy washy.. Especially if you are trying to get us to make a decision... I need my space. If someone is bothering me with all their attention I have a way that it really bothers the other person and they think I no longer want them anymore. Which is not the case, I just want my personal space. And whoever said one minute they are in single mode and the other in relationship mode is so true. I know my brother and I are like that, and I suspect my dad is as well (I will never know) .. Libras are awesome when we are balanced. I mean that literally... Dont force anything. It takes time for us to decide who and what we want. Once they do the are decent people..The pain is worth the effort.
Posted by DESTINY0809
Why are Libra men so wishy washy? Why do they give you their all for consistently for a while, than get distant, than when you start being distant they come back on strong? And it goes on like this back and forth back and forth..What is this all about— Why do they do this?? I'm a Sun Sign Aquarius Moon sign Gemini!
Posted by happykitsunePosted by DESTINY0809
Why are Libra men so wishy washy? Why do they give you their all for consistently for a while, than get distant, than when you start being distant they come back on strong? And it goes on like this back and forth back and forth..What is this all about— Why do they do this?? I'm a Sun Sign Aquarius Moon sign Gemini!
So that's why they're always clinging to me :o
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Posted by happykitsune
Sagittarius.
Male libras aren't all bad. I found one recently who is absolutely hilarious. Nothing like the libras I know. But yeah they tend to not leave me along. As a sag I get turned off very fast by someone who goes all in and won't leave me alone :/
Posted by DESTINY0809Posted by happykitsune
Sagittarius.
Male libras aren't all bad. I found one recently who is absolutely hilarious. Nothing like the libras I know. But yeah they tend to not leave me along. As a sag I get turned off very fast by someone who goes all in and won't leave me alone :/
Oh ok I see...lol, so they cause you to run..click to expand
Posted by haightash
Lol sags are def ego centered. BUT I LOVE THEM.. .My best piece of advice would be the ones who ignores you is the one who misses you the most.. For some reason idk why, but I like it when they get sarcastic with me.. It kinda turns me on... Like if he says I miss you, say I miss me too... Or i love you I love me too thx... I wish I knew you better.. Another thing you have to watch out for in one minute we are a joy, then the next it like we are planning a funeral.Like in the bat of an eyelash how fast it changes. I dont think it cause it is hard to control without meds... 😉..
Posted by happykitsune
But you know I think that's what they like...you running away. Cus I had two who wanted to marry me and one who just wouldn't leave me alone.
Posted by LibraSidPosted by DESTINY0809Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)
Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
What is it you want from him then? You don't sound like you are sure, no wonder he comes close then backs off. If he starts chasing and senses your doubt, he will back off. I ain't gonna chase after someone who isn't interested.
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Posted by LibraRosePosted by LibraSidPosted by DESTINY0809Posted by oldskoolflavor
bottom line:
you'll have to pressure him into picking one situation, if it's been going on for too long (from your pov)
Yeah but Libras don't like to be pressured or to put on the spot and at the same time I don't know if I am ready to put myself out there and express myself yet?
What is it you want from him then? You don't sound like you are sure, no wonder he comes close then backs off. If he starts chasing and senses your doubt, he will back off. I ain't gonna chase after someone who isn't interested.
I think Sid has a good point.
When I read your posts I am having trouble getting a handle you. You sound you are just waiting on him and not expressing yourself. He probably doesn't know what you are about either so doesn't know how to react. That's why he comes across as wishy washy. You're afraid to express your needs because you think it will scare him off. Why not try taking the reigns and gently guiding him. He might like it.click to expand
Posted by haightash
Girl it is hard to say... I would continue to be you... if he isnt responding then either he dont think you like him ohr you might come off too easy...dont take that the wrong way.. Power is really in your hands.. he may feel intimated or he thinks you are not able to commit oh look a butterfly... Bottom line if your getting his attention and someone else it as well let him decide. it will take a minute but either way he will go with his pee pee no his guy.. I have nothing but love for a sag
Posted by LibraRose
Thanks Destiny - I got your message
I can't tell if he just wants to be friends or if he wants more than that. Maybe he doesn't know either. Sorry I'm not more help.
Posted by LibraRose
I just saw in your other post that he is a Scorp moon. So am I. We like total commitment from our lovers. He can probably sense that you are less than committed. He is subconsciously testing you when he pulls away. Might be a little bit too much air between you. Google Scorpio Moon - it's an interesting read.
Posted by DESTINY0809Posted by LibraRose
I just saw in your other post that he is a Scorp moon. So am I. We like total commitment from our lovers. He can probably sense that you are less than committed. He is subconsciously testing you when he pulls away. Might be a little bit too much air between you. Google Scorpio Moon - it's an interesting read.
He is Libra moon!!click to expand
Posted by PiscesFebFish
One of my best male friends is a Libra and I??ve never experienced this. But of course we are friends in the true sense of the word. We never dated, never had any physical contact outside of hugging to great each other. He always has some female in his life (typical Libra) and when he starts to get distant it's because he's questioning the relationship. I don't know how to interpret your situation because you say you are just friends. Overall, he's completely dedicated and when that stops or becomes sporadic its usually because he's on the verge of ending it. However, they are excellent verbal communicators so just talk to him. My friend has a Libra moon as well.
Posted by XMan
Hi
I am a Libra and we all differ although we are be Libra's. I was emotionally aloof when I was unhappy in my marriage, usually lack of sex, once every few months. I would get very grumpy and quite. I have recently read a lot of books and work real hard on myself and my Sagittarius wife says I have become a god! hehe nice. The fact is for me when I become emotionally distant it is because I need to be intimate, and not just a quickie, I want to be romanced! I love that shit! Now cause our sex life has improved all I want to do is cuddle and bring her the moon. We Libra's love to treat our lovers, and we are very good at it. I am not saying that if your Libra man is aloof that he needs some sexy time, but for me it changes my world. Oh and this may be a bit off topic, but I realized that making love with a condom skews up a relationship big time!!!
The exchange of hormones and vitamins in the fluids of each partner is what creates the chemical bond. I made love to my wife, then my girlfriend for 8 years with a condom and was never ever satisfied and started avoiding sex because I did not get the BOOST everyone was talking about. A few weeks ago my wife and I did it bare. OMG!!!! the next week I had eminence energy and one hell of a good mood! I am not saying have unprotected sex but rather use a cervical cap or membrane. Nature defiantly has a system when it comes to human sex time for the chemicals to exchange. What I am trying to say is that a Star sign is not always to blame for everything, sometimes it can be easy fixes. There are many star signs that have married so called incompatible partners, but because they work hard on finding solutions for there differences they flourish! I don't want this to be all about love making, but usually men not just Libra's get emotionally distant when they are unhappy in a relationship that is rocky for what ever reason. And many people say Libra's will bail or cheat once the relationship gets rocky. I have never ever bailed without talking it out and never cheated once in my 30 year life, I never even look at other women cause i am totally devoted to my sag wife! So much for that Libra BS!
Posted by DESTINY0809Posted by XMan
Hi
I am a Libra and we all differ although we are be Libra's. I was emotionally aloof when I was unhappy in my marriage, usually lack of sex, once every few months. I would get very grumpy and quite. I have recently read a lot of books and work real hard on myself and my Sagittarius wife says I have become a god! hehe nice. The fact is for me when I become emotionally distant it is because I need to be intimate, and not just a quickie, I want to be romanced! I love that shit! Now cause our sex life has improved all I want to do is cuddle and bring her the moon. We Libra's love to treat our lovers, and we are very good at it. I am not saying that if your Libra man is aloof that he needs some sexy time, but for me it changes my world. Oh and this may be a bit off topic, but I realized that making love with a condom skews up a relationship big time!!!
The exchange of hormones and vitamins in the fluids of each partner is what creates the chemical bond. I made love to my wife, then my girlfriend for 8 years with a condom and was never ever satisfied and started avoiding sex because I did not get the BOOST everyone was talking about. A few weeks ago my wife and I did it bare. OMG!!!! the next week I had eminence energy and one hell of a good mood! I am not saying have unprotected sex but rather use a cervical cap or membrane. Nature defiantly has a system when it comes to human sex time for the chemicals to exchange. What I am trying to say is that a Star sign is not always to blame for everything, sometimes it can be easy fixes. There are many star signs that have married so called incompatible partners, but because they work hard on finding solutions for there differences they flourish! I don't want this to be all about love making, but usually men not just Libra's get emotionally distant when they are unhappy in a relationship that is rocky for what ever reason. And many people say Libra's will bail or cheat once the relationship gets rocky. I have never ever bailed without talking it out and never cheated once in my 30 year life, I never even look at other women cause i am totally devoted to my sag wife! So much for that Libra BS!
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Hello, how are you? WEll him and I are not in a relationship.. We are friends with benefits, I guess you can say..But above all we ar
Posted by libnicole84
i think all men do this regardless of sun sign
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