Why he backs away after saying something sweet?

He is a libra. We just know each other less than a month. Why he back away after he said "the most important thing is I do feel we could have somthing, you and I. We should explore further and lets God completes the rest" It has been a week since then. And I wont contact him if he wont. (I'm a gemini with pisces rising and leo venus)

Then why he said the way he said? was he not sincere when he said that?

Haha, im maybe a typical gemini. I dont like to test and to be tested. I have nothing to lose even if he wont come back. Just curious why he does the way he does. Im a leo in venus. I can fall hard, but need to see the progress and efforts from his end before i allow myself to fall.

You need to test him a bit you know Gemini tests for men 🙂but keep your feet on ground level don't trust him too much unless there has to be some thing trust able take it slowly 🙂



Now im curious of what kind of test are u refering to?

Posted by xvll27

Posted by yuned

Now im curious of what kind of test are u refering to?

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Lol. Told you i dont like to test and to be tested. Im very straight forward. For me there is no wrong person. Things happen for a reason. No matter how many times u test, if its not meant to be, it will never be.

Well, i guess its not only about Gemini sun after all. Their venus sign affects more if we talk about close relationship. Plus their rising as well. As my rising is pisces, i attract men with strong personality and im always looking for stable relationship. There is no wishy washy.

Btw, u havent answered my question 😉 why he does the way he does? And what kind of test a gemini girl does normally? (I honestly clueless)

Im also not a deep believer. Just i was always thinking why i am the way i am while in a close relationship. And one day i found out about my venus in leo and think this is why i act like that. But its just the outline. There is no single person is the same.

Lol. Of coz it doesnt matter what sign he is if im interested.

But honestly, i really want to know what kind of test though if u dont mind to share.

I found out he is a self saboteur who is fear of intimacy and back away if he feels too close. But if its the case, then all libras are fear of intimacy? Lol

I just read few posts. Some say his disappearing could be he is testing himself if he really want that girl into his life or not or he wants to see if the girl would care enough to look for him??

This thread makes my head hurt

Mine said " I love you " , then disappeared. So I am no wonder...

Posted by Alisiyaabcd
Mine said " I love you " , then disappeared. So I am no wonder...

Thanks for your comment alisiyaabcd. And he never come back??

Maybe you should start paying attention to what guys DO instead of what they SAY. That isn't just for Libras but for guys in general. People say a lot of things but it's what they do that counts. Better than that, have your own life! That way whenever a guy doesn't call or text you back you won't care because you'll be too busy. If the guy comes around week after week and makes an effort to see you, talk to you, spend time with you, then he's probably into you. If not, move on to someone else. Also,sounds old fashioned but probably best to not sleep with a dude until you know whether he's into you or not. To most guys girls are like onions. No point peeling back the layers to see what's underneath if you already have what you want.

Hi yuned . He came back first time, after one year ! This was his first disappearing act, but before we know each other real. then after we knew each other real, he was disappearing and back for 3 times already.. The last time he higged me and told me " I love you!" His express was so deep , so real feeling. I would like tell you my story and maybe you can tell me yours, I can tell you more then. If you can just send me a message to mail box here in this website ( see the option in my profile) , because it is much to say.... Now, after his last disparition, my feeling is that he will be back , maybe soon, maybe later, but for sure he will be back . I was tested some other Libras for some questions, they all told me the same thing and they said they are sure he will be back.
Waiting you to talk more if you like, I hope I can help me you understand him more. Here some peoples say things that makes you feel sad sometimes maybe, but if your feeling is that he wll be back and you arrive to know him, then just wait 🙂

arletteleigh also is right in some way, but with a Libra seduction is difficult sometimes acting like this...