the outcome of my first relatonship reading made me laugh!

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so, i got a new tarot deck and it has been extremely very strong when i did a few readings for my friends. Learning and all.

Finally did the first relationship spread and following guidelines..

* how he feels about me * --> queen of cups.. ( apparently he's inlove with me and see me as his queen??)

* the outcome * --> Ten of cups.. ( offering commitments and happiness dah dee dah dee dah )

it only made me laugh because i have wholeheartedly giving up on us ever be together lol... i don't trust him as he lied etc and we have a baby together but going to only focus on co parenting well. he also has another baby coming in a month also with another woman or a girl shes (20) ..so the outcome of my tarot cards got me speechless and made me laugh at the same time..

for the first time i do not believe my own reading...

however the next day he messaged me asking how his son is which hasn't happened much over the last 5 months..and i thought..wow the cards were extremely accurate..

so tarot readers help me, shud i even bother believing it ? think of it as a joke..if it was true, what are the time length that this will happen? is it like a 6 months reading etc?...

also we have intense karmic sexual additctions to each other and ofcoz the devil card came up about 5 times even if i shuffle the cards or whatever...it kept coming out of its deck and all of my reading when i ask about him... i wonder if its because he has the psychic power to penetrate my reading or what?... lol...

also i find this tarot card i connect with extremely well ..too extreme that i find it takes out all my energy levels..what should i do to maintain my sanity and keep myself calm and collected when doing readings for others? i'm normally detached but some people are very strong and it passes on those energy to me. !

thank you !!
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You shouldn't do your own readings about love unless you are extremely disciplined and you are willing to take the first lay out without questioning again unless you need clarification.



Queen of cups - if you are a water sign he finds you sweet, loving, easy to talk to, and a nice person.

If you are not a water sign, the Queen of Cups is the new lady friend who is lightly dating.

In regards to a situation the Queen of cups feels confused about a situation, or curious

the 10 of cups is a weak card with love; it's more like friendship, family, caring about the overall well being of a person and their family, or loving someone in an endearing family like way a friend.

Your intuition is right; his feelings are weak but friendly.
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Posted by librawomen7
You shouldn't do your own readings about love unless you are extremely disciplined and you are willing to take the first lay out without questioning again unless you need clarification.



Queen of cups - if you are a water sign he finds you sweet, loving, easy to talk to, and a nice person.

If you are not a water sign, the Queen of Cups is the new lady friend who is lightly dating.

In regards to a situation the Queen of cups feels confused about a situation, or curious

the 10 of cups is a weak card with love; it's more like friendship, family, caring about the overall well being of a person and their family, or loving someone in an endearing family like way a friend.

Your intuition is right; his feelings are weak but friendly.

Thank u !! So how come the queen of cups fell on to * how he feels about me * if I'm not a water sign what does that mean? And ten of cups I think u r right. It could be like a family love etc?? We have a baby together. Is that what it means? Thank u I'm so new and it's so complicated lol..
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I already answered this - Queen of cups - if you are not the water sign represents the new female he has who has taken his mind off the situation. These are very weak cards for a relationship, but nice friendly-family like cards. People see people as queens when they are too old to be princesses, or pages.

Ten of cups represents family, connection, in a friendly platonic manner.

I pulled two cards and got the Fool and the 4 of swords reversed. It's best to not to do your own readings you will read more into the situation that is there.