Twin Flame or Obsession

I came in contact with a man 3 years ago. We never actually met in person. We exchanged emails for several months and then he randomly stopped replying to all forms of contact. When I first started talking to him it was not in a bf/gf type & I had never even heard of "Twin Flames". I came across the term bc I started searching for a reason why I was feeling certain emotions for someone I had never actually met. When I was talking to him it was like talking to a friend I had known forever it all progressed quickly as far as wanting to contact him to tell him about everything be a great day or a horrible day.

It's very odd but its like no matter where I go in life it's like I keep going back to thinking of him. I have had several dreams about him(we are always riding in a car) & something about his eyes are very mesmorizing. I don't know if I am losing my mind or if I am actually in a twin flame situation or if it is infatuation. Our birthdays are 1 day apart yet he is 4 years older.

Has anyone experienced this. If you do think it is infatuation, how to I let it go. I have not actually received a response from insight & honest unbiased opinions.

I wouldn't necessarily chalk the connection formed to a twin flame karmic connection. What you experienced is actually quite common in people chit chatting over the internet and never met before. Your twin flame (hence why it's called a twin flame) is someone who you have these karmic matching experiences or complements. It's like finding the other half of yourself that you never knew existed. It's like either a reduced or magnified image of yourself and you get to KNOW that because you spend time together in person. My best friend and I clicked IMMEDIATELY the day we met. We can't count the number of times we've met up wearing almost the EXACT same thing without discussing a single detail of our clothing choices. We've listened to someone talk to us and literally read each other's minds in knowing what each other was thinking. There are times when individually we've struggled with something and the other would call out of the blue KNOWING what was wrong. Like...dead on we can even now pick up on this spiritual frequency or we can tap INTO it. Many times with modes of communication at our finger tips, we feel like we know someone or are getting to know someone when we really aren't. Since electro communication is now the everyday norm, we forget that you don't really know the other without spending significant time together and even then you have to work through issues, support their struggle, defend their flaws and risk your reputation for that person in order to get to know them. You have to invest your resources of time, money, and talent...especially when it's most inconvenient. They have to do the same for you and you must observe this for a while, because we're constantly shifting. So then you have to know their shifting cycles....how often do they reinvent their image? How long does it take for them to become bored with a project/career/relationship and what in the world does that even look like??

Until you can speak with confidence on these things regarding the other person...you don't know them. I'm not trying to diminish your experience. I'm just trying to put things in relative perspective.

Posted by MsTeeq1974
I wouldn't necessarily chalk the connection formed to a twin flame karmic connection. What you experienced is actually quite common in people chit chatting over the internet and never met before. Your twin flame (hence why it's called a twin flame) is someone who you have these karmic matching experiences or complements. It's like finding the other half of yourself that you never knew existed. It's like either a reduced or magnified image of yourself and you get to KNOW that because you spend time together in person. My best friend and I clicked IMMEDIATELY the day we met. We can't count the number of times we've met up wearing almost the EXACT same thing without discussing a single detail of our clothing choices. We've listened to someone talk to us and literally read each other's minds in knowing what each other was thinking. There are times when individually we've struggled with something and the other would call out of the blue KNOWING what was wrong. Like...dead on we can even now pick up on this spiritual frequency or we can tap INTO it. Many times with modes of communication at our finger tips, we feel like we know someone or are getting to know someone when we really aren't. Since electro communication is now the everyday norm, we forget that you don't really know the other without spending significant time together and even then you have to work through issues, support their struggle, defend their flaws and risk your reputation for that person in order to get to know them. You have to invest your resources of time, money, and talent...especially when it's most inconvenient. They have to do the same for you and you must observe this for a while, because we're constantly shifting. So then you have to know their shifting cycles....how often do they reinvent their image? How long does it take for them to become bored with a project/career/relationship and what in the world does that even look like??

Until you can speak with confidence on these things regarding the other person...you don't know them. I'm not trying to diminish your experience. I'm just trying to put things in relative perspective.

Damn. I'm pretty positive I met mine, and worked with him for a year. Cubicle mates. Same kind of connection. We actually responded to each other and situations as if we were in a relationship, when we hadn't even spent time together outside of the work place. We are both in long term relationships and were not free to get to know each other better but so many sychronicities like what you mentioned. I have never felt anything like it, even with my SO of 20 years.

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Posted by MsTeeq1974
I wouldn't necessarily chalk the connection formed to a twin flame karmic connection. What you experienced is actually quite common in people chit chatting over the internet and never met before. Your twin flame (hence why it's called a twin flame) is someone who you have these karmic matching experiences or complements. It's like finding the other half of yourself that you never knew existed. It's like either a reduced or magnified image of yourself and you get to KNOW that because you spend time together in person. My best friend and I clicked IMMEDIATELY the day we met. We can't count the number of times we've met up wearing almost the EXACT same thing without discussing a single detail of our clothing choices. We've listened to someone talk to us and literally read each other's minds in knowing what each other was thinking. There are times when individually we've struggled with something and the other would call out of the blue KNOWING what was wrong. Like...dead on we can even now pick up on this spiritual frequency or we can tap INTO it. Many times with modes of communication at our finger tips, we feel like we know someone or are getting to know someone when we really aren't. Since electro communication is now the everyday norm, we forget that you don't really know the other without spending significant time together and even then you have to work through issues, support their struggle, defend their flaws and risk your reputation for that person in order to get to know them. You have to invest your resources of time, money, and talent...especially when it's most inconvenient. They have to do the same for you and you must observe this for a while, because we're constantly shifting. So then you have to know their shifting cycles....how often do they reinvent their image? How long does it take for them to become bored with a project/career/relationship and what in the world does that even look like??

Until you can speak with confidence on these things regarding the other person...you don't know them. I'm not trying to diminish your experience. I'm just trying to put things in relative perspective.

Damn. I'm pretty positive I met mine, and worked with him for a year. Cubicle mates. Same kind of connection. We actually responded to each other and situations as if we were in a relationship, when we hadn't even spent time together outside of the work place. We are both in long term relationships and were not free to get to know each other better but so many sychronicities like what you mentioned. I have never felt anything like it, even with my SO of 20 years.

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Yes..that's exactly what I'm talking about. So, I typed this all out on Sunday and was reminiscing on me and my bestie's heydays.

Yes..that's exactly what I'm talking about. So, I typed this all out on Sunday and was reminiscing on me and my bestie's heydays. Well, she contacts me yesterday to say that for her 40th bday, she wants to party and club hard like the old days...and is leaving her Islamic hubby at home. See...that's the kind of stuff that happens when you're twin flames. She hasn't gone out or partied in almost 2 years...since her conversion.