Agree with this statement or not really?

It is being quoted very often by many younger woman, espeacially those that are trying to be tough.

I personaly don't agree with it. I think both man & woman needs both.
One EXCEPTION though can be: a woman that is also a mother. She perhaps do need only to be wanted by her man since she gets the love from her child. Hm? That I wouldn't know since I don't have a child.

Give me some thaughts on this. Both guys and gals.
Thanks 😉

ppfttt bitch doesn't know what she's talking bout and on top of it she's a fictional character from sons of anarchy for christ sake.

You can't cook toast with wanted but but if your needed you'll never be cold again??_..I don't know about this bitch but Id rather be needed than wanted??_.seems like she's selling herself short.

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I guess if you're so up your own ass and so weak minded and willed that you have to tell yourself that lie to give your fragile and over inflated ego fuel to be a functional adult in the world, so be it.

If no man wants you, then what? Live a life without men? Good luck. Then again you probably live in a first world country we're everyone else has to pick up the slack for you disillusion ass.

You never hear men saying shit like this. They either do/live it or they don't.

Fine. Let's tell the men that "truth". No need to love their mother, sisters, wives and daughters. You ONLY have to want them around for whatever use you have for them.

Ladies, how would you feel if NO man in your life ever loved you and just used you for their own gain?

Sounds oddly similar to the sugar daddy-gold digger dynamic. Huh, weird.

Ehh... No. Not that being courted/pursued isn't enjoyable to a degree (if that's what she meant by needing to be wanted - and she probably did), but it's definitely not all there is to it. I can't identify. Woman or man, we are all human beings. The desire to be loved is in our nature.

Posted by Arielle83
P.s. is that peg bundy?

Hehe yeah it is her. This is her character from Sons of Anarchy.

Yeah, this IS a fictional character's words, but real person's thoughts/statement. Not mine...as I said, I don't agree with it and was wondering why does some women digg it so much.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
on top of it she's a fictional character from sons of anarchy for christ sake.

...not talking about fictional character here, but that statment wich obviously somebody wroted.

Posted by Arielle83
ummmm no...men and women are humans...and we need to be loved and wanted...

So 'tough' women are saying that they "need to be wanted"? What? Like objectified like strippers? Lusted after? Give me a break.

Pretty Much.
Funny when they supposedly hate being objectified, yet spout shit like this and expect/demand love.

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by Arielle83
ummmm no...men and women are humans...and we need to be loved and wanted...

So 'tough' women are saying that they "need to be wanted"? What? Like objectified like strippers? Lusted after? Give me a break.

Pretty Much.
Funny when they supposedly hate being objectified, yet spout shit like this and expect/demand love.

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yes, usual contradiction

Posted by Arielle83
..so in hindsight, scantily clad dress in the middle of winter, "im a tease" button etc...she wanted to be wanted.....but then she screams "oh u just want to fuck me"

confusing...isnt that the attention she wants?

Clearly.
But we're supposed to ignore that and pretend she isn't attention seeking.

Posted by tiziani
"Women need to be..."

I thought tough women didn't have needs? 😉

"tough"

It is so ridiculous, so I guess this would mean that a "real tough" woman don't need love cause that makes her weaker, meaning that all males are pigs uncapable for loving and basically real woman should know better and need only that what "male can offer" - wanting them (in terms of pure desire). So real tough woman is ummm..nothing but an object of desire?

And only she, as a real "tough woman" is capable of loving, meaning that she will be to him: mother, lover, friend, sister....cause he is poore litlle helpless man and he needs to be treated with love and care like a child.

Ughh, come on, such a bullshit.

lol nah Tiz, it is that Libra's unecessary brainstorming over a thing, whatever that might be. I feel it already leaving me 🙂

I was just watching SOA few weeks ago and heard this. Then I heard it being quoted by a woman just few days ago. Then got into an argument with her about it... Anyways, was curious to hear what you folks have to say on it.

And that is a good saying btw

Women need love.
Men need respect.

Posted by capgirl69
Women need love.
Men need respect.

Bingo.

Posted by SirHorns
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I guess if you're so up your own ass and so weak minded and willed that you have to tell yourself that lie to give your fragile and over inflated ego fuel to be a functional adult in the world, so be it.

If no man wants you, then what? Live a life without men? Good luck. Then again you probably live in a first world country we're everyone else has to pick up the slack for you disillusion ass.

You never hear men saying shit like this. They either do/live it or they don't.

Fine. Let's tell the men that "truth". No need to love their mother, sisters, wives and daughters. You ONLY have to want them around for whatever use you have for them.

Ladies, how would you feel if NO man in your life ever loved you and just used you for their own gain?

Sounds oddly similar to the sugar daddy-gold digger dynamic. Huh, weird.

Welcome to the future, SirHorns, my friend.

I don't envy you being a young man of 21.

Luckily, at my age, I can still weed through some of the nonsense, and find GOOD women.

I wish you luck.

P.S. - I'd marry Katy Segal.

Posted by capgirl69
Women need love.
Men need respect.

mmmmm respect and love goes hand in hand. In romantic relationship ofc.
What sort of love from a man is that if he is disrespectful towards me lol

You don't respect me? Nah, you do not love me.