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Posted by ItsSupes2
Get cho azz back in dat kitchen woman

Posted by LittleStar
I think more people are getting divorced 20-40 years into a marriage.


Posted by ItsSupes2Posted by GemitatiPosted by ItsSupes2
Get cho azz back in dat kitchen woman
I will. Wednesday cooking for my newfound family. Thinking of a menu...
His ass is on a diet. I can only get away with feeding my gf dog! Lol
What were you saying?..🤔
I don’t even know anymoreclick to expand

Posted by LittleStarPosted by GemitatiPosted by LittleStar
I think more people are getting divorced 20-40 years into a marriage.
These 2 never will. And I am not asking for it. It just sucks to see them being like...unhappy and stuck after they were spunky and fun! Really sucks! 😭
Idk. If they are unhappy then they shouldn’t stay together just because they’ve invested the past.click to expand

Posted by ItsSupes2Posted by GemitatiPosted by ItsSupes2Posted by GemitatiPosted by ItsSupes2
Get cho azz back in dat kitchen woman
I will. Wednesday cooking for my newfound family. Thinking of a menu...
His ass is on a diet. I can only get away with feeding my gf dog! Lol
What were you saying?..🤔
I don’t even know anymore
What else is new? 🤷♀️
Exactly
Should I go kill myself now?click to expand


Posted by ItsSupes2Posted by GemitatiPosted by ItsSupes2Posted by GemitatiPosted by ItsSupes2Posted by GemitatiPosted by ItsSupes2
Get cho azz back in dat kitchen woman
I will. Wednesday cooking for my newfound family. Thinking of a menu...
His ass is on a diet. I can only get away with feeding my gf dog! Lol
What were you saying?..🤔
I don’t even know anymore
What else is new? 🤷♀️
Exactly
Should I go kill myself now?
Not yet. Because I just warned you about shit! So thank me later. And don’t be just THAT kind of couple!
Thank you for saving my lifeclick to expand

Posted by Phantom_Limbo
lol
You sound like an ex-smoker who now judges their smoking friends. Which, ya know, I can appreciate. That shit stinks since I quit.

Posted by UnwantedCommentaryGuy
Here we have an autistic geriatric Gemini woman who recently removed herself from a longterm sexless marriage, finally start to see some synapses firing..
For all you sitting in the front row, wear eye protection, they havent fired in a long time... fire extinguishers are handy.

Posted by PuzzlePieces
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.

Posted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePieces
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
It’s that relashionships where they grow up and become older and just rolling with it...they don’t know shit is bad...they came to it graduately. They haven’t noticed. 🤦♀️click to expand

Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePieces
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
It’s that relashionships where they grow up and become older and just rolling with it...they don’t know shit is bad...they came to it graduately. They haven’t noticed. 🤦♀️
How can you not notice not having sex? Or that you don’t want to sleep in the same bed? 🤦♀️ You accept being roommates not lovers?
Life gets busy, attention paid to kids, so its difficult but this is just ignoring problems. And the example for kids? Do we ever think about that?click to expand

Posted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?

Posted by NemDeux
there is nothing wrong with separate bedrooms.
omg! it´s the best ever.

Posted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePieces
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
It’s that relashionships where they grow up and become older and just rolling with it...they don’t know shit is bad...they came to it graduately. They haven’t noticed. 🤦♀️
How can you not notice not having sex? Or that you don’t want to sleep in the same bed? 🤦♀️ You accept being roommates not lovers?
Life gets busy, attention paid to kids, so its difficult but this is just ignoring problems. And the example for kids? Do we ever think about that?
Here they don’t have kids. Just a dig and she is spade so no parents ducking example needed! 😂😂😂click to expand



Posted by Phantom_Limbo
I think it's interesting that if you're in a long-term relationship, people feel free to judge you and assume your level of happiness and decide you're living a lie. No such rules apply to single people. Life is supposed to be perfect if you're in a relationship, and if it isn't, you should immediately dump it all overboard. If you're miserable and single, well, that's fine. Why is that?

Posted by Undine
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.click to expand

Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePieces
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
It’s that relashionships where they grow up and become older and just rolling with it...they don’t know shit is bad...they came to it graduately. They haven’t noticed. 🤦♀️
How can you not notice not having sex? Or that you don’t want to sleep in the same bed? 🤦♀️ You accept being roommates not lovers?
Life gets busy, attention paid to kids, so its difficult but this is just ignoring problems. And the example for kids? Do we ever think about that?
Here they don’t have kids. Just a dig and she is spade so no parents ducking example needed! 😂😂😂
Jeez!!!!! They must like being miserable!click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by GemitatiPosted by PuzzlePieces
Why do people stay together like this? Yikes.
Sexless marriage & separate bedrooms? I do NOT understand. Sounds like misery.
It’s that relashionships where they grow up and become older and just rolling with it...they don’t know shit is bad...they came to it graduately. They haven’t noticed. 🤦♀️
How can you not notice not having sex? Or that you don’t want to sleep in the same bed? 🤦♀️ You accept being roommates not lovers?
Life gets busy, attention paid to kids, so its difficult but this is just ignoring problems. And the example for kids? Do we ever think about that?
Here they don’t have kids. Just a dig and she is spade so no parents ducking example needed! 😂😂😂
Jeez!!!!! They must like being miserable!
Being younger it was fun but now - not anymore. They are just living their lives. Working and eating...click to expand

Posted by Undine
"When me and her were both like...our men are treetrunked up...we were a team!
Now I am moving to the different life and she is still going to be there because...idk...it’s just the way it is! "
Maybe your example will spark her desire to break up with old habits and start a new life!

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.
I guess you don’t have close friends...
Of course, I do. My friends and I joke about sex and allude to it occasionally, but there are few to no details. I guess they're all getting enough not to complain. lol
Anyway, I presume just the woman told you this ages ago? I still can't imagine a conversation where you interrogate your two friends who are a couple about their sex life and sleeping arrangements.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.
I guess you don’t have close friends...
Of course, I do. My friends and I joke about sex and allude to it occasionally, but there are few to no details. I guess they're all getting enough not to complain. lol
Anyway, I presume just the woman told you this ages ago? I still can't imagine a conversation where you interrogate your two friends who are a couple about their sex life and sleeping arrangements.
What’s wrong with talking about that?
We aren’t talking about his zick size or anything like that...
Are you telling me that you really sat with this married couple and discussed their sex life with them? That's just not something that I can imagine happening with any of my friends, family, or acquaintances. lolclick to expand


Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.
I guess you don’t have close friends...
Of course, I do. My friends and I joke about sex and allude to it occasionally, but there are few to no details. I guess they're all getting enough not to complain. lol
Anyway, I presume just the woman told you this ages ago? I still can't imagine a conversation where you interrogate your two friends who are a couple about their sex life and sleeping arrangements.
What’s wrong with talking about that?
We aren’t talking about his zick size or anything like that...
Are you telling me that you really sat with this married couple and discussed their sex life with them? That's just not something that I can imagine happening with any of my friends, family, or acquaintances. lol
Yes. We just sitting eating and talking and she said you should see his bedroom! It’s a mess! I am glad i am in mine and keeping it neat...
So what’s wrong with that conversation?
Nothing, but if that's as far as the conversation went, you're assuming an awful lot about them from that. Maybe he goes to her room to fuck.
https://media3.giphy.com/media/8GclDP2l4qbx6/giphy.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.
I guess you don’t have close friends...
Of course, I do. My friends and I joke about sex and allude to it occasionally, but there are few to no details. I guess they're all getting enough not to complain. lol
Anyway, I presume just the woman told you this ages ago? I still can't imagine a conversation where you interrogate your two friends who are a couple about their sex life and sleeping arrangements.
What’s wrong with talking about that?
We aren’t talking about his zick size or anything like that...
Are you telling me that you really sat with this married couple and discussed their sex life with them? That's just not something that I can imagine happening with any of my friends, family, or acquaintances. lol
Yes. We just sitting eating and talking and she said you should see his bedroom! It’s a mess! I am glad i am in mine and keeping it neat...
So what’s wrong with that conversation?
Nothing, but if that's as far as the conversation went, you're assuming an awful lot about them from that. Maybe he goes to her room to fuck.
She said to me a king time ago that part of their lives was shut.
That's pretty sad. I guess it happens.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.
I guess you don’t have close friends...
Of course, I do. My friends and I joke about sex and allude to it occasionally, but there are few to no details. I guess they're all getting enough not to complain. lol
Anyway, I presume just the woman told you this ages ago? I still can't imagine a conversation where you interrogate your two friends who are a couple about their sex life and sleeping arrangements.
What’s wrong with talking about that?
We aren’t talking about his zick size or anything like that...
Are you telling me that you really sat with this married couple and discussed their sex life with them? That's just not something that I can imagine happening with any of my friends, family, or acquaintances. lol
Yes. We just sitting eating and talking and she said you should see his bedroom! It’s a mess! I am glad i am in mine and keeping it neat...
So what’s wrong with that conversation?
Nothing, but if that's as far as the conversation went, you're assuming an awful lot about them from that. Maybe he goes to her room to fuck.
She said to me a king time ago that part of their lives was shut.
That's pretty sad. I guess it happens.
It happens to a lot of couples....same ol same ol....
Intimacy replaces mystery when you're intimate for a long time. It's true. It's never made my sex life boring, though. If anything, we're freer and more open because we have nothing to prove.click to expand

Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Undine
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....
It is relevant. Desire for sex doesn’t go away cuz you hit 50. If you’re not having it, it is either a sign something is wrong in the relationship or there is a medical physical reason and there are still ways to show you desire each other. It is just one part of a relationship.. but it is a part.click to expand

Posted by UndinePosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Undine
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....
It is relevant. Desire for sex doesn’t go away cuz you hit 50. If you’re not having it, it is either a sign something is wrong in the relationship or there is a medical physical reason and there are still ways to show you desire each other. It is just one part of a relationship.. but it is a part.
We are not our sex bits. They play a role for a limited time in our lives. When you realize it was just a small part of your life (and many other people's life), you will be free, happy and complete. Don't bullshit yourself into believing that you desperately need a dick up your cunt to feel "normal".click to expand

Posted by UndinePosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Undine
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....
It is relevant. Desire for sex doesn’t go away cuz you hit 50. If you’re not having it, it is either a sign something is wrong in the relationship or there is a medical physical reason and there are still ways to show you desire each other. It is just one part of a relationship.. but it is a part.
We are not our sex bits. They play a role for a limited time in our lives. When you realize it was just a small part of your life (and many other people's life), you will be free, happy and complete. Don't bullshit yourself into believing that you desperately need a dick up your cunt to feel "normal".click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by UndinePosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Undine
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....
It is relevant. Desire for sex doesn’t go away cuz you hit 50. If you’re not having it, it is either a sign something is wrong in the relationship or there is a medical physical reason and there are still ways to show you desire each other. It is just one part of a relationship.. but it is a part.
We are not our sex bits. They play a role for a limited time in our lives. When you realize it was just a small part of your life (and many other people's life), you will be free, happy and complete. Don't bullshit yourself into believing that you desperately need a dick up your cunt to feel "normal".
I think those who don’t have sex living life and it’s not life and death matter.
I’ve been on all ends of sex life.
And let me tell you - no bullshit - not having sex with your partner makes union become a warm death...
Those who lost sexual desire are just living...
Those in love are thriving.
Both are livings but different quality.click to expand


Posted by Undine
Sex is just an animalic way to scratch an itch. When the itch is gone....there is freedom. One itch less!
No matter how you try to embellish it...it is what it is. Two ugly genitalia rubbing each other. A heavy, dog-like panting. Some excretion.
When you could have had afternoon tea and cake and discussed the potential war with Iran instead!

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Undine
Sex is just an animalic way to scratch an itch. When the itch is gone....there is freedom. One itch less!
No matter how you try to embellish it...it is what it is. Two ugly genitalia rubbing each other. A heavy, dog-like panting. Some excretion.
When you could have had afternoon tea and cake and discussed the potential war with Iran instead!
What about tantric sex?click to expand

Posted by UndinePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Undine
Sex is just an animalic way to scratch an itch. When the itch is gone....there is freedom. One itch less!
No matter how you try to embellish it...it is what it is. Two ugly genitalia rubbing each other. A heavy, dog-like panting. Some excretion.
When you could have had afternoon tea and cake and discussed the potential war with Iran instead!
What about tantric sex?
It's sex while half asleep :-)!click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by UndinePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Undine
Sex is just an animalic way to scratch an itch. When the itch is gone....there is freedom. One itch less!
No matter how you try to embellish it...it is what it is. Two ugly genitalia rubbing each other. A heavy, dog-like panting. Some excretion.
When you could have had afternoon tea and cake and discussed the potential war with Iran instead!
What about tantric sex?
It's sex while half asleep :-)!
Haha Undine.....sounds like an option especially if they're grunting 😆click to expand

Posted by UndinePosted by GemitatiPosted by UndinePosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Undine
On the other hand, the idea that having sex is somewhat relevant for a good relationship once you hit the 50ies shows that some people are really stuck in the past....
It is relevant. Desire for sex doesn’t go away cuz you hit 50. If you’re not having it, it is either a sign something is wrong in the relationship or there is a medical physical reason and there are still ways to show you desire each other. It is just one part of a relationship.. but it is a part.
We are not our sex bits. They play a role for a limited time in our lives. When you realize it was just a small part of your life (and many other people's life), you will be free, happy and complete. Don't bullshit yourself into believing that you desperately need a dick up your cunt to feel "normal".
I think those who don’t have sex living life and it’s not life and death matter.
I’ve been on all ends of sex life.
And let me tell you - no bullshit - not having sex with your partner makes union become a warm death...
Those who lost sexual desire are just living...
Those in love are thriving.
Both are livings but different quality.
Most older couples I know are "in love" but have no desire to rub genitalia (apart from their own, I suppose :-)).
They thrive by doing many other things together, things which built memories.click to expand
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Then me and ex opened business and we couldn’t party with them anymore.
They were upset thought they had plenty of other friends...we were like the same...those were occasionally the same...
Today I went to see them alone for the first time after...years.
Yeah...I am with new bf and having a new life and they are still boiling in now sexless marriage of 30 years.
They both ages non gracefully.
Yelling at each other to the point of me being uncomfortable BUT they did before and it was ok but now it’s not ok for me...I was sad. She said he is mostly ok. They live in separate rooms. She is taking orders for food. Serving. Being pissed...arguing about small shit...
It’s always been like that but it was funny.
Now when I am in a different mode - it’s kind of fucked up!
When me and her were both like...our men are fucked up...we were a team!
Now I am moving to the different life and she is still going to be there because...idk...it’s just the way it is!
Do these long marriages worth shit?
I don’t know...
I am really upset I even yelled at Uber driver. He was an asshole with a bad phone...whatever...