If a guy asks to cook you dinner at his house and then take you out to a movie on the first date is this a red flag? Should first dates be in public only?
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Depends...do you know him, a friend, coworker, etc... or just met him at the mall and asked you on a date?
Posted by GreenteaCoworker
Depends...do you know him, a friend, coworker, etc... or just met him at the mall and asked you on a date?
Posted by YellowSubmarineIts part at his home part at the movie theater so half and half
I always suggest public in response to that and if they refuse, THAT is a red flag.
Posted by KittenLaRougeWell I'm treating my scorp guy/coworker to dinner at my place tomorrow night. We've known eachother for a couple years now amd started seeing eachother. Although this is our first official "date" away from work or work functions. We have lunch often and he always pays, so I wamt to do something nice.Posted by GreenteaCoworker
Depends...do you know him, a friend, coworker, etc... or just met him at the mall and asked you on a date?click to expand
I don't think it's such a bad thing, since he's not a stranger.
He doesn't have a TV?
Posted by Vixen2Agreed
I don't think it's weird if he is a co- worker.
Posted by LillyPetalThis is a date not netflix and chill lol
He doesn't have a TV?
Posted by YellowSubmarineBeen looking at each other 4 2 months just met 3 days agoPosted by KittenLaRougeOk, then it's different.. Then I'd say go by how well you know him.Posted by GreenteaCoworker
Depends...do you know him, a friend, coworker, etc... or just met him at the mall and asked you on a date?click to expand
Posted by YellowSubmarineGoogly eyes at each other til he introduced himselfPosted by KittenLaRougeLooking at each other?Posted by YellowSubmarineBeen looking at each other 4 2 months just met 3 days agoPosted by KittenLaRougeOk, then it's different.. Then I'd say go by how well you know him.Posted by GreenteaCoworker
Depends...do you know him, a friend, coworker, etc... or just met him at the mall and asked you on a date?click to expand
Posted by LuckyLibra979Not fucking on the first date
Eat his dinner and let him fuck. At least he's nice enough to cook u dinner. I don't do first dates until after I'm at home plate
Posted by DonJohnsonDo u think fucking on first date makes you disrespect a girl?
chilvry became dead when ladies became sloots. feminism came first.
Posted by DonJohnsonNot all women do this these relationships dont last
chilvry became dead when ladies became sloots. feminism came first.
Posted by LuckyLibra979Thats different ive only known him 3 daysPosted by KittenLaRougeWhat if you've known the person for months but y'all have never been on a date?Posted by LuckyLibra979Not fucking on the first date
Eat his dinner and let him fuck. At least he's nice enough to cook u dinner. I don't do first dates until after I'm at home plateclick to expand
"I wonder how many calories bitches burn by jumping to conclusions"
red flag for what precisely? getting murdered, getting fucked?
because you never had qualms about the latter with stories with men on dxp so...what is this red flag you're concerned about?
are you concerned it might just be dinner at his place and a movie out? in that case, yeah i think it's a red flag.
because you never had qualms about the latter with stories with men on dxp so...what is this red flag you're concerned about?
are you concerned it might just be dinner at his place and a movie out? in that case, yeah i think it's a red flag.
I like the sophistication of this man...
Heal first...then Netflix.
Heal first...then Netflix.
Posted by BlackNovasag omg hell no! gemniPosted by KittenLaRougeDepends, if he's a Sag dude first date should be public, cos he will hit that ass and you'll be cumming and squealing for hours and prolly miss that movie
If a guy asks to cook you dinner at his house and then take you out to a movie on the first date is this a red flag? Should first dates be in public only?
you be like....movie?? what movie?.....what's for dessert, babe?click to expand
Posted by Damnatahuh?
I like the sophistication of this man...
Heal first...then Netflix.
Posted by LuckyLibra979Agreed
Eat his dinner and let him fuck. At least he's nice enough to cook u dinner. I don't do first dates until after I'm at home plate
if he cooks, he deserves at least a blowjob, that's common courtesy
Posted by YellowSubmarineIdk, I might be projecting here but I don't see first dates at someone's place as dates. The lack of effort to find something worthwhile to do outside spells a different picture for me.Posted by hydorahon a first fucking date? do you guys get women to actually do this? I mean, this is a date, not a tinder meet-up.Posted by LuckyLibra979Agreed
Eat his dinner and let him fuck. At least he's nice enough to cook u dinner. I don't do first dates until after I'm at home plate
if he cooks, he deserves at least a blowjob, that's common courtesy
I'm genuinely asking, I'm not trying to be facetious.click to expand
I guess it depends on the dynamic too.
For me, if I invite you over on a first date...we're not really dating. I don't even formulate it as a date..you'll get the correct meaning really quick.
For me, if I invite you over on a first date...we're not really dating. I don't even formulate it as a date..you'll get the correct meaning really quick.
Roll with the pubches. I have gotten into bed on a girst date before. I also gotten into bed on like 6th date before as well, depending on the guy.
Neither of those relationships were doomed by either of those actions, and ended for other reasons.
Shocker.
Neither of those relationships were doomed by either of those actions, and ended for other reasons.
Shocker.
Posted by YellowSubmarineTo me it shows lack of effort. So I'd take it as basically a one night stand and would not see more into it.Posted by DamnataYeah, it's about the dynamic really, for me.. I mean, the majority of my boyfriends were my friends first so the official "first date" wasn't always a big deal, and I kinda like the lack of formality.
I guess it depends on the dynamic too.
For me, if I invite you over on a first date...we're not really dating. I don't even formulate it as a date..you'll get the correct meaning really quick.
But with someone I don't know at all.. it just doesn't feel right. It's not about sex or getting killed, it just doesn't feel right.. it's sort of forcing a level of comfort that just isn't there yet, on my end at least.
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Don't have sex with him until you "date". That could be a set up. Things go really wel . You have sex and then there is no date.
Honest to God's truth. I had a similar situation. We were supposed to go on a date. She came to my house ... was all giggly and shy. I already knew she liked me. She couldn't even talk. Within 5 mins we were all over each other. ( I didn't even want that). I actually wanted to get to know her...
Honest to God's truth. I had a similar situation. We were supposed to go on a date. She came to my house ... was all giggly and shy. I already knew she liked me. She couldn't even talk. Within 5 mins we were all over each other. ( I didn't even want that). I actually wanted to get to know her...
Posted by LuckyLibra979It is when there is an actual person with feelings and a desire to get to know someone, you stupid fuck.Posted by hydorahThats what I'm saying!!! Is that too much to ask?Posted by LuckyLibra979Agreed
Eat his dinner and let him fuck. At least he's nice enough to cook u dinner. I don't do first dates until after I'm at home plate
if he cooks, he deserves at least a blowjob, that's common courtesyclick to expand
Niggas like you make women hate dick
Posted by LuckyLibra979How has that worked for you thus far?Posted by Vixen2I like to get to the essentials first before I spoil emPosted by LuckyLibra979whut!?!
Eat his dinner and let him fuck. At least he's nice enough to cook u dinner. I don't do first dates until after I'm at home plateclick to expand
Posted by KittenLaRougeThen why go to his place at all for a first "date"? Sounds like a version of IMAX and Chill to me. The imbalance in control bothers me - he has home court advantage.Posted by LillyPetalThis is a date not netflix and chill lol
He doesn't have a TV?click to expand
Posted by frostey91When a man and woman who are mildly attracted to each other have the luxury of privacy - things happen. All it takes it one tiny gesture to catalyze the entire (s)hebang.
Don't have sex with him until you "date". That could be a set up. Things go really wel . You have sex and then there is no date.
Honest to God's truth. I had a similar situation. We were supposed to go on a date. She came to my house ... was all giggly and shy. I already knew she liked me. She couldn't even talk. Within 5 mins we were all over each other. ( I didn't even want that). I actually wanted to get to know her...
Being co-workers doesn't mean you know him well enough to invite him into your home. I would date in a public place first. ijs
*correction - I wouldn't go to his place. * Fixed
Posted by KittenLaRougeShoulda like a "Netflix and chill" kinda night
If a guy asks to cook you dinner at his house and then take you out to a movie on the first date is this a red flag? Should first dates be in public only?
Posted by KittenLaRougeI have Taurus Mars but I don't move that damn slow. Jk.Posted by YellowSubmarineBeen looking at each other 4 2 months just met 3 days agoPosted by KittenLaRougeOk, then it's different.. Then I'd say go by how well you know him.Posted by GreenteaCoworker
Depends...do you know him, a friend, coworker, etc... or just met him at the mall and asked you on a date?click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptune*soundsPosted by KittenLaRougeShoulda like a "Netflix and chill" kinda night
If a guy asks to cook you dinner at his house and then take you out to a movie on the first date is this a red flag? Should first dates be in public only?click to expand
I went to college
Posted by RamOfPeaceThis quote should be framed. Every Kitten La Rouge thread I have read which like 3, is beyond a hilarious. I respect her because she is a Cap and wants help but she attracts the strongest trolls.
"I wonder how many calories bitches burn by jumping to conclusions"
Posted by AquaCancerMoonShazam...
Being co-workers doesn't mean you know him well enough to invite him into your home. I would date in a public place first. ijs
Posted by Magenta_Azure/dead 😆Posted by LuckyLibra979It is when there is an actual person with feelings and a desire to get to know someone, you stupid fuck.Posted by hydorahThats what I'm saying!!! Is that too much to ask?Posted by LuckyLibra979Agreed
Eat his dinner and let him fuck. At least he's nice enough to cook u dinner. I don't do first dates until after I'm at home plate
if he cooks, he deserves at least a blowjob, that's common courtesy
Niggas like you make women hate dickclick to expand
Actually I think going on first date and he cooks dinner for you at his home, sounds just wonderful. I would love to do it to my first date too, may be that's just because am a Taurus.
Well looking at these replies kinda feel that these days really hard to find someone with genuine intention. Its actually a very sincere gesture to cook for you because it means he wants to make it special & not just spending cash to buy a meal for you. Well it has to depend on the type of guy. For me i will do this if i like her a lot, its not about treetrunking that person. You have to judge whether he's a good person though & not just aiming to treetrunk because well anything can happen in private. If you are not confident, just go public.
Posted by Angmoduriantotally agree
Well looking at these replies kinda feel that these days really hard to find someone with genuine intention. Its actually a very sincere gesture to cook for you because it means he wants to make it special & not just spending cash to buy a meal for you. .
Posted by LuckyLibra979LmfaoPosted by Magenta_AzureShrugs. Hoes like you are for everybodyPosted by LuckyLibra979It is when there is an actual person with feelings and a desire to get to know someone, you stupid fuck.Posted by hydorahThats what I'm saying!!! Is that too much to ask?Posted by LuckyLibra979Agreed
Eat his dinner and let him fuck. At least he's nice enough to cook u dinner. I don't do first dates until after I'm at home plate
if he cooks, he deserves at least a blowjob, that's common courtesy
Niggas like you make women hate dickclick to expand
Bitch.
How quickly you have sex literally depends on the people. I'll just leave it at that. I feel like you shouldn't be a man whore or whore and you shouldn't always hold out. Sometimes you need to get frisky!!!!
In this situation HOLD OFF ON SEX!!!
You gotta think about the workplace environment.
OP I'm pretty sure you made a thread about another co-worker you hooked up with and it was a disaster.
In this situation HOLD OFF ON SEX!!!
You gotta think about the workplace environment.
OP I'm pretty sure you made a thread about another co-worker you hooked up with and it was a disaster.
Shit, first date is the bedroom. Aint got time for small talk till after sex.
You can cook after sex cause thats when i will be hungry and ready to actually hear what u have to say
in the case of chickenlarouge, sex mean she is pegging the man for hours, so better to avoid sex on the first date maybe?
Posted by starloverSex is actually how i get to know someone and if we aint compatible in the bedroom, theres no need for us to continue.Posted by DMVReally?
Shit, first date is the bedroom. Aint got time for small talk till after sex.
What about getting to know each other first...why rush?click to expand
Ive never been a fan of candlelight dinners, movies. Its all pomp and circumstance. I like to get to the meat of a person.
Maybe its my pluto in the 5th. Regular dating isnt for me.
Wait a minute, there are women out there who dont suck dick?
I thought it was a South thing. Southern belles be scared of a mouth full sausage
I thought it was a South thing. Southern belles be scared of a mouth full sausage
Posted by starloverThat happened with a sag, cap moon. 3 dates and only a kiss.
...and what if the guy wanted to wait a while?
I was super bored and felt like i didnt know him. I felt very disconnected emotionally.
I broke it off
Posted by starloverNo. RespectPosted by DMVSo is sex the most important thing in a relationship to you DMV?Posted by starloverThat happened with a sag, cap moon. 3 dates and only a kiss.
...and what if the guy wanted to wait a while?
I was super bored and felt like i didnt know him. I felt very disconnected emotionally.
I broke it offclick to expand
Posted by KittenLaRougeCoworker is fine. Just send emails to everyone in the company so they know where you went. 🙂Posted by YellowSubmarineIts part at his home part at the movie theater so half and half
I always suggest public in response to that and if they refuse, THAT is a red flag.click to expand
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