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yeah like what libra4rmTX and imperfectStorm have said, focus on what's going right and finding possible solutions (if you can't think of any solutions that yield huge quick results, start by doing small things that will get you closer to your ideal life)

and focusing on the positive in your life doesn't mean you give up on your hopes and dreams, but you're just choosing to feel peaceful over feeling chaotic or depressed WHILE you're waiting for what you want to materialize.

life is full of moments where you have to wait for what you want to come to fruition. i know it sucks... :/

but that's just how it is sometimes. hang in there.
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and as far as things not measuring up to what you want, maybe the universe has more awesome stuff in store for you and maybe it'll happen in a slightly different way than you think. i used to wanna control outcomes to things but now i just tell the universe, (or god if you believe in that) "if you got better plans for me than the one i'm thinking of, surprise me" lol
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Do you just ever think fuck my life?

I feel like that often, I know what I want and I am at peace with myself but fml .. it’s not measuring up to what I feel I want


Find my yesterday thread. Read last page. Or reach out to MyStarShine and Dastard2020

You might be having same shit I am dealing with.

Heavy planets game.

But if not that - I don’t know how old are you hon, but your thing is you are trying to get that man. Apparently your life isn’t full at the moment because you are chasing a Ram and worry about it.

But let me tell you from my experience is that some people are born with happy gene. And I am not. So those moments of ‘happy’ in MY life were far few and between. Thinking of why - I don’t know. I have not much to complain about. Maybe really nothing BUT I don’t feel ‘happy’ like some people are totally bouncing off the walls being perky and active in community and annoying! 😂😂😂

I thought about it a lot! Then after analyzing A LOT of people I had come to conclusion - it’s that ‘happy gene’. Have you ever seen a homeless person totally ok with life and smiling and pretty well dressed person with ‘I’ll wish I was dead’ grimace in their face? Yes! So do you undertand what I am saying?

I am saying that my conclusion that makes me goi g and cope with life is

My Happiness is an absence of grieving.

I said to myself I am a very Blessed person and this is the way I am wired that I am the way I am!

I AM actually very different and happy when I am in love! Makes me alive. I hope that Aries will lift your spirit and makes you fly around and stop FML thinking for a while. But mind you - that happy gene needs to be well oiled and hope you can do that. 🤝
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yeah when i messed up this date not too long ago with a leo but mehh he needs someone more sociable 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ so we wouldn't have made it, anyway 😬😬

i'm mostly at peace with these things coz i figured, there are things we're not meant for really.

used to be i'd spend $ 50 on claw machine prizes worth $ 5 but now i lose $ 5 and i'm backing off. better just scout for vintage comics instead of this BS.
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yeah when i messed up this date not too long ago with a leo but mehh he needs someone more sociable 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ so we wouldn't have made it, anyway 😬😬

i'm mostly at peace with these things coz i figured, there are things we're not meant for really.

used to be i'd spend $ 50 on claw machine prizes worth $ 5 but now i lose $ 5 and i'm backing off. better just scout for vintage comics instead of this BS.


So that Leo guy never called you back, huh? You should have at least kissed him. I guarantee he’d be calling every day.
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yeah when i messed up this date not too long ago with a leo but mehh he needs someone more sociable 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ so we wouldn't have made it, anyway 😬😬

i'm mostly at peace with these things coz i figured, there are things we're not meant for really.

used to be i'd spend $ 50 on claw machine prizes worth $ 5 but now i lose $ 5 and i'm backing off. better just scout for vintage comics instead of this BS.

So that Leo guy never called you back, huh? You should have at least kissed him. I guarantee he’d be calling every day.
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it was the most awkward kiss. was my fault tbh but moving on lol guess it's just not happening 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

he did buy me a thailand trip tho so i'm prob just gonna give it to my aunt. i felt like maybe he thought i'm not reciprocating. i always get that complaint, that i never seem interested enough. like when we were getting into our seats to watch morbius, he acted like it's weird how i didn't try to get the ticket from him like as a memento of our time together.

like dude i was too nervous to even look at you to function in anywhere else. we're not gonna make it. my dates with aries men from few years ago feel the same way tbh.
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yeah when i messed up this date not too long ago with a leo but mehh he needs someone more sociable 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ so we wouldn't have made it, anyway 😬😬

i'm mostly at peace with these things coz i figured, there are things we're not meant for really.

used to be i'd spend $ 50 on claw machine prizes worth $ 5 but now i lose $ 5 and i'm backing off. better just scout for vintage comics instead of this BS.

So that Leo guy never called you back, huh? You should have at least kissed him. I guarantee he’d be calling every day.

it was the most awkward kiss. was my fault tbh but moving on lol guess it's just not happening 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

he did buy me a thailand trip tho so i'm prob just gonna give it to my aunt. i felt like maybe he thought i'm not reciprocating. i always get that complaint, that i never seem interested enough. like when we were getting into our seats to watch morbius, he acted like it's weird how i didn't try to get the ticket from him like as a memento of our time together.

like dude i was too nervous to even look at you to function in anywhere else. we're not gonna make it. my dates with aries men from few years ago feel the same way tbh.
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Honey, if you want a fire sign man, you have to be able to match their passion. You also have to be confident and a bit arrogant. But sweet when needed. It’s a fine balance of a bad girl and a good girl.

Practice the art of good eye contact. And improve your kissing game. How old are you about?
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yeah when i messed up this date not too long ago with a leo but mehh he needs someone more sociable 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ so we wouldn't have made it, anyway 😬😬

i'm mostly at peace with these things coz i figured, there are things we're not meant for really.

used to be i'd spend $ 50 on claw machine prizes worth $ 5 but now i lose $ 5 and i'm backing off. better just scout for vintage comics instead of this BS.

So that Leo guy never called you back, huh? You should have at least kissed him. I guarantee he’d be calling every day.

it was the most awkward kiss. was my fault tbh but moving on lol guess it's just not happening 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

he did buy me a thailand trip tho so i'm prob just gonna give it to my aunt. i felt like maybe he thought i'm not reciprocating. i always get that complaint, that i never seem interested enough. like when we were getting into our seats to watch morbius, he acted like it's weird how i didn't try to get the ticket from him like as a memento of our time together.

like dude i was too nervous to even look at you to function in anywhere else. we're not gonna make it. my dates with aries men from few years ago feel the same way tbh.

Honey, if you want a fire sign man, you have to be able to match their passion. You also have to be confident and a bit arrogant. But sweet when needed. It’s a fine balance of a bad girl and a good girl.

Practice the art of good eye contact. And improve your kissing game. How old are you about?
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i once had this leo chase me in the past but he made me wear outfits that i wasn't very confident in. but he was so supportive and didn't make me feel bad tho. the impression i got was that he got tired of how he seemed to be doing the most work. he was always sending pics, always initiating, i never seemed to be looking for him while he was always trying to make contact with my dumb self taking forever to reply to anything. that's why i think they're (fire) so high-maintenance, like i can't keep up.

i'm 28 and i won't say i'm a bad kisser but was just really nervous that day. i was trying to go for his cheek.
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yeah when i messed up this date not too long ago with a leo but mehh he needs someone more sociable 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ so we wouldn't have made it, anyway 😬😬

i'm mostly at peace with these things coz i figured, there are things we're not meant for really.

used to be i'd spend $ 50 on claw machine prizes worth $ 5 but now i lose $ 5 and i'm backing off. better just scout for vintage comics instead of this BS.

So that Leo guy never called you back, huh? You should have at least kissed him. I guarantee he’d be calling every day.

it was the most awkward kiss. was my fault tbh but moving on lol guess it's just not happening 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

he did buy me a thailand trip tho so i'm prob just gonna give it to my aunt. i felt like maybe he thought i'm not reciprocating. i always get that complaint, that i never seem interested enough. like when we were getting into our seats to watch morbius, he acted like it's weird how i didn't try to get the ticket from him like as a memento of our time together.

like dude i was too nervous to even look at you to function in anywhere else. we're not gonna make it. my dates with aries men from few years ago feel the same way tbh.

Honey, if you want a fire sign man, you have to be able to match their passion. You also have to be confident and a bit arrogant. But sweet when needed. It’s a fine balance of a bad girl and a good girl.

Practice the art of good eye contact. And improve your kissing game. How old are you about?

i once had this leo chase me in the past but he made me wear outfits that i wasn't very confident in. but he was so supportive and didn't make me feel bad tho. the impression i got was that he got tired of how he seemed to be doing the most work. he was always sending pics, always initiating, i never seemed to be looking for him while he was always trying to make contact with my dumb self taking forever to reply to anything. that's why i think they're (fire) so high-maintenance, like i can't keep up.

i'm 28 and i won't say i'm a bad kisser but was just really nervous that day. i was trying to go for his cheek.
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Yeah, Leo men do have a bit of exhibitionists and voayerism tendencies. Nothing clinical, just a kink. They like arm candy. A woman who will look good next to them. But like you said, they will not make you feel bad. They are genuinely good guys and that’s what made me fall in love with one. Despite hot chemistry and fun, I actually fell for the heart. They are considerate and generous and thoughtful. Like, when I had my period my Leo would let me rest and made me tea. I appreciated that so much.

But you have to be able to reciprocate and show that you like them too. After all, their ego needs it.

You seem like a good girl and you are definitely not too young. Now is the time to let go of nervousness. What is causing it anyway? Do you have generalized anxiety disorder?
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yeah when i messed up this date not too long ago with a leo but mehh he needs someone more sociable 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ so we wouldn't have made it, anyway 😬😬

i'm mostly at peace with these things coz i figured, there are things we're not meant for really.

used to be i'd spend $ 50 on claw machine prizes worth $ 5 but now i lose $ 5 and i'm backing off. better just scout for vintage comics instead of this BS.

So that Leo guy never called you back, huh? You should have at least kissed him. I guarantee he’d be calling every day.

it was the most awkward kiss. was my fault tbh but moving on lol guess it's just not happening 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

he did buy me a thailand trip tho so i'm prob just gonna give it to my aunt. i felt like maybe he thought i'm not reciprocating. i always get that complaint, that i never seem interested enough. like when we were getting into our seats to watch morbius, he acted like it's weird how i didn't try to get the ticket from him like as a memento of our time together.

like dude i was too nervous to even look at you to function in anywhere else. we're not gonna make it. my dates with aries men from few years ago feel the same way tbh.

Honey, if you want a fire sign man, you have to be able to match their passion. You also have to be confident and a bit arrogant. But sweet when needed. It’s a fine balance of a bad girl and a good girl.

Practice the art of good eye contact. And improve your kissing game. How old are you about?

i once had this leo chase me in the past but he made me wear outfits that i wasn't very confident in. but he was so supportive and didn't make me feel bad tho. the impression i got was that he got tired of how he seemed to be doing the most work. he was always sending pics, always initiating, i never seemed to be looking for him while he was always trying to make contact with my dumb self taking forever to reply to anything. that's why i think they're (fire) so high-maintenance, like i can't keep up.

i'm 28 and i won't say i'm a bad kisser but was just really nervous that day. i was trying to go for his cheek.

Yeah, Leo men do have a bit of exhibitionists and voayerism tendencies. Nothing clinical, just a kink. They like arm candy. A woman who will look good next to them. But like you said, they will not make you feel bad. They are genuinely good guys and that’s what made me fall in love with one. Despite hot chemistry and fun, I actually fell for the heart. They are considerate and generous and thoughtful. Like, when I had my period my Leo would let me rest and made me tea. I appreciated that so much.

But you have to be able to reciprocate and show that you like them too. After all, their ego needs it.

You seem like a good girl and you are definitely not too young. Now is the time to let go of nervousness. What is causing it anyway? Do you have generalized anxiety disorder?
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they seem like wonderful men 😍😍

a leo guy is chasing this virgo girl at work too and i caught her giggling about it. but she always acted chill like she didn't care but she always accepted all his invitations. maybe i should ask her how he knows she's interested coz he is not giving up.

well, i'm a virgo so some anxiety comes with the package. i've done well with cap energies or pisces energies. they don't seem to rush and can always tell that beyond it all, i am very interested.
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yeah when i messed up this date not too long ago with a leo but mehh he needs someone more sociable 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ so we wouldn't have made it, anyway 😬😬

i'm mostly at peace with these things coz i figured, there are things we're not meant for really.

used to be i'd spend $ 50 on claw machine prizes worth $ 5 but now i lose $ 5 and i'm backing off. better just scout for vintage comics instead of this BS.

So that Leo guy never called you back, huh? You should have at least kissed him. I guarantee he’d be calling every day.

it was the most awkward kiss. was my fault tbh but moving on lol guess it's just not happening 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

he did buy me a thailand trip tho so i'm prob just gonna give it to my aunt. i felt like maybe he thought i'm not reciprocating. i always get that complaint, that i never seem interested enough. like when we were getting into our seats to watch morbius, he acted like it's weird how i didn't try to get the ticket from him like as a memento of our time together.

like dude i was too nervous to even look at you to function in anywhere else. we're not gonna make it. my dates with aries men from few years ago feel the same way tbh.

Honey, if you want a fire sign man, you have to be able to match their passion. You also have to be confident and a bit arrogant. But sweet when needed. It’s a fine balance of a bad girl and a good girl.

Practice the art of good eye contact. And improve your kissing game. How old are you about?

i once had this leo chase me in the past but he made me wear outfits that i wasn't very confident in. but he was so supportive and didn't make me feel bad tho. the impression i got was that he got tired of how he seemed to be doing the most work. he was always sending pics, always initiating, i never seemed to be looking for him while he was always trying to make contact with my dumb self taking forever to reply to anything. that's why i think they're (fire) so high-maintenance, like i can't keep up.

i'm 28 and i won't say i'm a bad kisser but was just really nervous that day. i was trying to go for his cheek.

Yeah, Leo men do have a bit of exhibitionists and voayerism tendencies. Nothing clinical, just a kink. They like arm candy. A woman who will look good next to them. But like you said, they will not make you feel bad. They are genuinely good guys and that’s what made me fall in love with one. Despite hot chemistry and fun, I actually fell for the heart. They are considerate and generous and thoughtful. Like, when I had my period my Leo would let me rest and made me tea. I appreciated that so much.

But you have to be able to reciprocate and show that you like them too. After all, their ego needs it.

You seem like a good girl and you are definitely not too young. Now is the time to let go of nervousness. What is causing it anyway? Do you have generalized anxiety disorder?

they seem like wonderful men 😍😍

a leo guy is chasing this virgo girl at work too and i caught her giggling about it. but she always acted chill like she didn't care but she always accepted all his invitations. maybe i should ask her how he knows she's interested coz he is not giving up.

well, i'm a virgo so some anxiety comes with the package. i've done well with cap energies or pisces energies. they don't seem to rush and can always tell that beyond it all, i am very interested.
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You might be too intellectual for fire sign guys. I mean, as a Gemini, I do see them as a bit shallow and too much action oriented. But then I have many Leo planets so they light up that fire in me that I need. I cannot deal with the aloofness.

Maybe you can share that about you with them. Obviously they like you enough to invite you out. Maybe if you are upfront, they will understand.

Just let the chemistry develop organically. I don’t think these dates should be about games and scripted.

At the end, it’s the person that matters and not their sign. You don’t discriminate guys based on astrology, do you?
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yeah when i messed up this date not too long ago with a leo but mehh he needs someone more sociable 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ so we wouldn't have made it, anyway 😬😬

i'm mostly at peace with these things coz i figured, there are things we're not meant for really.

used to be i'd spend $ 50 on claw machine prizes worth $ 5 but now i lose $ 5 and i'm backing off. better just scout for vintage comics instead of this BS.

So that Leo guy never called you back, huh? You should have at least kissed him. I guarantee he’d be calling every day.

it was the most awkward kiss. was my fault tbh but moving on lol guess it's just not happening 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

he did buy me a thailand trip tho so i'm prob just gonna give it to my aunt. i felt like maybe he thought i'm not reciprocating. i always get that complaint, that i never seem interested enough. like when we were getting into our seats to watch morbius, he acted like it's weird how i didn't try to get the ticket from him like as a memento of our time together.

like dude i was too nervous to even look at you to function in anywhere else. we're not gonna make it. my dates with aries men from few years ago feel the same way tbh.

Honey, if you want a fire sign man, you have to be able to match their passion. You also have to be confident and a bit arrogant. But sweet when needed. It’s a fine balance of a bad girl and a good girl.

Practice the art of good eye contact. And improve your kissing game. How old are you about?

i once had this leo chase me in the past but he made me wear outfits that i wasn't very confident in. but he was so supportive and didn't make me feel bad tho. the impression i got was that he got tired of how he seemed to be doing the most work. he was always sending pics, always initiating, i never seemed to be looking for him while he was always trying to make contact with my dumb self taking forever to reply to anything. that's why i think they're (fire) so high-maintenance, like i can't keep up.

i'm 28 and i won't say i'm a bad kisser but was just really nervous that day. i was trying to go for his cheek.

Yeah, Leo men do have a bit of exhibitionists and voayerism tendencies. Nothing clinical, just a kink. They like arm candy. A woman who will look good next to them. But like you said, they will not make you feel bad. They are genuinely good guys and that’s what made me fall in love with one. Despite hot chemistry and fun, I actually fell for the heart. They are considerate and generous and thoughtful. Like, when I had my period my Leo would let me rest and made me tea. I appreciated that so much.

But you have to be able to reciprocate and show that you like them too. After all, their ego needs it.

You seem like a good girl and you are definitely not too young. Now is the time to let go of nervousness. What is causing it anyway? Do you have generalized anxiety disorder?

they seem like wonderful men 😍😍

a leo guy is chasing this virgo girl at work too and i caught her giggling about it. but she always acted chill like she didn't care but she always accepted all his invitations. maybe i should ask her how he knows she's interested coz he is not giving up.

well, i'm a virgo so some anxiety comes with the package. i've done well with cap energies or pisces energies. they don't seem to rush and can always tell that beyond it all, i am very interested.

You might be too intellectual for fire sign guys. I mean, as a Gemini, I do see them as a bit shallow and too much action oriented. But then I have many Leo planets so they light up that fire in me that I need. I cannot deal with the aloofness.

Maybe you can share that about you with them. Obviously they like you enough to invite you out. Maybe if you are upfront, they will understand.

Just let the chemistry develop organically. I don’t think these dates should be about games and scripted.

At the end, it’s the person that matters and not their sign. You don’t discriminate guys based on astrology, do you?
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no i actually don't 🤔🤔

i mostly just use astrology to understand how to deal with certain people but never to shut my doors on them. also, i do well with gem moons. sometimes cancer energies too but it never lasts, i always end up offending them over something i don't even know.
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yeah when i messed up this date not too long ago with a leo but mehh he needs someone more sociable 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ so we wouldn't have made it, anyway 😬😬

i'm mostly at peace with these things coz i figured, there are things we're not meant for really.

used to be i'd spend $ 50 on claw machine prizes worth $ 5 but now i lose $ 5 and i'm backing off. better just scout for vintage comics instead of this BS.

So that Leo guy never called you back, huh? You should have at least kissed him. I guarantee he’d be calling every day.

it was the most awkward kiss. was my fault tbh but moving on lol guess it's just not happening 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

he did buy me a thailand trip tho so i'm prob just gonna give it to my aunt. i felt like maybe he thought i'm not reciprocating. i always get that complaint, that i never seem interested enough. like when we were getting into our seats to watch morbius, he acted like it's weird how i didn't try to get the ticket from him like as a memento of our time together.

like dude i was too nervous to even look at you to function in anywhere else. we're not gonna make it. my dates with aries men from few years ago feel the same way tbh.

Honey, if you want a fire sign man, you have to be able to match their passion. You also have to be confident and a bit arrogant. But sweet when needed. It’s a fine balance of a bad girl and a good girl.

Practice the art of good eye contact. And improve your kissing game. How old are you about?

i once had this leo chase me in the past but he made me wear outfits that i wasn't very confident in. but he was so supportive and didn't make me feel bad tho. the impression i got was that he got tired of how he seemed to be doing the most work. he was always sending pics, always initiating, i never seemed to be looking for him while he was always trying to make contact with my dumb self taking forever to reply to anything. that's why i think they're (fire) so high-maintenance, like i can't keep up.

i'm 28 and i won't say i'm a bad kisser but was just really nervous that day. i was trying to go for his cheek.

Yeah, Leo men do have a bit of exhibitionists and voayerism tendencies. Nothing clinical, just a kink. They like arm candy. A woman who will look good next to them. But like you said, they will not make you feel bad. They are genuinely good guys and that’s what made me fall in love with one. Despite hot chemistry and fun, I actually fell for the heart. They are considerate and generous and thoughtful. Like, when I had my period my Leo would let me rest and made me tea. I appreciated that so much.

But you have to be able to reciprocate and show that you like them too. After all, their ego needs it.

You seem like a good girl and you are definitely not too young. Now is the time to let go of nervousness. What is causing it anyway? Do you have generalized anxiety disorder?

they seem like wonderful men 😍😍

a leo guy is chasing this virgo girl at work too and i caught her giggling about it. but she always acted chill like she didn't care but she always accepted all his invitations. maybe i should ask her how he knows she's interested coz he is not giving up.

well, i'm a virgo so some anxiety comes with the package. i've done well with cap energies or pisces energies. they don't seem to rush and can always tell that beyond it all, i am very interested.

You might be too intellectual for fire sign guys. I mean, as a Gemini, I do see them as a bit shallow and too much action oriented. But then I have many Leo planets so they light up that fire in me that I need. I cannot deal with the aloofness.

Maybe you can share that about you with them. Obviously they like you enough to invite you out. Maybe if you are upfront, they will understand.

Just let the chemistry develop organically. I don’t think these dates should be about games and scripted.

At the end, it’s the person that matters and not their sign. You don’t discriminate guys based on astrology, do you?

no i actually don't 🤔🤔

i mostly just use astrology to understand how to deal with certain people but never to shut my doors on them. also, i do well with gem moons. sometimes cancer energies too but it never lasts, i always end up offending them over something i don't even know.
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You probably come as as emotionally unavailable robot to these soft cancer guys, lol.

Keep doing you, being fabulous and someone will come along. I am sure you have many qualities that attract guys. When you find one good one, focus on him. Otherwise, just date as many as you can.

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yeah when i messed up this date not too long ago with a leo but mehh he needs someone more sociable 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ so we wouldn't have made it, anyway 😬😬

i'm mostly at peace with these things coz i figured, there are things we're not meant for really.

used to be i'd spend $ 50 on claw machine prizes worth $ 5 but now i lose $ 5 and i'm backing off. better just scout for vintage comics instead of this BS.

So that Leo guy never called you back, huh? You should have at least kissed him. I guarantee he’d be calling every day.

it was the most awkward kiss. was my fault tbh but moving on lol guess it's just not happening 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

he did buy me a thailand trip tho so i'm prob just gonna give it to my aunt. i felt like maybe he thought i'm not reciprocating. i always get that complaint, that i never seem interested enough. like when we were getting into our seats to watch morbius, he acted like it's weird how i didn't try to get the ticket from him like as a memento of our time together.

like dude i was too nervous to even look at you to function in anywhere else. we're not gonna make it. my dates with aries men from few years ago feel the same way tbh.

Honey, if you want a fire sign man, you have to be able to match their passion. You also have to be confident and a bit arrogant. But sweet when needed. It’s a fine balance of a bad girl and a good girl.

Practice the art of good eye contact. And improve your kissing game. How old are you about?

i once had this leo chase me in the past but he made me wear outfits that i wasn't very confident in. but he was so supportive and didn't make me feel bad tho. the impression i got was that he got tired of how he seemed to be doing the most work. he was always sending pics, always initiating, i never seemed to be looking for him while he was always trying to make contact with my dumb self taking forever to reply to anything. that's why i think they're (fire) so high-maintenance, like i can't keep up.

i'm 28 and i won't say i'm a bad kisser but was just really nervous that day. i was trying to go for his cheek.

Always go for the mouth. A cheek is how you would kiss a granny.
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tbh i think this might be coz i'm edging to my saturn return but i've never felt more disappointed and yet so accepting of my fate. lately, things have not worked out for me. i've alienated most of my long-time friends coz i chose someone who eventually ended up cheating on me. you forgive someone and they'll just do it again. i have trouble getting pregnant and expect that most would not want a serious life with me. there's not much i feel i can bring to the table for this reason. but i've made peace with this and always let them know about it on first dates so we don't waste time. i'm just mostly hoping to date someone older or those who already have kids or don't want anymore or any at all.
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I saved this video a while back, for a day I might be feeling like “fml”, I’ll just share it here.




I get it. Appreciate the simple things..

The first week of my new job I got woken up by an intruder in my home. I live on my own with my dog. I calmly let him out the door after asking how he’d gotten in and why he was in my home. Unbeknownst to me he had my car keys and drove off in my car 🤷‍♀️ Anyway, everyone was saying all sorts of things like why I didn’t scream out etc

I said, there’s only 2 things of value in my place, my dog and I. Everything else is replaceable.

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I saved this video a while back, for a day I might be feeling like “fml”, I’ll just share it here.



I get it. Appreciate the simple things..

The first week of my new job I got woken up by an intruder in my home. I live on my own with my dog. I calmly let him out the door after asking how he’d gotten in and why he was in my home. Unbeknownst to me he had my car keys and drove off in my car 🤷‍♀️ Anyway, everyone was saying all sorts of things like why I didn’t scream out etc

I said, there’s only 2 things of value in my place, my dog and I. Everything else is replaceable.

I’m so sorry you went through that. A home invasion is a traumatic experience. Thankfully it’s never happened to me, but I can imagine the type of anxiety it could cause.

That’s absolutely right, you and your dog’s safety is most important. I’m glad to hear you two are okay.
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Yes, thanks. And that’s what I said to everyone that said why let him out. The fact that I was calm and talked to him and opened the door for him to leave kept us safe. The alternative I believe would have been much more devastating!