
Pink Bird
@pinkbird03
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Posted by rabidtalkerLol if she buys, then you buy next!
The problem I have is, if she buys me dinner, I feel obligated.

Posted by MysteriousPresenceYes I agree 100%
When it feels right for both people.

Posted by ExplicitWhy do u want to break that rule??
Lol when I'm in a committed relationship 😛
But apart of me wants to break that rule.

Posted by rabidtalkerYummmmmmmmmmm, DESSERT 😄
The problem I have is, if she buys me dinner, I feel obligated.


Posted by pinkbird03I do who i want, when i want
Wait to have sex with someone?
Is there a rule you follow?


Posted by KilgoreWell because I think you can be monogamous with one person and still be single. Which is kind of okay with me, but it's still a gray area.Posted by pinkbird03What is wrong with that word? Good you spoke up for yourself. It's hard to find the courage to do that
Thanks for everyone's advice!
The reason I am asking is because I'm confused! I had a conversation about sex with this guy I've been dating and I told him I wanted to be monogamous. He agreed to it. At first I thought that's awesome because I can trust him more and in a way he's mine. Well, then I started thinking more... Maybe this means we're going to be friends with benefits instead. I have no clue how he took it.
Gosh, I finally became brave enough to say what I want after having 3 or 4 glasses of wine and I screwed up my choice of words. I should have said I wanted to be in an exclusive relationship first. Like who says monogamous—
How did it go?click to expand

Posted by narbWe met online in April. So 90 days from the time you start talking? Or 90 days from the first date, which is early June?
ever seen think like a man act like a lady— .... lol. that 90 day rule i think should be applied... imo. to see what the mans mo is



Posted by KilgoreLol I don't know! Go with the flow?? I know I'm not going to sleep with him this month. I'm too busy to see him!Posted by pinkbird03Haha. Well done. Trust takes time. So what now?Posted by KilgoreWell because I think you can be monogamous with one person and still be single. Which is kind of okay with me, but it's still a gray area.Posted by pinkbird03What is wrong with that word? Good you spoke up for yourself. It's hard to find the courage to do that
Thanks for everyone's advice!
The reason I am asking is because I'm confused! I had a conversation about sex with this guy I've been dating and I told him I wanted to be monogamous. He agreed to it. At first I thought that's awesome because I can trust him more and in a way he's mine. Well, then I started thinking more... Maybe this means we're going to be friends with benefits instead. I have no clue how he took it.
Gosh, I finally became brave enough to say what I want after having 3 or 4 glasses of wine and I screwed up my choice of words. I should have said I wanted to be in an exclusive relationship first. Like who says monogamous—
How did it go?
At first he said what do you mean? I couldn't even look him in the eyes I was so shy! I told him and he was fine with it. But then I turned the conversation towards trust and asked him if I could trust him. He said yes. I still told him I don't trust him! Lolclick to expand

Posted by CrabraMy liscense plate is DTF ?
There's no rule. I'm typically DTF as soon as they are. If it's with someone I've had my eye on, then I've already been waiting foreeeeever to fvck them.

Posted by KilgoreLol yea true! What do u mean by thick? In his pants? I was wondering too! I only felt it through his pants ?Posted by pinkbird03Sleep with him if/when you don't have to think twice about itPosted by KilgoreLol I don't know! Go with the flow?? I know I'm not going to sleep with him this month. I'm too busy to see him!Posted by pinkbird03Haha. Well done. Trust takes time. So what now?Posted by KilgoreWell because I think you can be monogamous with one person and still be single. Which is kind of okay with me, but it's still a gray area.Posted by pinkbird03What is wrong with that word? Good you spoke up for yourself. It's hard to find the courage to do that
Thanks for everyone's advice!
The reason I am asking is because I'm confused! I had a conversation about sex with this guy I've been dating and I told him I wanted to be monogamous. He agreed to it. At first I thought that's awesome because I can trust him more and in a way he's mine. Well, then I started thinking more... Maybe this means we're going to be friends with benefits instead. I have no clue how he took it.
Gosh, I finally became brave enough to say what I want after having 3 or 4 glasses of wine and I screwed up my choice of words. I should have said I wanted to be in an exclusive relationship first. Like who says monogamous—
How did it go?
At first he said what do you mean? I couldn't even look him in the eyes I was so shy! I told him and he was fine with it. But then I turned the conversation towards trust and asked him if I could trust him. He said yes. I still told him I don't trust him! Lol
Hopefully he is thick 😉click to expand


Posted by KilgoreMaybe! I'm kind of looking for the perfect guy! As long as it's not too small...Posted by pinkbird03Really - deal breaker??
Omg! Lol that's true! @kilgore
Thats pretty much the only possible deal breaker left on the table at this point!click to expand

Posted by andstrollbotHow long do u hold out? And why exactly do you hold out?
no future- immediately
future wife- i hold out

Posted by KilgoreYep. I've been single for years! Looking for Mr. Right. You have no idea lolPosted by pinkbird03Oh dear...Posted by KilgoreMaybe! I'm kind of looking for the perfect guy! As long as it's not too small...Posted by pinkbird03Really - deal breaker??
Omg! Lol that's true! @kilgore
Thats pretty much the only possible deal breaker left on the table at this point!click to expand

Posted by andstrollbotInteresting! Well I'm going on 5 months soon so that puts it into perspective 🙂Posted by pinkbird036 monthsPosted by andstrollbotHow long do u hold out? And why exactly do you hold out?
no future- immediately
future wife- i hold out
click to expand

Posted by KilgoreNo but I've seen and felt some pretty bad ones. I just want a good one! I do love sex so it's importantPosted by pinkbird03But thickness as a deal breaker??Posted by KilgoreYep. I've been single for years! Looking for Mr. Right. You have no idea lolPosted by pinkbird03Oh dear...Posted by KilgoreMaybe! I'm kind of looking for the perfect guy! As long as it's not too small...Posted by pinkbird03Really - deal breaker??
Omg! Lol that's true! @kilgore
Thats pretty much the only possible deal breaker left on the table at this point!
click to expand

Posted by andstrollbotNope. He's a Capricorn. He's soooo slow, but he's also the most respectful guy I've dated so I really cant hate on guys who move slow. It's actually rather refreshing! You should be proud of that!Posted by pinkbird03is he a taurus? coz we r notoriously slowPosted by andstrollbotInteresting! Well I'm going on 5 months soon so that puts it into perspective 🙂Posted by pinkbird036 monthsPosted by andstrollbotHow long do u hold out? And why exactly do you hold out?
no future- immediately
future wife- i hold out
click to expand

Posted by KilgoreLol! Oh so you know exactly how I feel!!Posted by pinkbird03It's like feeling melons in the supermarketPosted by KilgoreNo but I've seen and felt some pretty bad ones. I just want a good one! I do love sex so it's importantPosted by pinkbird03But thickness as a deal breaker??Posted by KilgoreYep. I've been single for years! Looking for Mr. Right. You have no idea lolPosted by pinkbird03Oh dear...Posted by KilgoreMaybe! I'm kind of looking for the perfect guy! As long as it's not too small...Posted by pinkbird03Really - deal breaker??
Omg! Lol that's true! @kilgore
Thats pretty much the only possible deal breaker left on the table at this point!
click to expand

Posted by andstrollbotVirgo. I believe!Posted by pinkbird03what mars?Posted by andstrollbotNope. He's a Capricorn. He's soooo slow, but he's also the most respectful guy I've dated so I really cant hate on guys who move slow. It's actually rather refreshing! You should be proud of that!Posted by pinkbird03is he a taurus? coz we r notoriously slowPosted by andstrollbotInteresting! Well I'm going on 5 months soon so that puts it into perspective 🙂Posted by pinkbird036 monthsPosted by andstrollbotHow long do u hold out? And why exactly do you hold out?
no future- immediately
future wife- i hold out
click to expand
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