@firebunny
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i just broke up with my gf but i miss her already
loss of feelings... but why do i miss her? is this a "push-and-pull" kind of thing? i don't understand... it's like a schrodinger's cat... i don't love her anymore but i still love her. it's weird...
loss of feelings... but why do i miss her? is this a "push-and-pull" kind of thing? i don't understand... it's like a schrodinger's cat... i don't love her anymore but i still love her. it's weird...
you are an interesting creature, bunny
you sure it was true lahv after only a few weeks? lolz x
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i think so... but my feelings are now messed up
Her moon you mean? I don't know
loss of feelings... but why do i miss her? is this a "push-and-pull" kind of thing? i don't understand... it's like a schrodinger's cat... i don't love her anymore but i still love her. it's weird...
you are an interesting creature, bunny
you sure it was true lahv after only a few weeks? lolz x
i think so... but my feelings are now messed up
hope it works out for the best x
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i feel like contacting her again...
loss of feelings... but why do i miss her? is this a "push-and-pull" kind of thing? i don't understand... it's like a schrodinger's cat... i don't love her anymore but i still love her. it's weird...
you are an interesting creature, bunny
you sure it was true lahv after only a few weeks? lolz x
i think so... but my feelings are now messed up
hope it works out for the best x
i feel like contacting her again...
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Nope! Don't do it! That would equate to leading her on 🙄🤦 Deal with your "loss of emotion" and allow her to move on. She could probably care less about how you FEEL / what you're going through when SHE PROBABLY FEELS WORST.
So thoughtful of you to inform dxpers that you' re on the market again
Her moon you mean? I don't know
No I meant Your's.
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Leoo.
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Bunny! Moment of the truth...drumroll please...ARE YOU FUCKING RETARDED—
loss of feelings... but why do i miss her? is this a "push-and-pull" kind of thing? i don't understand... it's like a schrodinger's cat... i don't love her anymore but i still love her. it's weird...
Well. There was a lack of emotional feeling. There was no passion or drama. So you didn't feel anything
When you break up with someone. It's often nerve wracking ...or emotional. It brings back the passion a little ....it reminds you that you used to feel things around this person because you are feeling things now ..even if it's guilt etc.
So that is maybe a part of it?
Breaking up is emotional .....it is probably the first time you 'felt' anything around her for a while.
Also now ....in your mind she is definitely in your future And you are adjusting to that. Whereas before even if you didn't feel anything ...she was always there ...who knew what could happen.
Now its definite.
And now you miss the old her ..or the old relationship ..and not having her ...
Plus its easy to remember what you like about someone when they are not there. "positivity bias,"
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i don't understand what you mean
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Bunny! Moment of the truth...drumroll please...ARE YOU FUCKING RETARDED—
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Bunny! Moment of the truth...drumroll please...ARE YOU FUCKING RETARDED—
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why mum?
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loss of feelings... but why do i miss her? is this a "push-and-pull" kind of thing? i don't understand... it's like a schrodinger's cat... i don't love her anymore but i still love her. it's weird...
Well. There was a lack of emotional feeling. There was no passion or drama. So you didn't feel anything
When you break up with someone. It's often nerve wracking ...or emotional. It brings back the passion a little ....it reminds you that you used to feel things around this person because you are feeling things now ..even if it's guilt etc.
So that is maybe a part of it?
Breaking up is emotional .....it is probably the first time you 'felt' anything around her for a while.
Also now ....in your mind she is definitely in your future And you are adjusting to that. Whereas before even if you didn't feel anything ...she was always there ...who knew what could happen.
Now its definite.
And now you miss the old her ..or the old relationship ..and not having her ...
Plus its easy to remember what you like about someone when they are not there. "positivity bias,"
i don't understand what you mean
😢
Breaking up with someone always stirs up emotions.
Just wait two months. It will pass. 🙂
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thank you 🙂
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