MOST HUMILIATING THING...

Hi guys! Well I havent been in these boards in a long while and a lot has happened in my life since the last time I was here. Im getting a divorce! I was married to an aries for a few years until he hit me, DURING A ONE DAY INTERNATIONAL CRICKET MATCH, in risk of being caught by cameras! I thought we were gonna be world news, lol, I was SO humiliated, I still hate him for it. He beat me because I was TALKING...to guy, but Im an air sign so when I see new ppl I talk regardless of their sex. Ever been humiliated?

Libra..?

Qbone..no im an aqua. He was already in a bad mood before we got to the stadium because i have worn something he didnt approve of.

Thanx TOC. Tbh it wasnt a full blown beating, he threw me with coke filled cup infront of all those ppl and then stormed out. I then went and sat outside until the game was over to spite him. When i got home i found my stuff strewn outside, bras and all-that was a decider for me. He is now remorseful but the demage is done in my eyes, no way!

Sunix.. Im not an electronic device, a tv, computer, etc so i dont come with a manual or rules book, ok? If i want to dress like ben10 or batman its all up to me, a wedding ring doesnt have to decide my wardrobe. I dont choose his, he has no say in mine, period. Comprende?

And about the beating, its a beating to ME bcoz HE threw something at ME- I dont care if its a rock or a cottonwool ball, it doesnt sit well with me. Im not gonna wait around until he gets more creative about what he throws around. It may be a cut today, it will be a sledgehammer next time around. A beating in your generation Sir (ur 98, right?) is totally different now, catch up now, will ya. Studies show that physical violence starts small and then escalates, i dont wanna be a statistic, u know how aquas hate the norm, dontcha?

Meatcake.. thanks. Yeah they do have a violent streak, but he never touched me in all our years together, he just did his litte tantrums and got over with. Im glad its over and i dont have to deal with those. He was and still is a good guy, we are friends now and he helped me move my stuff to a new place. Ill set him up on a date with the 98yr old fella since he is oblivious to what a beating is, alzheimer maybe?

EEE..i was dressed like the young woman that i am and the his reaction was the opposite of what i expected. Going with OPPOSITES, an opposite of a young woman is an old haggard man

Toc..theres been issues including his anger problems, what he did was just the cherry on top for me. I didnt tell the whole story, theres more to it but i cant say more. Its all water under the bridge for me and we are on good terms thats all that matters. EEE..I plan to play VERY hard with only 1, read my post on the aqua forum..LTEC..sorry, lol. Feed them! Let them lick the icing off too!

Thanks pech, it took me months of hiding myself, im born again now. Funny, it usually takes me years to start life again after a split but this time its different, maybe i wasnt as emotionally involved as i thought. And tnx god for that bcoz dealing with emotional pain is really hard. Ooh that pain! +faints+

Suninx..1st of all i mentioned the aqua traits thing bcoz this is an astrology site after all. Astrology aside in MY life im the CEO, THE HEAD BITCH IN CHARGE and i dont care about no chauvinistic views about what wives are supposed to act like, i act like me and thats the only scene any man is gonna see. Compromise, yada-yada arent words im familiar with. Respect is a mutual thing so telling somebody what to wear or whatever isnt very respectful now is it? Now go give a flip-flop to someone who gives a flip-flop about what ur flip-flopping about- is that flip-flopping clear? Im outside naked as we speak, see how worse ive become since he (caressed) me with a coke cup for being dressed?

WaterCup, where is your son?

Tamara..my son currently stays with his father, but im with him from friday until sunday. We both agreed that hell stay with me next year coz im not settled at the moment. The incident drove me crazy, lol- i left my job of few years and moved 3hrs drive away. Dont regret it at all. I just started a new job about 2mnths ago so all is well.

Posted by WaterCup
Ever been humiliated?

Nope.

Posted by WaterCup
Tamara..my son currently stays with his father, but im with him from friday until sunday. We both agreed that hell stay with me next year coz im not settled at the moment. The incident drove me crazy, lol- i left my job of few years and moved 3hrs drive away. Dont regret it at all. I just started a new job about 2mnths ago so all is well.

Everything will turn out okay WC. Things are tough for you right now, but I'm glad you have time with your son. He is the most important being in the world. —

And people say Scorps get a bad rep.

Chris Brown's a Taurus btw.

Just throwing that out there

Suninx ur pissing me off but lol @ Stalkio, thats funny and thanx for your input even thou it made me bristle...AA- aries are great ppl no doubt, the only problem is the anger thing (it gets old after a while)...Tamara- thank a million for your encouraging words, much appreciated.