
rockyroadicecream
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamUpdate what exactly? I am assuming you fill out the basic info (age, gender, interest) and that pretty much doesn't change. Is it like FB where people update their status everyday?
What's your first impression of someone who constantly checks it but never updates their profile information? I know of someone who does this, but I'd think if he was actively looking, even if it means just chatting up and browsing compatibilities, you'd update your info wouldn't you?
If this is how someone functions, would they essentially be using okcupid kind of like Tinder?


Posted by KoniuchaGood thing we are in love~ Where is my potato?Posted by cheekyfaerieI'm sure many do. And yes, dating is hardPosted by KoniuchaApologies then. I've never used one. I see how others do tho and the women that make threads here who seem to have been duped. Dating is hard.Posted by cheekyfaerieThat's not what I have used it for
Ha. I'd think Scorpio moon. But for realsies, what actually needs to be updated? And aren't they all just hook up sites? Really?click to expand

Posted by KoniuchaI will take care of you forever 🙂 Where are you from?Posted by bawlikestogomooI know! Potato is here!Posted by KoniuchaGood thing we are in love~ Where is my potato?Posted by cheekyfaerieI'm sure many do. And yes, dating is hardPosted by KoniuchaApologies then. I've never used one. I see how others do tho and the women that make threads here who seem to have been duped. Dating is hard.Posted by cheekyfaerieThat's not what I have used it for
Ha. I'd think Scorpio moon. But for realsies, what actually needs to be updated? And aren't they all just hook up sites? Really?click to expand

Posted by KoniuchaOkie. So we are within 2500 miles from eachother~ Let's get married ASAP. Pizza roll wedding favors.Posted by bawlikestogomooAww, That is very sweet. I am from the United StatesPosted by KoniuchaI will take care of you forever 🙂 Where are you from?Posted by bawlikestogomooI know! Potato is here!Posted by KoniuchaGood thing we are in love~ Where is my potato?Posted by cheekyfaerieI'm sure many do. And yes, dating is hardPosted by KoniuchaApologies then. I've never used one. I see how others do tho and the women that make threads here who seem to have been duped. Dating is hard.Posted by cheekyfaerieThat's not what I have used it for
Ha. I'd think Scorpio moon. But for realsies, what actually needs to be updated? And aren't they all just hook up sites? Really?click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaCan we get a dog -.-Posted by bawlikestogomooLol. Everyone loves pizza rollsPosted by KoniuchaOkie. So we are within 2500 miles from eachother~ Let's get married ASAP. Pizza roll wedding favors.Posted by bawlikestogomooAww, That is very sweet. I am from the United StatesPosted by KoniuchaI will take care of you forever 🙂 Where are you from?Posted by bawlikestogomooI know! Potato is here!Posted by KoniuchaGood thing we are in love~ Where is my potato?Posted by cheekyfaerieI'm sure many do. And yes, dating is hardPosted by KoniuchaApologies then. I've never used one. I see how others do tho and the women that make threads here who seem to have been duped. Dating is hard.Posted by cheekyfaerieThat's not what I have used it for
Ha. I'd think Scorpio moon. But for realsies, what actually needs to be updated? And aren't they all just hook up sites? Really?click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaYou are perfect :O Are you sure you want to marry me? I look funny o.OPosted by bawlikestogomooAww, That is very sweet. I am from the United StatesPosted by KoniuchaI will take care of you forever 🙂 Where are you from?Posted by bawlikestogomooI know! Potato is here!Posted by KoniuchaGood thing we are in love~ Where is my potato?Posted by cheekyfaerieI'm sure many do. And yes, dating is hardPosted by KoniuchaApologies then. I've never used one. I see how others do tho and the women that make threads here who seem to have been duped. Dating is hard.Posted by cheekyfaerieThat's not what I have used it for
Ha. I'd think Scorpio moon. But for realsies, what actually needs to be updated? And aren't they all just hook up sites? Really?click to expand

Posted by PhoenixRisingNah, the example I'm thinking of is someone who frequents okcupid. Did some updating in the beginning, including pics. But since then hasn't changed it since the job changed. It's still stuck on "taking boards" and where he used to work. If a guy was looking to get some tail, you'd think he'd change info like that to attract more women. At least that'd be my logic, anyway.Posted by rockyroadicecreamUpdate what exactly? I am assuming you fill out the basic info (age, gender, interest) and that pretty much doesn't change. Is it like FB where people update their status everyday?
What's your first impression of someone who constantly checks it but never updates their profile information? I know of someone who does this, but I'd think if he was actively looking, even if it means just chatting up and browsing compatibilities, you'd update your info wouldn't you?
If this is how someone functions, would they essentially be using okcupid kind of like Tinder?
However to answer your question, I would think the person probably just filled in the profile section because they were required to create an account, but they didn't really feel like the idea of sharing anything about themselves.click to expand


Posted by cheekyfaerieScorp Venus, actually.
Ha. I'd think Scorpio moon. But for realsies, what actually needs to be updated? And aren't they all just hook up sites? Really?
Posted by Soullolz
You should see what it's like to be an okc mod. I have to go through like 10 dog/cat pics and 30 dick pics just to make it to one naked woman pic. Thst one pic could range from hot young woman to grandmother was a little too drunk with Internet access.
Posted by cheekyfaerieIt is. It's why I've stopped giving a fuck haha. Too much trouble and it just complicates life more. It'll happen when it fucking happens. Until then, I do me!Posted by KoniuchaApologies then. I've never used one. I see how others do tho and the women that make threads here who seem to have been duped. Dating is hard.Posted by cheekyfaerieThat's not what I have used it for
Ha. I'd think Scorpio moon. But for realsies, what actually needs to be updated? And aren't they all just hook up sites? Really?click to expand

Posted by femmefataleHaha, no. His weight flutuates a bit, so that could be "deceiving" in the pics that are a year or two old, but nah, not 10 years old.
Rocky, is your friend using pics from 10 years ago? lol Now that would be shady.

Posted by TooSharplolPosted by rockyroadicecreamtinder is exactly the same as okcupid in manila. i mean that so many people on tinder here have *not looking for a hookup* written on their profile. they use it coz it's actually easy to use or they just want to be on tinder for the sake of being on tinder. you know like a fad. i think i spent a month on both before i deleted.
...which also begs the question, how many people actually use it as "dating" and more like a Tinder bit?click to expand

Posted by rockyroadicecreamAll of the dating sites have varying use just like conversation. Just because a man asks you out in person doesn't mean that he's looking for anything serious. It's the same way online. It's going to take conversation, getting to know someone, as well as trial and error to find out if they're really serious. Even through all of that...they could STILL be playing games. I'm just being honest. There's no "fool proof" way of dating. In my opinion it should be more about what you want and what your intent is. That way if people aren't on your page you "Next! them to the exit sign and move on". I really believe that while there surely is such a thing as dating "smart", there's no such thing as "dating with guarantee results of getting what you want". I thoroughly researched men, guy communication, dating, relationships, etc for like...3 of the past five years that I've been dating. I mean, I was obsessive about feeding myself with great info. I totally ignored sites and info from trendy mags or online blogs like Cosmopolitan, etc. I mostly read studies written by psychologist or those blogs where 25-100 men were surveyed regarding why they chose their significant other, etc. It was actually very helpful for me.
What's your first impression of someone who constantly checks it but never updates their profile information? I know of someone who does this, but I'd think if he was actively looking, even if it means just chatting up and browsing compatibilities, you'd update your info wouldn't you?
If this is how someone functions, would they essentially be using okcupid kind of like Tinder?
Posted by KoniuchaI have to take care of you, our daughter, and doggie -.-Posted by bawlikestogomooPosted by KoniuchaPosted by bawlikestogomoo
You are very sweetclick to expand

Posted by MsTeeq1974I wouldn't be surprised if this was the case. It's what came to mind, really. This guy in particular is obsessed with meeting new people and keeping a lot of options around. It's just funny to me that he continues his reign of emotional terror on a dating site haha.
All of the dating sites have varying use just like conversation. Just because a man asks you out in person doesn't mean that he's looking for anything serious. It's the same way online. It's going to take conversation, getting to know someone, as well as trial and error to find out if they're really serious. Even through all of that...they could STILL be playing games. I'm just being honest. There's no "fool proof" way of dating. In my opinion it should be more about what you want and what your intent is. That way if people aren't on your page you "Next! them to the exit sign and move on". I really believe that while there surely is such a thing as dating "smart", there's no such thing as "dating with guarantee results of getting what you want". I thoroughly researched men, guy communication, dating, relationships, etc for like...3 of the past five years that I've been dating. I mean, I was obsessive about feeding myself with great info. I totally ignored sites and info from trendy mags or online blogs like Cosmopolitan, etc. I mostly read studies written by psychologist or those blogs where 25-100 men were surveyed regarding why they chose their significant other, etc. It was actually very helpful for me.
Posted by KoniuchaI am a Taurus, but I act like a potato.Posted by bawlikestogomooWhat is your sign? I'm just curiousPosted by KoniuchaI have to take care of you, our daughter, and doggie -.-Posted by bawlikestogomooPosted by KoniuchaPosted by bawlikestogomoo
You are very sweetclick to expand
Posted by KoniuchaTell me more about yourself -.- A/S/L salary, height, weight, debt, food allergiesPosted by bawlikestogomooPotatoes are very yummyPosted by KoniuchaI am a Taurus, but I act like a potato.Posted by bawlikestogomooWhat is your sign? I'm just curiousPosted by KoniuchaI have to take care of you, our daughter, and doggie -.-Posted by bawlikestogomooPosted by KoniuchaPosted by bawlikestogomoo
You are very sweetclick to expand

Posted by rockyroadicecreamHmmm...I guess I don't view anyone who can't get to me physically as a threat. There's this one guy on OKCupid and many other dating sites that we DO chit chat if he sees me on any of them. lol I'm one that activates a dating app account for a couple of months, meet people, then deactivate...then I try a different app, etc. The only one that I will NOT try again is POF. LMBO!!! OMG. Just a hot mess in the making and eating. smh Anywho...I instantly recognize him and our chatting convos have followed him from state to state. I think he's in the military. We initially chatted on OKCupid I think and our convo was a late night, a bit risque....but not so. LPosted by MsTeeq1974I wouldn't be surprised if this was the case. It's what came to mind, really. This guy in particular is obsessed with meeting new people and keeping a lot of options around. It's just funny to me that he continues his reign of emotional terror on a dating site haha.
All of the dating sites have varying use just like conversation. Just because a man asks you out in person doesn't mean that he's looking for anything serious. It's the same way online. It's going to take conversation, getting to know someone, as well as trial and error to find out if they're really serious. Even through all of that...they could STILL be playing games. I'm just being honest. There's no "fool proof" way of dating. In my opinion it should be more about what you want and what your intent is. That way if people aren't on your page you "Next! them to the exit sign and move on". I really believe that while there surely is such a thing as dating "smart", there's no such thing as "dating with guarantee results of getting what you want". I thoroughly researched men, guy communication, dating, relationships, etc for like...3 of the past five years that I've been dating. I mean, I was obsessive about feeding myself with great info. I totally ignored sites and info from trendy mags or online blogs like Cosmopolitan, etc. I mostly read studies written by psychologist or those blogs where 25-100 men were surveyed regarding why they chose their significant other, etc. It was actually very helpful for me.
I just associate it with either those who use it to date or those who use it to hook up. But to just chat with no intention of anything else? A guy? Kinda different and strange. ...I shouldn't be surprised, considering this individual, tbh haha.
You think guys like that tend to be as "dangerous" as those seeking to get laid? I could see a lot of emotional misleading going on from something like that. If a female did something like that, she'd be considered a cock tease. All talk with zero intention of it going beyond the dating site/app.click to expand


Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428No lie...when I was single and bored, I did hit the guys up with very little info included, but a cute pic. I'd be like, "Hey Handsome!" LMBO!!!! ha ha ha ha ha I mean, it's like seeing someone cute and alone at an event. You do a little flirting and get on your way. lol
Oh I won't even look at a profile that just says hi or will fill out later. It has to be a few good sentences about what you are looking for and something unique about you. There's alot of competition on there.
I always look for relationship status, kids status, and height and 80 % it's blank.. So that's why I've become a very meticulous person due OK cupid and POF. People lying irl and online. Even if I do go the fuck outside I am still skeptical and an observer.

Posted by femmefataleRight?Posted by rockyroadicecreamSee that makes sense to us, but maybe he feels like it's not important? Even if he is using it like Tinder, he should want to put his best foot forward lolPosted by femmefataleHaha, no. His weight flutuates a bit, so that could be "deceiving" in the pics that are a year or two old, but nah, not 10 years old.
Rocky, is your friend using pics from 10 years ago? lol Now that would be shady.
Like I said in my previous post, I'm mostly curious because he's changed jobs, no longer in school, passed boards, and everything is still stuck on that previous stuff. You'd think a guy would want to change that when trying to attract women, no?click to expand
Posted by Koniucha🙂 I am 30. How much do you need a month to survive -.-Posted by bawlikestogomooI'm still here 🙂
Sigh, I scared the love of my life away
I am 34 and have no food allergiesclick to expand
Posted by KoniuchaOkie. Lets set a wedding date!Posted by bawlikestogomooHmm, I also have a house and a horse. ...Posted by Koniucha🙂 I am 30. How much do you need a month to survive -.-Posted by bawlikestogomooI'm still here 🙂
Sigh, I scared the love of my life away
I am 34 and have no food allergiesclick to expand
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If this is how someone functions, would they essentially be using okcupid kind of like Tinder?