Older man younger woman

I'm going to touch on a taboo subject. I'm 40yo pisces, my girlfriend is 21yo pisces, I've known her and been her friend since she was a kid, her parents and I have mutual friends. I am not her first and only boyfriend, and she still dates a few of her highschool boyfriends. She's been crushing on me since she was a teen. I feel that I was one of the people she would confide in when she was having life problems. When she hit 18 she wanted to date me, at first I refused, but after a few months I decided to give it a try. No surprise we hit it right off. Her father was not happy about this at first, but has since told me that she comes to life when I'm around, he can see it in her eyes. He is no longer bothered by us dating. Her mom was all for it right off and is very supporting, she has told me she wants to see me and her daughter together.

We have a good relationship, we have the same interests, the same beliefs, and we have a lot of good times together. She likes the security I can provide, and says she likes the fact I come home after work and spend time with her unstead of at the bar with the boys. I dont try to control or manipulate her, I want her to be her own person. I did, however, force her to go away to college. I've read all the divorce statistics of a 20 year age gap and it worried me at first, but I feel that a divorce would be unlikely because me and her entire family get along and are friends. They have accepted me, as awkward as it was at first, as the older boyfriend. Her and I haven't had any fights... yet. No matter what divorce could happen.

The fears I am having are the fact that she'll be 40 when I'm 60, 60 when I'm 80. I'm healthy now, but in the future how will my health hold up? I don't want to condemn her to being my babysitter when I'm an old man. And all those phases women go through as they age up. Do I have the patience to go through all that again? Am I at an advantage because I've been there done that and know what to expect? Is the age gap to much for a relationship to last? She is still exploring this life, I've already experienced a lot of it.

Any of you been through or currently in a may-december relationship? Did it work out or was it doomed?

Posted by 4reefer2man0
I'm going to touch on a taboo subject. I'm 40yo pisces, my girlfriend is 21yo pisces, I've known her and been her friend since she was a kid, her parents and I have mutual friends. I am not her first and only boyfriend, and she still dates a few of her highschool boyfriends. She's been crushing on me since she was a teen. I feel that I was one of the people she would confide in when she was having life problems. When she hit 18 she wanted to date me, at first I refused, but after a few months I decided to give it a try. No surprise we hit it right off. Her father was not happy about this at first, but has since told me that she comes to life when I'm around, he can see it in her eyes. He is no longer bothered by us dating. Her mom was all for it right off and is very supporting, she has told me she wants to see me and her daughter together.

We have a good relationship, we have the same interests, the same beliefs, and we have a lot of good times together. She likes the security I can provide, and says she likes the fact I come home after work and spend time with her unstead of at the bar with the boys. I dont try to control or manipulate her, I want her to be her own person. I did, however, force her to go away to college. I've read all the divorce statistics of a 20 year age gap and it worried me at first, but I feel that a divorce would be unlikely because me and her entire family get along and are friends. They have accepted me, as awkward as it was at first, as the older boyfriend. Her and I haven't had any fights... yet. No matter what divorce could happen.

The fears I am having are the fact that she'll be 40 when I'm 60, 60 when I'm 80. I'm healthy now, but in the future how will my health hold up? I don't want to condemn her to being my babysitter when I'm an old man. And all those phases women go through as they age up. Do I have the patience to go through all that again? Am I at an advantage because I've been there done that and know what to expect? Is the age gap to much for a relationship to last? She is still exploring this life, I've already experienced a lot of it.

Any of you been through or currently in a may-december relationship? Did it work out or was it doomed?

To be honest the More taboo subject is Older Woman Younger Man!

My husband is only 2 years younger than me at 38 while I am 40 but he may as well be 10 or more years younger than me. I find him very childish! And with him being an Aries doesn't help either.

I am a Capricorn and would LOVE an older Pisces man of about 50ish so I say lucky her xx and older mature experienced man who has lived and knows about life

And lucky you ?Younger woman to keep the young man in you alive! X

I know what you mean though. You don't want her being your carer etc.

I'd say if you both love each other and it works then go with the flow.

You are both Pisces so you both know how to do that.

I have never been in an older man relationship sadly. Except when I was 17 and he was 30 and it was a silly fling! Not a proper relationship.

Sorry I cannot offer any proper advice.

Just enjoy each other and the love you both have x

Don't self-sabotage.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Men die younger then women.

Anyways im almost your age. I can't see myself with a 20 year old

I don't see how men are able to do that

We value youthfulness in spirit a lot. Contrarily to women, we don't care that much about our partner having her head on her shoulder.

Once we're confident, we fully believe we can take care of her no matter what.

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Posted by 4reefer2man0
I'm going to touch on a taboo subject. I'm 40yo pisces, my girlfriend is 21yo pisces, I've known her and been her friend since she was a kid, her parents and I have mutual friends. I am not her first and only boyfriend, and she still dates a few of her highschool boyfriends. She's been crushing on me since she was a teen. I feel that I was one of the people she would confide in when she was having life problems. When she hit 18 she wanted to date me, at first I refused, but after a few months I decided to give it a try. No surprise we hit it right off. Her father was not happy about this at first, but has since told me that she comes to life when I'm around, he can see it in her eyes. He is no longer bothered by us dating. Her mom was all for it right off and is very supporting, she has told me she wants to see me and her daughter together.

We have a good relationship, we have the same interests, the same beliefs, and we have a lot of good times together. She likes the security I can provide, and says she likes the fact I come home after work and spend time with her unstead of at the bar with the boys. I dont try to control or manipulate her, I want her to be her own person. I did, however, force her to go away to college. I've read all the divorce statistics of a 20 year age gap and it worried me at first, but I feel that a divorce would be unlikely because me and her entire family get along and are friends. They have accepted me, as awkward as it was at first, as the older boyfriend. Her and I haven't had any fights... yet. No matter what divorce could happen.

The fears I am having are the fact that she'll be 40 when I'm 60, 60 when I'm 80. I'm healthy now, but in the future how will my health hold up? I don't want to condemn her to being my babysitter when I'm an old man. And all those phases women go through as they age up. Do I have the patience to go through all that again? Am I at an advantage because I've been there done that and know what to expect? Is the age gap to much for a relationship to last? She is still exploring this life, I've already experienced a lot of it.

Any of you been through or currently in a may-december relationship? Did it work out or was it doomed?

To be honest the More taboo subject is Older Woman Younger Man!

My husband is only 2 years younger than me at 38 while I am 40 but he may as well be 10 or more years younger than me. I find him very childish! And with him being an Aries doesn't help either.

I am a Capricorn and would LOVE an older Pisces man of about 50ish so I say lucky her xx and older mature experienced man who has lived and knows about life

And lucky you ?Younger woman to keep the young man in you alive! X

I know what you mean though. You don't want her being your carer etc.

I'd say if you both love each other and it works then go with the flow.

You are both Pisces so you both know how to do that.

I have never been in an older man relationship sadly. Except when I was 17 and he was 30 and it was a silly fling! Not a proper relationship.

Sorry I cannot offer any proper advice.

Just enjoy each other and the love you both have x

You married the wrong sign doh

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she should have married one with Taurus moon or Scorpio moon.



our aries sun male friend with taurus moon is homebody and very stable and consistent.

watching him in action for many years, he is very stable and reliable. and a best friend to those close and very very close to his mother too.

was on vacation in the U.S. for a couple months and heard his momma got sick, so he and his gal flew back that week! He's such a loving and good man. That taurus moon is very strong.

unfortunately he likes those air suns with gemini in them. lol (with a libra sun) with gemini and cancer/scorpio placements. lol

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Men die younger then women.

Anyways im almost your age. I can't see myself with a 20 year old

I don't see how men are able to do that

yuck.

not too young or too old.

a few years older or younger is fine.

but too much extreme like Madonna's boy toys?



no thanks.

and no old farts either.

Posted by 4reefer2man0
I'm going to touch on a taboo subject. I'm 40yo pisces, my girlfriend is 21yo pisces, I've known her and been her friend since she was a kid, her parents and I have mutual friends. I am not her first and only boyfriend, and she still dates a few of her highschool boyfriends. She's been crushing on me since she was a teen. I feel that I was one of the people she would confide in when she was having life problems. When she hit 18 she wanted to date me, at first I refused, but after a few months I decided to give it a try. No surprise we hit it right off. Her father was not happy about this at first, but has since told me that she comes to life when I'm around, he can see it in her eyes. He is no longer bothered by us dating. Her mom was all for it right off and is very supporting, she has told me she wants to see me and her daughter together.

We have a good relationship, we have the same interests, the same beliefs, and we have a lot of good times together. She likes the security I can provide, and says she likes the fact I come home after work and spend time with her unstead of at the bar with the boys. I dont try to control or manipulate her, I want her to be her own person. I did, however, force her to go away to college. I've read all the divorce statistics of a 20 year age gap and it worried me at first, but I feel that a divorce would be unlikely because me and her entire family get along and are friends. They have accepted me, as awkward as it was at first, as the older boyfriend. Her and I haven't had any fights... yet. No matter what divorce could happen.

The fears I am having are the fact that she'll be 40 when I'm 60, 60 when I'm 80. I'm healthy now, but in the future how will my health hold up? I don't want to condemn her to being my babysitter when I'm an old man. And all those phases women go through as they age up. Do I have the patience to go through all that again? Am I at an advantage because I've been there done that and know what to expect? Is the age gap to much for a relationship to last? She is still exploring this life, I've already experienced a lot of it.

Any of you been through or currently in a may-december relationship? Did it work out or was it doomed?

your fears are unfounded.

why are you fearing?

if you love eachother, it's fine.



no one can tell you otherwise.

4reefer2man0

Your worries understandable.

However woman/man can be stuck with younger man who suddenly developed health issues. It's no different from older mannwith health issues.

I say nevermind age if you both are happy!

What's good if she'll find some young bozo who has no idea how to live and treat a woman? Good luck and lots of ❤️

Meh, you're both adults. I don't see anything taboo about it.

Posted by 5TwentyOne
Anti-aging technologies are in the works. In the coming paradigm, people truly will not age like in times past. This isn't cosmetics, it's science.

There's no reason to feel old in 2017.

"Anti-aging technologies" are just old-age wisdom repackaged. More and more people are turning to natural medicine (plant-based diets, teas, meditation and exercise) to heal themselves and to keep themselves young!

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Posted by 5TwentyOne
Anti-aging technologies are in the works. In the coming paradigm, people truly will not age like in times past. This isn't cosmetics, it's science.

There's no reason to feel old in 2017.

"Anti-aging technologies" are just old-age wisdom repackaged. More and more people are turning to natural medicine (plant-based diets, teas, meditation and exercise) to heal themselves and to keep themselves young!

I'm talking about the science of of literally regenerating the body, such as use of stem cells and other factors. Nothing wrong with what you've mentioned. I think we're thinking along two different lines, though.

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Yeah, I'll take it down a philosophical route: What you mention is more exclusive treatment - and it seems to evolve around the fear of death and the fear of aging.

The ones I mentioned are for The People and are about celebrating life.

Due to societal pressure I only date (older) 90 year old women.

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Posted by rabidtalker
Due to societal pressure I only date (older) 90 year old women.

Uhh ??

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I think he sometimes overdoozing so...?